After two and a half years of getting along, I want to break up and can t let go, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-14
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I think at this point you should choose to let go.

    He has turned a blind eye to you, and now, if you barely drag it out, there is no point in such a relationship, this man, will you choose your life.

    There will be more and more contradictions in choosing a lifetime for the future.

    If that's the case, you're not making that bet on your life.

    That's a lot of money.

    It's normal for me not to be together.

    Because I just broke up, how can I guarantee that there are no memories left in my heart at all.

    What's more, it's still the first love.

    I'll get used to it after a while.

    When the time comes, you will find that you seem to live a more chic life without him, and the sky is bluer without him.

    Good luck.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Got this idea in mind? Then you have to make a decision as soon as possible, to score or not to score.

    It had to be done as soon as possible, and the idea couldn't be left in the mind for too long.

    If you want to score, show it quickly, because the longer you delay, the more you hurt the other party.

    If you don't divide it, then don't say it easily in the future.

    Because it's not easy for two people to fall in love.

    are still students, because of the efforts to extend the period of love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why is it that the people who have no interest are still following him, and they are divided early

    You're young, you're on campus, and it's easy to find good men

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Divide it and enrich yourself with learning. Otherwise, next year's graduation will be different, and you will have to go your separate ways, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's best not to drag the mud and water, which will only make you more reluctant If you really don't love it, just cut through the mess quickly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forget with another love.

    You don't live for him alone.

    There are many men in the world.

    Let him know that it's not you and no one wants it. It's that he doesn't know the goods.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Divide it, don't say you're only a few years old, if you separate after more than ten years, the pain will kill you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What can't you put down, what point you can't let go**? Life still has to look forward, you can't let go, you have no way to accept the new, if you reject the new, there will be no new changes, this is a dead cycle, don't you really want yourself to live well in the future? Learn to let go and think about yourself and the parents around you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You should find another partner, and the effect of using one relationship to ** another relationship is very good, and it may make you let go faster.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then start the next relationship, time can't be erased, new love can.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What doesn't belong to you just doesn't belong to you, don't be too obsessed, I think it's better to let go as soon as possible, you can start a new life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the other party is still single, you can pursue each other again, because it is better to start again when the two of you are together, but if the other party already has a partner, you can try to slowly let go and start a new life.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have to come out actively, why should you keep immersed in what has happened, people have to look forward, you can't keep holding on to the past, I believe that as long as you come out, you will meet someone who is more worthy of your favorite.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It should be walked out and never recalled. And you should have to accept new people, and the best way to forget the old love through new love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should enlighten yourself, see some psychiatrist, or do something else you like to divert your attention.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can travel with good friends to relax, change your mood and start a new relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should try to enlighten your thoughts and get yourself out of the shadow of the past as soon as possible, otherwise you will not be happy for the rest of your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello dear, I can understand your emotions right now, because it is a common problem to still have difficulty letting go after a breakup, and it takes time and recovery to deal with. But, first of all, I want to ask you what was the reason for the breakup? If the reason for the breakup is due to some unsolvable issues, such as cheating on each other or the other person needs time to grow, then contacting your ex may cause you more pain because you haven't fully walked out yet.

    In this case, it is very important to focus on your own emotional recovery and growth. You can try to focus on or get involved in something you enjoy, develop your interests, spend time with friends and family, or seek professional counselling. On the other hand, if the reason for the breakup was due to some altercation or a misunderstanding with Sakurashu Lee, then you may want to consider communicating with your ex again so that you understand each other and eliminate unnecessary misunderstandings and problems.

    This is done if you both want to improve and are willing to put in the effort to do so. If you feel that this method can be tried, then you need to have the courage and determination to admit your mistakes and actively seek solutions, as well as to think about the other person's position and needs. Whichever approach you want to try, remember to give yourself time to process your emotions and don't force yourself to forget about the past.

    Recovery takes time and patience. If you feel like you can't resolve your emotional issues on your own, consider talking to a professional psychologist or counsellor who can give you better advice and support. The above is about your question.

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