How are women who didn t want children in their divorce doing now?

In today's era, for women, love is fleeting, marriage is fragile, and men are easy to betray, only children really belong to themselves, because children are born by themselves and are the flesh that falls from their own bodies.

It may be released to a certain extent, and regain the freedom to marry, but it is often condemned by conscience, there is such an example around me, a woman who abandoned my friend and his father married someone else and also had a child, but my friend is living in poverty, every time his mother comes to see him, he will be particularly disgusted, and he will not call his mother, from the bottom of his heart he thinks that she abandoned him, probably the most sorry thing after he left in a chic way is the child who once loved you the most.

My mom and my dad often quarrel, often quarrelsome, they are not suitable, they should have divorced a long time ago, or they should not have gotten married, this is something that our children all believe, but my mom is kind-hearted, she doesn't care about my dad, but she cares about us, and will never let her children accept the pain of family breakup, even if life is stressful later, my mom will not leave us, she could have left directly, but she definitely can't let go of us,I have always felt that my mother is the greatest mother in the world, because she has paid a lot for herself, she is not as beautiful as others, she went out to work alone to support us at the age when she should be in full bloom, and now she is middle-aged and has a lot of gray hair.

If you think about it again, when giving birth to a child, when a mother hears whether she is thinking about an adult or a child, she does not hesitate to say that she protects the child, when you really feel the conception process of a life, you have compassion from the heart, and absolutely refuse to deprive the child of the right to come to this world, a mother can even give her life for the sake of the child, so even if she does not want children when she divorces, she will never forget her heart, and she will definitely miss and blame herself if she does not see her for a long time.

But it can also be very comfortable, if a mother is really heartless, she can completely leave her past behind and start a new life, yes, you do gain the freedom to find a life partner again, but this price comes in exchange for the innocence of the child. So mothers who don't want children can choose to wave their sleeves, but this will be hated by their children for the rest of their lives, and I've seen many children who are only brought up by their mothers, and none of them don't praise their mothers for being great.

From a practical point of view, there is a big gap between remarrying with children after divorce and remarrying without children, and when you divorce, you refuse to have children because you are afraid that he will become a burden. However, when you really leave your children and live the life you want to live, anyone who has children in her heart regrets not being able to take her children and feels sorry for them.

Now I have a very chic life, but at the same time, I will feel a little lonely, and I will want to change my mind.

Of course, your own life will be very free, happy, happy, and comfortable.

In fact, it is really difficult for a divorced woman to find a new partner if she has a child, and it will be easier for her to rebuild a family and choose another love that suits her if she does not have children.

In fact, they should be very happy now, because they may have a new life and a new child.

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What happened to those women who didn't want children when they divorced?

Thinking about the child and thinking of depression, opening and closing the eyes are all children, and they can't see.

If the woman is still relatively young, she can also have another child in the new family, because it is very hard for a woman to take care of her own children, it is not easy, and it is difficult for a girl to earn money.

Now I regret it; Because you will find that your children have a bad impression of you, will hate you, and even deny you, and now you will regret it and want your children to follow you.

Of course I regret it. Because women don't want children, and the second marriage is not very happy, the second marriage has no children of their own, and it is very lonely.

What happened to those women who divorced and didn't have children? .It's miserable. Divorce is actually very painful for women, especially if they have children.

Only those who have experienced the pain of confusion, hesitation, contradiction and tearing can understand. Not only is she afraid that her children will suffer with her, but she is also worried that it will affect her future children's lives.

If the mother's family interferes and opposes it, it will be more difficult for her to decide whether to have children or not during the divorce. Now, he is always in the throes of this contradiction. For women who have experienced marriage, love is reliable, marriage is fragile, men are also prone to betrayal, and only children are truly their own.

What about those "childless divorced" women now?

<> with or without children, I think they're all fine. The important thing is that they chose to divorce at that time, which required a lot of courage. A woman who leaves without children after a divorce can pretend to be nothing during the day, but every night, she thinks about the pain of her children and thinks that she has become a single-parent family.

and think that they cannot see the growth of their children with their own eyes. Only those who have experienced it can understand this feeling. It's really hard to explain the emotional stuff, when two people love each other, they don't worry about anything, even if the other party has nothing, they are willing to marry him.

But when the feelings change, everything begins to worry, the division of property between the two people, as well as the ownership of some houses. Even some women don't want their children to have a home when they get divorced. So, what about women who want a childless home after a divorce?

This is the experience of some women, in fact, people are very selfish. Whenever and wherever they are, they always want to bring their own nuclear weapons.

They say that once a woman becomes a mother, she becomes especially selfless and great. Women are weak, but mothers are strong. This judgment applies well to some, but to others, they do not deserve such honor.

Because these women are unhappy in their marriages, but they already have children, when they divorce, you are afraid that the children will be an obstacle to your future marriage, so when they divorce, you will ruthlessly leave your children.

To be accurate and objective, those women who divorce men and don't have children must regret it in the end. You know, only stupid women and cold-blooded women will not want their own children in the event of a divorce. Of course, I know that some women don't want children, but they really can't afford to have children, or they can't win children, which is another matter.

For those women who don't want children when they divorce, people can't understand it, including her children are also very sad, and when the children grow up, it is difficult to recognize her as a mother. Although, that blood relationship is still there, the feelings for each other will be replaced by indifference and ruthlessness, and in the end, they can only become familiar strangers, and no one even wants to know anyone.

Remind every woman that no matter what happens to your marriage, no matter what kind of family you encounter, please don't abandon your children easily, and don't give up your responsibilities as a mother easily.

1. Most women are not financially independent, do not have a good economic foundation, or choose to be a full-time mother after giving birth, and are completely financially dependent on men. When the marriage came to an end, he was unable to raise his children alone and was forced to choose to give up his children.

2. Some women are more selfish, and when they divorce, they only think about their future life, and it is very difficult to live with children after divorce, and it is not good to remarry if they remarry, so they choose to give up their children.

3. When most people divorce, the man will do his best to fight for the custody of the boy, the man thinks that the boy is the root of his family and cannot be taken away by the woman, and the woman is not as advantageous as the woman in terms of economic income, housing and other conditions, so she cannot fight for the custody of the child. The family that gives birth to a girl generally depends on the woman's opinion, and the girl can be raised by whomever she wants, but most of them are raised by the woman.

Therefore, I think that men and women should have children after marriage after careful consideration, and both parties are ready to be parents before deciding to have children, so that children can grow up in a loving family, and if the marriage breaks down, they should also consider which party the child is more suitable to live with, so as to minimize the harm to the child.