What is the difference between a man having a son and not having a son?

Those who have sons will be happier, they feel that they have a greater sense of accomplishment, they are already very happy in the family, and they will work harder. And people who don't have sons feel that life is relatively easy, and they don't need to work hard.

If a man has a son, he will feel more confident in his heart, and he feels very down-to-earth, and he has a son and is more energetic, if he does not have a son, he will feel that he does not have the consciousness of wanting to make money!

When a man does not have a son, he is more inclined to love himself, and when he has a son, his sense of responsibility will increase, and he will be more inclined to pay for his children.

1. There are no roof beams and columns. A family without a son may be very different from a family with a son, especially when it comes to encountering problems or listening to what others say. For example, when you are sick, the family is like a reed and no one can run errands, even if you have a daughter who can take care of herself, but the daughter also has her own family, and she has to take into account the emotions of her husband and mother-in-law over there, so it is not as pleasant as calling her son.

It's really bad to feel like there is no pillar in the family, and many families without sons show that this is unacceptable, especially when they see whose son is famous, it is even more sour in their hearts.

2. I feel that others look down on me and feel under great mental pressure. Without a son is like having no right to speak, not only the mother-in-law looks down on herself, but even the husband doesn't take herself seriously, this is also the personal experience of many mothers without sons, the family looks down on it, just make fun of Sakura is outsiders have no good words, I still remember a neighbor is because he has no son, and as a result, he got crazy under the gossip of outsiders, and the whole person is mentally abnormal. In fact, this is because the pressure from outsiders is too great, and the mental pressure on myself is also very great.

3. No pressure. It is now the new century after all, and the idea of relying on sons to pass on the family lineage in the past is getting weaker and weaker, and those who have sons are now living a hard life, but those who do not have sons have food and drink and a nourishing life. For example, as I just mentioned, a very contrasting picture on the Internet, if you have a son, you can't eat and drink, it's very difficult to have a means of transportation, and if you don't have a son, you don't have any pressure, don't carry your son's bride price, don't worry about your child's house money, when your daughter gets married, you can take it out if you have money, if you don't have money, no one cares, it's easy to get.

As long as you don't have it, you will feel regretful......The problem is that this kind of regret is obviously meaningless......It is very common for a man to have no son, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't do it.

I just can't, children are part of the family, whether it is a boy or a girl, they have their strengths and weaknesses, and they are also the presence of lubricants for the family.

I don't think it has a lot to do with it, as long as you are filial when you are old, sons and daughters are the same, and now more and more people don't pay much attention to this.

I don't believe it. Because now sons are the same as daughters, and daughters are also very filial, so there is not much difference between having sons and not sons.

It may be true, without a son, maybe this person can live a more chic and free life.

I don't think so. Some daughters are also very filial, which is no different from sons.

I have two daughters, I wanted to have both children before I was born, and when I was pregnant, I was a daughter, and I never wavered that I didn't want a daughter or anything like that. I can't help myself when I have a child, and now I have a second child for more than six months, looking at my lovely daughter, I have no regrets, and I am glad that the child is in good health. Many people say that it is a pity that two sons or two daughters are not both sons and daughters, but in fact, as long as they are born by themselves, no matter what children will love.

I think it's the same to have two daughters, and one thing is that it's not that hard for them to share. In the end, I raised 2 daughters The son feels the same good 2 daughters, accompanied by left and right, and is the most intimate little padded jacket. 2 small padded jackets, one for you and your husband!

2 sons, although you need to work harder, but in the future, at home, you will be a veritable queen, and it's good! Therefore, even if I gave birth to a second child and didn't have both children, I was still very happy. After all, the happiness of a family is not limited to having to be a son and a daughter.

This should vary from person to person, not necessarily. Now it belongs to the network information society, so for some female netizens, there will also be more say, so for the issue of having children, the concept of preference for sons has changed a lot, but unfortunately the traditional ideal in China is to raise children to prevent old age, so for families with only one child and no son in old age, will they regret it? You might as well listen to what you say after the age of 50 and 60.

Post-50s rural men: regret, no pension, no serious illness, daughter does not come back

According to the investigation, a 69-year-old man lived alone with his wife. His three daughters are married and come home only once a year. She said that although we come from the countryside, the customs cannot follow our daughter, and it will also make her in-laws dislike.

Ask him if he regrets not having a son 30 years ago? He kept nodding his head in regret, because rural people focus on raising children to prevent old age, rather than old age and no one to rely on.

Post-60s urban women: No regrets, just don't have to bring grandchildren

Then he said to my neighbor that I would not regret having only one daughter. I don't need to buy a house or bring grandchildren. I can save some money.

As long as my wife retires, the two of us can travel the world. Seeing that other old ladies still have to buy houses for their children, are dragged down by mortgages, and also need to take care of their grandchildren.

If these two issues are addressed, most older people will not think that their daughters are as good as their children to change the minds of the older generation. Daughters should first take on the responsibility of supporting their parents. Like her son, she is old enough to live with her parents.

Even if she doesn't live together, she should be treated equally like her husband's family. Only in this way can older people enjoy a better sense of security in their later years.

Many people will regret it, because only men can carry on the lineage. The boy has his own surname, and the daughter will follow someone else. Man is always looking for eternal value, but man cannot live forever and stay young, so he has no real eternal value.

But you still have to look for it, the ancients had three immortals, and there were names left in history, which are in the history books. But people will eventually die, or hope that they can be inherited, for example, if they have a son, they will have a descendant, and people wish that they would have thousands of generations, and their children and grandchildren will be endless, and I hope they will live well. Therefore, raising children is not only to prevent old age, but also to hope that there will be successors, and do not want to have no successors.

There is an old saying, "raising children to prevent old age", that is the idea of the old society, when you are old, you can't work, and you have a son to raise. I think like my generation of sons and daughters, children bring you joy. When we are old, we have pension insurance, do we still need to worry about our children?

Besides, the children will have a lot of pressure to survive in the future, how can they have time to take care of us! Some people think there are.

Realistically speaking, yes.

It is estimated that more than 70 percent of men think so.

It's not that my daughter can't accept it.

Some choose to be a son.

There will be regrets, because if you don't have a son, you won't experience it, and if you have a daughter-in-law, you will forget the experience of your mother.

Nowadays, the divorce rate is high, and the psychological needs are also different, not to mention having a boy, it is not necessary to have a child. If you can be happy, complete and healthy, it is most correct to bring up the child and have another child.

I know it's a pity that a woman doesn't have a son.