What would it be like to marry someone you don t love?

The first experience, love has been the best! It's actually tiring to find a favorite to spend your life. The favorite may not be suitable for life, sometimes it is not really in love but can grow old, depending on how you choose.

In fact, life is made up of many aspects, and there is not only love.

The second experience, a person you don't like, there must be a reason for you not to like, because of her (his) appearance or behavior, taste and virtue, no one can be perfect, if she makes you don't like what you can accept, then there is no problem, if you feel like a fish in the throat can not accept, then I advise you to consider the matter of marriage.

The third experience, you must know that marriage has a great impact on people's lives, and you must not be hot-headed, some people say that marriage does not like to divorce, you must know that divorced men and women, and then the attitude towards the next relationship is absolutely different, and in this environment, it is difficult to avoid other people's words, which will be annoying.

The fourth experience, marriage is a sacred and beautiful thing, it contains sweetness and has more responsibilities, find someone to fall in love or get married, it is best to see the advantages of the other party, the first thing to talk about when you fall in love, there is that feeling, two people to get married to come, to be able to tolerate and understand each other, if you don't like it very much before you get married, not to mention that there are so many trivial things added after marriage, why should you take that responsibility for a person who doesn't like it very much, if it is persecuted by parents, the surrounding environment, I think it's better to think about getting married.

The fifth experience, since he is willing to marry me, it means that he has some liking or not dislike for me. I think if I really like him very much, and he is willing to marry me, I will still accept it. Feelings can be cultivated.

Trap him first and let him be my person, and over time, there will be feelings sooner or later. Not to mention the intimacy of husband and wife. There are many people who are not married to their first love, but have a family with another person.

After many years, the heavier weight in my heart should be the lover who accompanies me.

It can be a particularly painful experience, because I don't love each other at all, so when I get along, the other person doesn't want to pay attention to what I say to myself.

It is a particularly bad experience, because the life of two people will not be too good, and there will be irritability and contradictions in life.

I feel that two people are just making do with their lives, there is no hope, and life is very dull.

If you marry someone who doesn't love you, then every day will be very hard and tiring, and you won't have too many topics to communicate with each other, more quarrels will go to the cold war, and the relationship will only fade.

1. I won't choose to marry someone I don't like. The first is because there is no emotional foundation.

Second, it is easy to have contradictions.

3. Marriages are prone to breakdown.

I wouldn't have made such a choice anyway, and I felt that if I couldn't find someone I loved, then I'd rather be single. Because I think this kind of day may make me live a little more comfortable, so that I don't have to face a person who I don't feel like I am inspired by every day, then I will really feel very broken, and there is no way to stay with him at all.

It's a bad experience to marry someone I don't love, and I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. Because all people know that love is definitely based on two people liking each other, if there is no love, then there is no way for you to go on. In fact, in life, everyone will have a lot of contradictions and rules when they get along, but because you love him and you care about him, you are willing to tolerate him and change for him.

But if there is no love between the two of you, you don't want to settle with him at all, and no matter what happens, you will feel very annoyed. So how can you spend the rest of your life with him in such a situation? A person's life is very long, he has decades of time, if you have to face a person you don't love for decades, then what do you think is the meaning of such a marriage, such a life?

Personally, I don't think that even if we don't get married, we can't just choose someone we don't love, or choose to get married in order to cope with the people in the family.

And after getting married, you still have to have children, if you don't love him, how can you willingly give birth to a child for him? If you think about it, if a child grows up in a loveless family, and his father and mother do not love each other, do you think such a child can grow up physically and mentally healthy? I don't think so, so we can't do anything like that for the sake of our children or for ourselves.

You can not love, you can not get married, but you must not be able to compromise, and you must be responsible for yourself.

Because I don't love, I don't have any expectations and requirements for my other half, I won't be disappointed, I won't be jealous, and I won't be angry.

It feels very painful, because the other person's every move will become an excuse for you to dislike the other person.

I wouldn't choose to marry someone I don't love. The loneliest thing in the world is not that the person you love leaves you, but that you spend a long life with someone you don't love. Love is the beginning of marriage, and marriage is the end of love.

In a happy marriage, you can't live without love, if before marriage, you choose to marry someone you don't love, then after marriage, it is really difficult for you to be happy. I want to tell you with my experience of annihilating the mountain in the spring, it is really painful to marry someone you don't love, he will never understand what you say, and you don't understand what he says, and the two of them are not on the same level at all.

At this time, the more you regret your choice, I thought that there was so much love or not, and it was not all the same when you got married, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, only to find out later that it was not like this, and married a person you don't love, every time you encounter something or have a quarrel, the first thing you think of is regret, and you always think, you should not have married him in the first place.

I also tried to love him in the past, tried to accept the current life, but it was useless, if I didn't love, I didn't love, even if I got married, I still didn't love, and I might have feelings, it was just a little family affection together, not love.

So, when choosing who to marry, you must be cautious and don't leave yourself with a lifetime of regrets!