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It's useless to say anything, the more he talks, the more sad he becomes, it's better not to say it, you just stay with him often, he's definitely very confused now, if he needs help, you just try your best to help Those words of comfort are all in the TV series, and it doesn't work to put them on real people.

At this time, silence is better than sound, stay by his side more, give him some support, let him know that there are still many people in this world who care about him and love him, and he can get out of the dark time sooner.

Talk to her about interesting things that happened to you, and don't mention your condition. Go see her more, greet her, and bring some fruit.

To your cousin, 'Birth, old age, sickness and death are common, after she dies, her soul will be exceeded, and she will definitely go to heaven.'

That's to go with your cousin.

Talk to him.

Let's chat. Ask about your cousin's mother.

Is there anything I need help with?

At this time, it is useless to comfort anything, the more you comfort a sick person, the more he will give him a feeling that he will not live long and will be terminally ill and hopeless, the whole atmosphere will be very depressing and gloomy, the more you comfort him, the more desperate he is, so it all depends on his own mentality, you still treat him as usual, chat with him more and joke and gag, what he wants to do with him, let him live a happy life

People will not be defeated by illness, it is themselves who really defeat people.

I suggest finding some stories from the Internet about people who have terminal cancer but are still living a positive life and tell them that they will have hope and feel better about life.

In this way, we can better adhere to **.

Don't you see any examples of terminal cancer being saved? Don't worry, optimism is the hope of success, if there is no optimism, if there is no hope, take him out for a walk, and firmly believe that it will always be good.

Actually, I think he should forget that he is a sick person.

Let him listen to more joyful songs.

This will put him in a good mood.

Better to fight the disease.

Your words of comfort to him can only make him feel more pitiful, touching the scene, not saying anything, staying with him for the rest of his father, and living the rest of his life (what do you comfort and say that there is a miracle, if there is, it is good, if not, you think about what will happen to him, when you say that there is a miracle, his heart seems to be shone by the sun, and once it is there, he will also) (—5).

Perhaps the best consolation is financial. This is my opinion, I don't know what you think ?

My admonition to keep in mind that what you have to do now is something that words can't replace. Now, no amount of affectionate words can soothe the pain of your boyfriend's imminent loss of father.

Because no matter how tactful, sincere, and sincere the language is, it will seem so pale to your boyfriend. The pain of losing a loved one will make him lose his mind, and the thing that can restore his sanity and make him continue to love you deeply after the loss of his father is your sincere dedication. He should take care of his father as if he were his own father, and not show a sad expression in front of the patient, but give strength to the patient; When you are alone with your boyfriend, you have to learn to cry and speak too pale, so that your boyfriend will feel that you are also his relative, your heart is with him, and if you resonate, he will cry.

Crying out is not a bad thing, especially for men, it can relieve the depression that has accumulated in his heart for a long time, which is beneficial to his body and mind, and can help him downplay the great pain caused by the loss of his father ......And he will definitely be like a child, he will hold you, or you will take the initiative to hold him ......

Actually, I had a similar experience. In this case, you can't say anything to him, don't be too sad, after all, it's really heartbroken, and I care. But you can accompany him silently, use your actions to tell him that he still has you, and accompany him through the difficulties.

Later, my boyfriend told me that he was thankful that I was with him at the time, but I felt that loving someone was giving with all my heart.

Tell him that you will walk with him through the days to come, and that you will be with her no matter what. Take care of his dad with him. Let him understand that you love Wu and Wu, and love his father the same, and persuade him to be sad and make his father happy in the last days.

Comfort him: People are inherently dead, it's only a matter of time, although whether he has gone to heaven or not, I don't think he should believe it.

He will now feel that his father is gone, leaving him alone, he will feel very lonely and fragile at the same time, he will feel very lonely and vulnerable, at this time you must look stronger than him, give him enough comfort, always care about him, let him know that no matter how big things happen, you will always be by his side, never leave him. You should love your boyfriend very much, so I think you'll do it well! I've had experience with this, and now that I think about it, alas, it's still sad.

Be there for him, he needs comfort, he speaks when he needs it, and he is silent when he needs to be quiet.

We don't have the same experience, but I think it's more difficult to be a person now, and of course people have different personalities.

You're going to have to see for yourself, you've worked hard.

I don't have much experience, but I can give you some advice: first, spend more time with him, that's for sure, and second, don't comfort him with saying that his dad will be fine, which is obviously not true. Also, if he can't bear it because of these things, then he is not a man.

It depends on the situation.

Tell him, no matter what happens in the future, I will be by your side, and I will accompany you all the way.

Either you talk to your family and let them talk together and comfort them.

It's unfortunate that this kind of thing is more than ever known.

Don't say anything. Be by his side ... Take care of him ... Your dad is gone. And me...

First of all, you have to take care of his father more and let him know that you really take care of her. As long as you pay sincerely, you will be rewarded!

You should be by his side and let his emotions blow off. Also, you have to advise him that as long as he is in a good mood, he can make his father's mood good, which is good for the condition. Cancer is natural**, it's all about being in a good mood.

You can find some motivational books for him to read.

Make more time to spend with his dad.

This works better than accompanying him.

We all know Dad's illness very well, but we should accept it with a smile, shouldn't we? We can also do a very happy thing to make Dad feel very happy, soon. I'm with you to make Dad happy through these last days.

If you really don't know how to comfort you, come to a silent company

Tell him that he still has you. You will always be with him. The sky is a lot of sugar, so it's no big deal to smile. Some things can't be changed. I hope you are happy.

