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I think you have a problem, you are very immature, although you seem to have a high degree of education.
If you enter society like this, you will feel that you will not be able to live.
People have strong social skills, rich social experience, and are the same age as your leaders and teachers, so it is normal for them to have a good relationship and talk. Although you are classmates now, when it comes to social experience, people can be your teachers. It can be said that he is already a successful person, and he only came here to study in order to go further.
And you're still a no-brainer, and you don't know what's going to happen in the future.
You should now cherish this precious opportunity, and if you can humbly ask for advice, you can even learn much more valuable things from him than you have learned in textbooks. I don't make use of such a good resource, but I bother to think about what others take advantage of, and complain about unfairness. What's in it for you?
With such a mentality, how do you get along with others?
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First of all, we must affirm our own strength and do our job well! Maybe the school is testing you, testing whether you are the kind of person who retreats in distress, no matter what, you have to correct your mentality and overcome difficulties, after all, you have just entered the society, there are many things to learn, society and school are two different worlds.
Secondly, when you deal with interpersonal relationships, you should learn with an open mind and ask more questions if you don't understand! I believe that as long as you care about the people around you with a kind heart, you will also get the care of others. Lu Yao knows the horsepower steadily, and sees the hearts of the people for a long time!
The head of the department likes to change the day, if you can't change him, try to change yourself!
Work hard, treat your friends with your heart, and treat difficulties as a test!
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In my opinion, academic qualifications are not everything.
You put in the effort and intellect to get your qualifications, but didn't the seniors who put in the effort to build an effective network?
I think that your psychological imbalance is born from confidence in your academic qualifications.
In fact, like our school, those teachers who are popular with students do not necessarily have a particularly high degree of education. Sometimes, humor is also an ability. How to mobilize the atmosphere of the classroom also needs to be constantly summarized in experience.
It's hard at the beginning, and when you can't hold on anymore, let yourself endure it for another five minutes.
Seeing your last paragraph, I believe you also know how to go on your way.
It's gold, and it always shines!
Calm your heart, put your mind right, and your future will not be betrayed by yourself.
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Be humble, since people have been successful in practice, then you should learn from him, if you are asked to open this company, can you succeed?
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