Although it is said that boys and girls are the same. But the woman who gave birth to a son obviousl

Times are different, men and women are the same. That being said, there is actually a difference. China's feudal consciousness is deeply rooted.

Especially in rural areas, if there are boys in the family, I feel confident. A woman who has given birth to a boy may have a higher status in the family, and that's it.

It's a higher status, many places have this habit, no way, the old thinking is inherited. Even if the husband complains that his wife did not give birth to a son, he can't stand the irresponsible remarks of neighbors and friends, and he feels a little shorter in his heart.

Yes, China's traditional culture determines that this phenomenon will always exist, many people will prefer sons over girls in their minds, especially in rural areas, this phenomenon is more serious, because boys are energetic to do farming, and girls have to go to their in-laws' house after marriage, this is a fact, but now many places in the countryside do not farm, so this phenomenon will be less and less, men and women are the same.

Although it is said that boys and girls are the same, the woman who gives birth to a son obviously has a higher status in the family, and there is still a bit of feudal thinking in China, which considers the son to be a symbol of succession.

Although it is said that it is the same to give birth to a boy and a girl, I think there will be many people who like sons more, so there are still more people who like sons, and the status of women who give birth to sons is naturally high.

There's no way, who makes the older generation like grandchildren, you give birth to a boy First of all, the older generation's attitude towards you is completely different, how can your husband say that he has a male baby, he can also explain to the ancestors and ancestors, and it must be better for you, so the treatment is really different. Equality? It's a joke, at the moment men and women are not equal at all.

Although it is the same for both boys and girls, most of them now have only one family, and there are many only children, if they give birth to boys, they don't want to give birth, and those who give birth to girls have the idea of giving birth to one, because there are still many people who inherit the lineage.

Giving birth to a boy and a girl is the same, does having a son have a high status at home? Not necessarily, some people like girls, some people like boys, if the child is promising, smart and sensible, your status at home is the same, and the child will give you a long face whether it is a man or a woman.

This is not necessarily, it mainly depends on whether the family is the kind of patriarchal family, and then look at the husband's character, as well as the wife's own work income, which will affect the family status.

This is not right. A woman's position in the family does not consist in giving birth to sons and daughters. It's about her husband's attitude towards her.

If the husband dotes on her very much. Whether he gives birth to a son or a daughter, his status in the family is very high. Therefore, it is crucial to have a good relationship between husband and wife.

There is another husband who loves you.

This is all the old thinking of people in the previous life, the old concept, thinking that having a son can continue the incense, in the final analysis, it is still the patriarchal thinking that is doing the trick, and now young people are different, giving birth to boys and girls are the same, and even tend to hope to have girls, and there will be less pressure to give birth to girls in the future.

In fact, this is not the case, it may only be the case for a small number of families with heavy daughters. Nowadays, many families prefer daughters, so it is more popular to have daughters. Now my daughter is a baby.

Giving birth to a boy or a girl is my own business, what does it have to do with status, besides, I am the boss in my family, as for my mother-in-law's house, I am just a guest, and in terms of the status of the guests, they will go more times if they are enthusiastic, and if they are not enthusiastic, they will go less, or not go. Who is rare about that so-called status.

It is better to have a girl than a boy, and a girl knows the pain and heat, and she has a special filial piety and concern for her parents, and thinks that it is better to have a girl than a boy in today's society.

A higher status is better for your son to save money to buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law, and take care of your son in the future and then take care of your grandson.

This worldly prejudice. I know a lot of families with daughters, but it doesn't affect the status of housewives in the slightest. Especially if the daughter is out of business, the relationship between the husband and wife is good.

This statement is the order of the old generation, and now it is the same to have children and daughters, unlike the old life, all boys, punished, daughters and sons to give away, the times have changed, and the girls are the same.

Although some have a high status. But the one who gave birth to a daughter is not low. It is your own to have children and daughters. Don't think otherwise.

This is evident in the countryside, but in the cities there is little difference, and the greater and more prosperous the city, the more pronounced the equality between men and women.

Deep blue or girls are the same, but the woman who gives birth to a son obviously has a higher status in the family, mainly because of Chinese traditions.

In real life, she is like this, if you give birth to a son, it will be different, if you give birth to a daughter, everyone just says that it is the same, but in fact he is still different.