If there is no hope, accompany him more, at this time you don't need a lot of words, silently being by his side is the best comfort, I hope God bless the appearance of miracles, and good people will have a safe life!

You just tell him that at least you are by his side.

Tell others that you can't come back to life, that it's over, and that Dad doesn't want to see you like this.

Spend more time with him, you will be a good daughter-in-law.

Sympathizing with him and being with him is the greatest comfort to him!

Accompany him, do what you can for him, accompany him to do something for his father.

Of course, give him more encouragement, cheer him up, and tell him that you are still with him.

You send it like this: I heard that everyone will become a star in the end You must be the brightest one Eun Smile every day Don't be sad about something Remember It's not a big deal to smile Tomorrow will be better and more beautiful than today.

In fact, she didn't really leave, but existed in another form. Don't be sentimental, she is still with her, always with her.

Just passed away, you must not mention this, it is better not to say anything, if you must say something, don't mention something else, and wait until he is in a better mood in the future

People must first be able to face the regrets of life correctly and accept them in the shortest possible time. People with a strong heart can resolve many regrets in life! Trust you to be the most powerful person!

If you can, no matter how much it is, it is a love and care! They can understand. It's nice to be able to step up and help!

Talk more about light topics, some positive things, and encourage more.

If you can come to the door to offer condolences in person, it will be better to go in person, and it will be better to call ** if you can't.

Gave him the money, needless to say.

What is leukemia.

Leukemia is a malignant disease of hematopoietic tissues, also known as "blood cancer". It is characterized by the unrestricted proliferation of a large number of leukemia cells in the bone marrow and other hematopoietic tissues, and enters the peripheral blood, while the production of normal blood cells is significantly inhibited, the disease ranks first among the malignant diseases in young people, ** is still not fully understood, the virus may be the main cause, but there are many factors such as radiation, chemical poisons (benzene, etc.) or drugs, genetic predisposition, etc. may be pathogenic cofactors. According to the degree of immaturity of leukemia cells and the natural history of leukemia, it is divided into two categories: acute and chronic.

Leukemia is a malignant tumor of the hematopoietic system and one of the most common malignant tumors in China. According to the retrospective survey, the incidence of leukemia in each region is the sixth highest among all types of tumors. Leukemia is the malignant proliferation of leukemia cells in the bone marrow, spleen, liver and other hematopoietic organs, which can enter the blood circulation and infiltrate into various tissues and organs of the body.

There are more men than women with leukemia.

It is characterized by malignant and unrestricted proliferation of leukemia cells in the bone marrow and other hematopoietic tissues, infiltrating various tissues and organs of the body, producing different symptoms; There are quantitative and qualitative changes in the surrounding blood cells. Every day, the bone marrow produces tens of billions of new blood cells, most of which are red blood cells. People with leukemia produce more white blood cells than they need, and most of them are immature, naïve cells, and survive longer than normal.

Despite their large number, these white blood cells do not fight infection as well as normal white blood cells. This increase in white blood cells in the body will directly affect the function of some important organs and affect the production of normal healthy blood cells. Due to the malignant proliferation of tumor cells, inhibiting the production of red blood cells and platelets to stop bleeding, and even not enough normal white blood cells to fight infection, it is easy to be injured, bleeding, and infected.

Therefore, leukemia can be cured, with current medical technology, there is no need to worry about this matter, as long as you cooperate with the doctor's **, I believe it will be cured soon.

To be honest, leukemia is really not easy to treat People who don't have this disease don't feel the pain at all, it's the torture of losing hope and losing confidence, as a friend, we are not to mention his lover, we should understand him, from a realistic point of view, don't accept **is also a kind of**, use more energy to reflect the beauty of life, do what you like, go where you want to go, I believe that as long as there are dear people around, it's not a waste of time, I don't know if what I said can help you, But I sincerely wish that good people have a safe life!

There is no feast in life, they just leave early.

Enlighten him first, enlighten him, if it's still like this, if it's me, I'll slap him twice to cheer him up, and want to live well for his mother like a person.

Ask him, your mother sees that you are so virtuous now, it is better to die!

People in this situation, don't give sympathy, sympathy will make him feel cowardly, take him to play first, relieve his mood, and distract him.

After a long time, everything will pass.

Before the death of your friend's mother, whether your friend is filial, it can be seen that he should be very filial, so that the old man is also very relieved, after all, it is not your friend who is wrong, people will be old, there is a day of birth, old age, sickness and death, when you are fine, accompany your friend to the cemetery to see his mother, you also say some humorous words to your friend's mother's grave, for example, after you are gone, your child has been thinking about you, the soul is not kept, how unsafe, I advise him He will not listen to me, you are old before you died, Your child will not let you worry, now you are in heaven, your child does not let you worry, always worry about you, you also know that this is filial piety to your old, xx has done it, if it goes on like this, the body collapses, this is unfilial piety to you,。。 Saying to the grave of your friend's mother, in fact, is to say it to your friend, without any allusions or philosophical words, just accompany your friend more

Time will make him forget everything, do you think you can just talk about it? If he had to do it, he would have come out a long time ago, wouldn't he?

Everyone is very sad about the loss of their loved ones. It is especially painful for a person whose psychological capacity is not too strong, and it will be difficult to return to normal for a long time. Don't be in a hurry to make him happy, normal people are like this, there is nothing wrong, as long as you understand him more, accompany him silently, let his feelings be confided, or vented.

Then let him slowly accept the facts, occasionally amuse him, and encourage him to be strong, because his mother wants to see him in the spirit of heaven as a man.