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It's very difficult, my wife and I are against both family members, but we insist on getting married, and life after marriage is very difficult, because we have children, we are not financially well-off, so we move back to live with my parents, it's just three days of a big quarrel and two days of a small quarrel, the days are so hard, you can get married, but don't go back to live with your parents, they will find out even a little bit of things before and after your marriage and make trouble with you, and even stir-fry more oil and less oil This kind of thing will make a big noise, There is also the cost of water and electricity, which is a monthly noise.
I advise you to think clearly about getting married, otherwise you will suffer the same as us.
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It depends on several factors:
1. The determination of the two to love each other;
2. The status of both parties in the hearts of parents;
3. The degree of love that parents have for their children;
3. The ways and abilities of both parties to convince their parents.
Not the majority of those who oppose it will succeed, and only 1% of those who oppose it will persist until the end.
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It's hard to say, it depends on how much ability the person has to convince the parents of both parties.
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It's easy! Do you think the other person can give you happiness? Can you do anything for you? You can communicate well with your family. At that time, my parents were also against it, but after communication, we are now married, but they are very good to me. I hope you can be happy.
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Selfish people are able to come together in the end.
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First of all, know why they are against, why you insist, and what are the reasons for their opposition? And what is the reason for your insistence? Are your parents against it?
If it is your parents, you have to think about it carefully, carefully weigh it, whether the reasons for their opposition are valid, and the reasons for your insistence are feasible or not, as the saying goes, do not listen to the old people in front of you, the opinions of the old people are not necessarily correct, but they have a high reference value, after all, they are older than us, more experienced than us, see the problem more deeply than us, and do not have our impulse, can objectively analyze the pros and cons, gains and losses.
When you have carefully considered their opinions, and then put your reasons on the table, think carefully, think carefully, what should you do, whether to listen to the family, or stick to your own opinions, at this time you may have made up your mind, and you have also made a decision on what to do, at this time, you will be responsible for yourself, your current decision will directly affect your future life, determine your happiness or not.
Each of us must have our own ideas, views and practices, we must have our own ideas, don't hesitate when we decide, we can't be half-hearted, we must be sincerely devoted, all our feelings, we must do it well, we will talk about it, we don't have to take it into account, we don't have to worry about whether it is right or wrong, we must go on without hesitation, love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families, there is no love for no reason, there is no hate for no reason, it is difficult to do the work of parents, only two people support each other, Stick to the end, there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, <>
The feelings that the family does not agree with should be broken up in principle, today's society is a group society, betraying the family is sometimes very painful, if the relationship between the two people is not blessed by the family, the road will be more difficult to walk, the poor couple mourns, this is the most true portrayal of the real society, the feelings that the family does not agree with have their own family considerations, although it cannot be said to be 100% right, but it must be well thought-out, I hope everyone is happy, this is my opinion, I hope netizens criticize and correct.
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If your parents strongly oppose being together, but you love each other very much, I think it is necessary to stick to it, the feelings are your own, and there is no need to listen to your parents.
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I think it's necessary to persevere, as long as you feel right and don't have the slightest remorse, I think it's okay to persevere, because your parents just want you to find someone who is rich, but you want to find someone who loves you.
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There is no need to stick to it, because after all, marriage is a matter of two families, and if you don't get the blessing of your family, your marriage will generally not be happy, so you still have to listen to your family's opinions.
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Don't insist on it any longer, there must be a reason for the feelings that your parents don't agree with, and this reason is very important to you in the eyes of your parents.
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If the relationship encounters strong opposition from parents and family members, if they really like each other and are willing to give each other, then it is necessary to persevere.
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I don't think it's necessary, because it's really hard, it's not good, it's boring.
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This is a multifaceted matter that needs to be considered, and you can't give up just because your parents are against it, but you also need to consider the reasons for your parents' opposition.
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The love that was opposed by your parents, I think in the end, if both of you are very firm, and then you also love each other, and give each other, you will definitely be happy, and your happiness can only be felt by me.
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What about the opposition of your parents, there is their opinion, they give you advice, but in the end it is you who do the result, so you have to make your own judgment according to your own situation, their suggestions, if you choose the other party, everything that happens in the end, you will bear it yourself, so everything is up to you to bear the matter, you should be in charge, even if you are not happy, it is also your own business.
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It is difficult to be happy in a relationship that is opposed by your parents because you don't have the support of your parents. After marriage, it is easy for two people to have conflicts because of their families, which can easily lead to emotional breakdown.
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It depends on the individual, although the parents are against it, but the boy is positive and self-motivated, then he will be happy, and if the parents oppose it, the reason is the same as that of the parents, then the girl will not be happy if she marries him, she will only be very tired,
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A relationship that parents oppose will not be happy, because parents are the ones who know themselves best besides themselves, and they will quickly make the right judgment.