Although it is said that both boys and girls are the same, the woman who gives birth to a son is obviously unhappy at home, because our Chinese tradition is to favor sons over daughters.

There is nothing wrong with what you say, men and women are equal, but men are the only ones who pass incense for the family.

Now it's the same as giving birth to a boy and a girl, and I don't feel that a woman is born, and the son has a high status in the family, that's your prejudice.

Different families have different levels of economic development in different places! Of course, if you can give birth, you hope that you will have both children and daughters!

The customs are different in these places, and some people are not patriarchal on the surface, but they still hope that their sons will be good in their hearts.

This may be the case. There is a successor in the family who gave birth to a boy.

This is all influenced by traditional thinking. But is it true that having a son now will give you a higher status? Think about the unfilial piety of your son in the future, and then think about the sky-high bride price in the future. Hehe. Having a son may not be really good.

In reality, the more developed the economy and society, the more similar it is. The less developed the place, the better it is to have a son.

Equality between men and women has always been advocated, but the concept of raising children and preventing old age has always existed under the influence of thousands of years of traditional Chinese culture.

After getting married, whether he will have a daughter or a son depends on the man.

I'm going to get away, but I want to say my opinion, first, you must have studied the technique of giving birth to a boy and a girl, otherwise how do you choose, second, you must have good conditions and enough strength for you to raise children and make choices. So it is highly recommended that you have a son, which is good.

The first to give birth to a daughter! The second gave birth to a son! (Female + son = good) helps to adopt!

Do you want to be a man or a woman, if you are a patriarchal person, it should be you climb farther, giving birth to boys and girls is not something you can control, do you dare to throw away a girl, whether it is good or not, you have to raise, now you have to think better, you look forward to giving birth to a girl, so that you don't have to worry too much about her house or anything, anyway, it is generally the man's family preparation, if you give birth to two children, in this society, you are basically a lifetime of hard work, you have to continue to earn money for him!

Just plant a fuck out of the way, even if you can analyze and ignore you, you're too fucked.

Men and women are the same, we have to treat them equally, besides, giving birth to men and women is not a matter of saying it with their mouths, but by luck.

Everyone likes it, they all give birth to boys or girls, and the ecology is not balanced, so everything is the same, let it be.

Having a boy or a girl is not something you can say, there is a certain probability, and it is just as good to say anything!! All of them are their own children!!

As the saying goes, a boy is a construction bank, and a girl is a China Merchants bank. Now is the era of equality between men and women, and women also carry half the sky... Although boys inherit incense, girls are not the same. So don't worry so much, boys and girls are their own children.

If you like boys, it's better to have boys.

If you like girls, you have girls.

Whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as he is obedient, sensible and understands his parents' filial piety, he is a good child.

Nonsense, of course, is the best for the living.

At the time of the proposal, my husband washed the dishes and mopped the floor, and sometimes did laundry and cooking. A warm man. After getting married, I realized that this was all in a fairy tale, and when I got home in the middle of the day, I collapsed on the sofa and played with my mobile phone, dragging like an uncle.

Until I gave birth to a daughter, the change in this man simply subverted my cognition.

Let's see what all the mothers have to say.

@情深致命952

My family is a dragon and phoenix fetus. Once feeding the child, the husband dripped the milk on the arm to test the temperature, for fear of burning the child, seeing the husband so delicate at the beginning and a little moved, who knew that he only made one copy, and the daughter was fed and there was no follow-up. Immediately, I yelled angrily, "That's not your son?"

@有空喷喷没空路过

The second child gave birth to a daughter, and the son was only one and a half years older than the daughter. The first thing she does when she comes back from work every day is always to hug her daughter, all kinds of grimaces and all kinds of whistles, which makes her laugh vigorously. My son was crying next to him in the dark, as if it had nothing to do with him, sometimes I couldn't stand it anymore, yelled at him, and he actually said, "Didn't I look at my daughter, you take care of your son".

@时间煮酒22

My sister is 5 years old and my younger brother is 4 years old. On the weekend, my sister took a colored pen to paint her husband's favorite coffee table in a mess, I thought that my husband would deliver the murderous child, but who knew that he actually asked his daughter with a smile, "Baby, what are you drawing, tell your father" turned his head and yelled at his son, "Why don't you stop your sister from scribbling?" "Hearing this, the old lady really wants to fight with him.