What should I do if I can t be friends after my confession with a girl who had a good relationship i

I guess you're still young, and when you're almost thirty, you'll look back at what you're doing now and you'll think it's not a big deal. This is also a stage that you must go through in life, as long as you sincerely pay for emotional things, it doesn't matter what the result is. When I was in college, I was so moved by a fellow countryman that I was rejected as well.

Now that I think about it, I still feel warm in my heart, and good things can always exist, but in a different way.

She may not be able to ignore you because she is not sure that she is talking to a classmate who likes you, but you can talk to her alone and explain to her that you still want to be friends with her, just like before. The girl has always been soft-hearted, and she should have agreed. As for the reason, don't ask again, she wants to tell you that she will naturally tell you later.

Actually, he liked you at first, but then it was you who broke her illusions, and I don't mind if you talked to her face-to-face about this.

Hello friends, I think you can still be friends after the confession fails, you can pretend to be a friend first, and then confess again later. Falling in love is never a person's business, so when you confess and are rejected by the other party, this does not necessarily announce the end of the relationship, don't rush to draw a rest. So how do you deal with this relationship?

1. Don't be in a hurry to break off the relationship. In fact, some romances in life start with rejection, so when you are rejected, don't rush to break or give up the relationship. After being rejected, the first thing you have to do is to figure out the reason for the rejection....Whether it's because your impatient personality is causing pressure on the other person, or because your relationship hasn't reached the point of formal love, you can decide what to do next.

However, no matter what, when you are rejected, you must first understand the reason and don't give up easily. If this rejection is only because your relationship is not hot enough to start a relationship......Then you might as well give each other more time to spend with each other, maybe next time you can watch the clouds open and see the sunrise.

2. Confession needs to be sincere, don't use jokes to hide your inner fear of failure. Boys love face, so they are always worried that they will lose face if their confession is rejected, so they habitually use jokes to indirectly express their true feelings, thinking in their hearts that if they fail, it can be said that they are just joking with each other. But....You never thought that this kind of tongue-in-cheek confession would give the other party a casual and insincere feeling, and if the other party is a careful and cautious girl, then they will definitely reject you.

So....When boys confess, it's better to be sincere and not too casual. If this still fails, then it comes down to the first point, don't be in a hurry to give up, after all, people will change, and if you don't feel anything at this stage, it doesn't mean that you will always be without feelings in the future.

3. Calmly and maturely face failure. After being rejected, you seriously reflect, bend and understand the reasons for the failure, and find that the other party really just treats you as a friend, then you should not be sad or sad...There is no need to "self-deprecat", because love can never be obtained by force. At this point....What you have to do is to face up to this relationship, summarize the reasons for failure, don't let negative emotions plague life, take this failure as a kind of learning, and be able to grasp the opportunity more confidently and find your own unique love when you make a move next time.

Most of the confession failures can't be friends, except for those girls who have big hearts, are humble enough, and are "cheap" enough. The feelings have accumulated to a certain extent, and I mustered up the courage to choose to confess, not for the purpose of being friends at all, but to gamble on a place with dignity and expectations. Once rejected, it must be frustrated in the heart, and all thoughts are lost, even if the other party euphemistically says that they can be friends, they can't accept this kind of collapsing psychological blow.

Moreover, it is the girl who chooses to confess to the boy, and this refusal is even more devastating. After all, once a woman chases a man's compartment paper, once it is pierced and rejected, most girls' self-esteem will definitely not be able to bear it. She couldn't accept a boy she loved, and only made friends with her.

Because, after choosing to confess, she never thought of being friends with him. Of course, there are no absolutes. Some girls are indeed infatuated, so obsessed with love, at all costs, even at the expense of abandoning their dignity and bottom line, to accept the relationship of so-called friends.

But after time passes, her emotions mature, and her thoughts mature, she will wake up to how naïve and ridiculous her decision is. The stupidest thing for a girl is to waste her youth on a man who doesn't love her, or doesn't deserve her love at all. A man who really loves you and loves you will not give you empty promises and expectations, but in the end he will only give you an empty joy.

So, once a man you like says no to you, say thank you in a chic way, turn around and leave, and the rivers and lakes are far from now on. Human life is actually very short. Instead of getting entangled with someone who doesn't love you, it's better to find the one who really loves you freely.

And for a mature and responsible man, if you can't accept a girl's love, then simply refuse, don't give her the illusion of "playing", and waste other people's youth. It's a responsibility for your personal emotions and a responsibility for the girl who loves you.