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It will not be happy, because when there is a problem in the relationship between two people, you will be wronged a lot, and you will regret it very much, and your heart will be very entangled.
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It is generally difficult to achieve happiness in the end when a love is opposed by parents, because it is often said that a marriage without the blessing of parents is an imperfect marriage. After all, your parents will come to you, and they have too much life experience to be able to foresee your future well.
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Parents are against it, whether lovers will be happy, in fact, there are many who will be happy. In the early stage, the parents were opposed, but later found that it had no effect at all, and the parents would change their minds and become supportive.
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Parents are against it, there must be a reason, parents will definitely consider the problem from your point of view, will want to make your love life smoother, life more happy, so you must refer to their opinions, and finally make a decision.
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If our parents do not support our love, it means that the other party must have some shortcomings that cannot be accepted. Our parents, as people who have come from the past, can provide us with the most correct guidance.
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The first thing is to understand the reasons why your parents are against your love. Then you should also examine your love, whether you want to persevere, if you want to persevere, then communicate well with your parents.
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It depends on how your parents objected? If your parents are against this person because they see this person clearly, then your parents are right, if your parents are simply against this person, just because this person has no money, and oppose him, I don't think he can decide whether your final relationship will be happy or not? You will be happy, love is still on your own.
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I think feelings are actually a matter for two people, and parents have their own reasons against them, and you can understand the real reasons. Then try to communicate with them.
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It depends on whether the hearts of the two people are moving in the direction of happiness, and the parents oppose to understand the real thoughts and persuade the parents to get married.
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There are very few who can be happy to the end, because most of the love that is not blessed by your parents is because your parents see that you can't go to the end with that person.
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I think that there are very few people who can be happy in the end because of the love that is opposed by their parents, after all, their parents are from the past and they can see it very accurately.
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If a relationship is not understood and recognized by the people around you for a long time, the relationship itself may not be healthy and should not continue to develop. There are several reasons for this:
1.Lack of external support. Relationships need the support of friends and family, otherwise it will be difficult to maintain them for a long time. If everyone around you is against the relationship, there will be a lot of pressure between the lovers and the emotions will be affected.
2.There are significant drawbacks. If the Chun faction infiltrates the people around it and opposes it, it is often because there are certain problems in the relationship or the object itself, such as incompatible personalities, too different family backgrounds, etc., which will bury hidden dangers for future development.
3.Influencing other people. If a relationship has a negative impact on friends or family around you, such as affecting other people's relationships or lives, this is one of the reasons why the relationship is unsustainable. In order not to let feelings become a tool to hurt others, perhaps it would be more rational to terminate.
4.It is conducive to self-growth. Sometimes we cling to a relationship out of emotional dependence or fear of loss, rather than true love.
Ending this relationship will help us get rid of emotional dependence and grow into an independent person. This is also a potential reason for the opposition of those around you.
5.There are large obstacles to subsequent development. Even if they are reluctantly together, follow-up such as getting married and having children will face great resistance, which is extremely hard. If there is a lack of external support in the first place, the prospects of the relationship are not optimistic in the first place, which is also a reason to let go.
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Falling in love is a free choice of the individual and should be based on personal feelings and judgments.
A parent's opinion can be used as a reference, but it should not be relied upon entirely. Parents have a wealth of life experience and interpersonal experience, and their opinions can provide some useful advice and references. Especially when the relationship involves family, culture, beliefs and other factors, the parents' opinions will be more valuable for reference.
However, everyone's feelings and circumstances are different, so when making decisions, you should weigh your own feelings and your parents' opinions to find a balance.
In addition, parents' opinions can be influenced by their biases and experiences. Therefore, if a parent's opinion is contrary to your own feelings, you should deeply understand their concerns and reasons, communicate rationally, and find a relatively neutral position. Ultimately, decisions should be made taking into account factors such as one's own and the other's feelings, family, social and cultural background, and acting responsibly.
Choose to plead strongly with her parents, show your determination, sincerity, and confidence to her family.
Persevere, overcome all difficulties, don't be stiff, be yourself, persevere to the end, and talk to your family.
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The relationship that the parents oppose can be recovered, but it is difficult to recover, and the chances of redemption are generally not great. Because parents occupy a very important position in our love, even if the modern concept of love is open, parents are still very important to our love opinions, resulting in many people in love, all consider the opinions of parents, many parents are dissatisfied with each other's conditions because of the conditions of each party, resulting in parents opposing the relationship, but parents no matter what is against the relationship, it is caused by the reason, only by solving the root problem, the relationship that the parents oppose can be redeemed by the opportunity, otherwise it is a very difficult thing. >>>More
When you go, first understand the preferences of his family, give them what they like, or gifts that they have loved for a long time, just say a little polite words, try to talk less, do more things, help your mother-in-law do housework, wash dishes, etc., you are friendly to them, they can't drive you away.