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I think you should try to communicate with your parents and say what you think! It's the best.

Your situation is a bit special, but I still decided to let you hang out with your classmates, because although you are almost in the ninth grade, you still can't understand some things, and your relatives are adults and can understand others better, I think they will forgive you, if you choose relatives, your classmates may cause misunderstandings to you, and then there may be cracks in friendship! This is not a good result.

You see each other every day at school, but you're busy with your studies, aren't you? I can feel that when I was in the ninth grade, I was holding a book even after class, and I really didn't have the opportunity to chat with my classmates, and I couldn't even chat together after school, so I had to rush home to eat, take a shower, and then study, so I was very busy for high school! Downstairs, let me tell you, although classmates meet every day, there are really few opportunities to communicate together.

Unless you don't plan to go to high school, or plan to go to a technical school or something, then you can have a lot of time, but others don't necessarily think so, even if you have time, others don't, you still can't chat with them, play with!

You can go out this time, and then come back and explain to your relatives, just apologize, and then spend the next few days with them, and the adults will forgive you!

I suggest that you don't go with your classmates, because you used to go out with your classmates every Sunday, and you didn't go once or twice, and your relatives are all elders, so it's not easy to come all the way, and it's a bit rude not to greet or receive you in order to see you, so I suggest you abandon your classmates.

You can call your classmates and say: "Today's relatives come to my hometown, all the elders come from afar, my parents don't let me go out to play, let me receive them, I can't go today, let's go again next week if we have the chance." I'm sorry to miss the appointment, I hope you can understand!

I'm sure they'll understand.

You should stay at home because it is not easy for your relatives to come from afar and can come several times a year. It's hard to see each other, it's okay if your classmates don't have you this week, you see each other every day at school, and your relatives don't come for long, so you tell your classmates that there are guests at home, and your classmates will understand.

Stay at home, don't let your relatives think you're ignorant, tell your classmates about the situation at home, ask them to understand, there will be opportunities to play in the future, and have fun after graduation!

Upstairs. Have you thought carefully about it, after graduation, everyone will not be able to be admitted to the same high school, and when the time comes, how can they play together? If you want to play together, it is estimated that everyone will have to take a vacation together, and it will be a long time before you can have a party!

It's better for you to choose friendship. Adults can be considerate of you, just like my grandparents will be considerate of me, they will say: "It's okay, children, it's normal to love to play, I can see them so happy every day, it's already very satisfying", I am also very filial to my grandparents, because they are very kind!

I really like them.

It depends on your choice, which one you choose, family affection or friendship.

My best friend posted more than a dozen messages on WeChat, crying about how bad her current boyfriend is, but she was struggling with whether to leave. On the one hand, I can't stand it, and on the other hand, I haven't made up my mind to break up.

Many of the quarrels between couples are smaller than chicken feathers. Her boyfriend drank and forgot her birthday, and she was very disappointed. When you have great hopes, it's not that the disappointment is greater, but that you can't accept the slightest disappointment, because your hopes are too great, and you fantasize about all kinds of romantic situations and how he will celebrate this birthday for you.

As a result, he forgot, and that's why you're so sad. If you didn't have that much expectation for this, your emotions wouldn't have fluctuated so much.

The girlfriend complained that her boyfriend was not considerate at all, and always disliked her for this bad and that bad, saying that she was naïve, her thinking was not the thinking of an adult, and she loved to play with her temper. Let me help her analyze it. I'm not an expert on relationships, and I said that maybe everyone loves you differently, and his dislike and saying that you are naïve may be the way he loves you.

Hearing this, my girlfriend was obviously in a much better mood. Again, I talked about why love can't be expressed in a way that I can feel. You don't need a father who criticizes you but loves you, and this kind of silent love is not as great as fatherly love.

To love you is to spoil you and love you, and it has nothing to do with subtlety. When I said this, she seemed to fall into a depressed mood again.

I also said that you have been spoiled by your parents for more than 20 years, and your friends have cared for and loved you for more than 20 years, and you are looking for a boyfriend to cherish you more, rather than disliking you everywhere in your relationship. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's that he doesn't love you enough. Why do you have to endure such treatment, what, love, she doesn't have this problem herself, but it seems that she suddenly realized that she knows what she should do next.

In fact, she already had the answer in her heart, but she didn't have the courage to admit it. Many decisions we ourselves have the answer in our hearts, but we just want to make you more certain through the eyes of others and the mouths of others. Whether a man loves you or not, this woman can be very sure of this answer, but many times, we are used to making too many excuses for him and deceiving ourselves.

So, be brave enough to face your decisions and listen to your heart's voice.