I don t have any friends right now... It seems to be a secondary two disease, what should I do? Ask

You're in a bit of a serious situation... Because you've been like this for two whole years, the impression among your classmates has taken root. Now all you have to do is to be yourself, don't confuse the two-dimensional with the three-dimensional, participate in more group activities, don't always sit in your seat after class, talk to the people around you more, and then look for any classmates who also watch anime, the most important thing in communication between boys is interest. If you are a girl, if you want to make real friends, then you have to open your heart, let him understand why you are in secondary two, change your impression in the eyes of others, the most important thing in communication between girls is affection.

In fact, no matter what, just be true to yourself, and you don't need to deliberately change anything. You blindly cater to everyone's tastes, and constantly changing your style will only make people think that you are very contrived, not honest, and fickle. The result is that you don't deserve to be friends with.

So get along with your classmates with a normal heart, compare your heart to your heart, as long as you show full sincerity to others, then they will treat you sincerely. Insisting on being the most authentic self is the trump card of making friends.

Ahh Although it's not an imitation, it's also a secondary two fantasy or something.

I had a lot of friends in elementary school, but in middle school, they gradually became fewer, and now I can feel the results of not having a single friend.

And then I started creating. A friend.. It's a shame. Treat him as another ego, nothing to talk about. Every day he is together, and even pretends to chat QQ on the Internet. (Cover your face.)

To add,The words of our class are more special than other classes.,Because there are many people in other classes who are addicted to the second dimension, but my class is a secondary two disease.。。

If you feel bored studying, continue to study in Secondary 2, because if you don't have friends in your studies, it doesn't mean that you don't have friends here

If there is anything bad about the second middle school (ignore me) and get rid of it, you must boldly communicate with others and accept this collapsed world and cruel reality. I'm also a secondary two, and I'm in the third year of junior high school next semester, if you still can't get rid of secondary two, we can teach friends and continue secondary two together.

Maybe a little? The following is information about the "secondary two diseases", you can take a look.

Secondary 2 disease (also known as junior high school 2 disease) is a common saying proposed by Hikaru Ijiin in the radio program "Ijiin Hikaru in the Late Night", which is a metaphor for the self-righteousness of Japanese adolescent teenagers.

"Secondary disease" is not a strict definition, and people who come into contact with it through different channels will have different understandings, and there are both praise and criticism, and there are endless debates. This type of consciousness implicitly reinforces the desired state (e.g., maturity, sanity, distinctiveness) and implicitly rejects the undesirable state (e.g., ordinariness, guilt, powerlessness). For example:

"I'm different from others. ”

"It's not me that's wrong, it's the world. ”

"That's maturity. ”

If there is a counter-example, see the three articles above. ”

Basically, this is a situation that many people have experienced (or are experiencing). even developed the exaggerated saying that "people are not in vain".

"Symptoms" are generally the situations that young people face in the process of growing up in the budding period of adolescence, and they are interested in "chic things" that want to become adults and are more popular with adults; And there is a tendency to unconsciously deny the things that children like more and the childish things they liked when they were young. Although there are also those who do it consciously, in this case, they also deny the negative "can't do it" and "nasty adult" at the same time. They like to be self-centered and construct a world of self-identity in their minds.

But often their judgment criteria are themselves ambiguous, very distorted from the perspective of adults, and look funny, which is their characteristic.

Basically, the second disease is just an overdeveloped ego in the second sexual signature period. "Self that is different from others", "is no longer the self of a child", "not the self of a dirty adult", is to overemphasize oneself to others, have too much self-awareness, have a lot of personality and are willing to show that they have a personality, which is also the road that most people will walk. Many adults are disgusted by this because they have gone through a similar period:

When I was a child, I thought I was different, and I was different from others when I farted, and when I grew up, I realized that I was just a drop in the ocean in the public. But this kind of world, which takes time to prove, cannot be communicated across ages.

Books that introduce secondary diseases.

Instructions for Poisoning of Middle Two Diseases", an introduction book written by the Japanese Sai Shen Hail Night after the term "Middle Two Disease" gradually became popular, contains the author's personal understanding of the Second Disease. Southern Press, September 2010.

I think it's okay, the general illness that can ask this kind of question is not serious, and then the medical science of the second or second school does not admit that it is just a social phenomenon

That is, you are very 2, very funny, very stupid.

Core tip: The term "secondary two disease" originated in Japan, and "secondary two" means the second grade of junior high school. As the name suggests, "secondary disease" refers to the self-righteous thoughts, actions, and values that are characteristic of adolescence.

With the widespread use of the term on the Internet, the term "secondary disease" now mainly refers to those who are overly self-conscious, arrogant, and feel ununderstood and unhappy, especially those adults who "mix formed values with childish ideas that have not yet been detached".

People have 'middle two diseases' in this life", and the key is to learn to grow and mature from setbacks.

The "Second Disease" is a hot epidemic. Some people hate it and often denounce it as "the second disease has a serious attack", and some people are proud of it and think that they are "forever suffering from the second disease". So, what kind of disease is the "middle two disease"?

The term "secondary disease" originated in Japan, and "secondary two" means the second grade of junior high school. As the name suggests, "secondary disease" refers to the self-righteous thoughts, actions, and values that are characteristic of adolescence. With the widespread use of the term on the Internet, the term "secondary disease" now mainly refers to those who are overly self-conscious, arrogant, and feel ununderstood and unhappy, especially those adults who "mix formed values with childish ideas that have not yet been detached".

A typical case of "secondary disease" is that someone asked for help on a forum: "I have all the symptoms of secondary and secondary disease, what should I do?" Please give a mature answer!

As for the various suggestions of enthusiastic netizens, the response of this "secondary and second disease patient" is always: too naïve!