How to deal with being treated coldly by a person closest to you?

Does the "dearest person" mean a lover or a loved one, a family member?

If you are wrong, you should change it according to what he wants, and if it is a matter of principle, divide it.

Treating each other coldly for a long time is a cold war. And the cold war will not solve anything.

Being treated coldly by the closest people, then you have to ask yourself, what did you do to make people like this, if it is your own fault, then you must actively correct it yourself, if it is said that you have not done anything wrong, then you also have to figure out why he did this to you. After all, she's your dearest.

There is a kind of person who is pleasant to outsiders and cold to his family.

This Tongdan is a person with a good character, in the saying of our hometown: a dragon at home, a worm when you go out.

People always show their truest selves in front of those closest to them, joys and sorrows, without concealment.

This is a very typical child's psychology, that is, the immaturity of the mind.

As children, they have their cunning in their hearts, and they know that no matter how willful they are in front of their parents, their parents will always be reluctant in their hearts, and they will eventually choose to tolerate and forgive.

It is precisely because they know in their hearts that their parents' reluctance is that they are even more unscrupulous.

It's just that as human beings, everyone has a bottom line to bear. Even if it's a parent, there are times when they can't do anything.

It is an animal instinct to want to be loved. The difference between humans and animals is that as they grow older, they understand responsibility, and because of responsibility, they begin to restrain their desire to be loved, begin to become strong, and begin to know how to love and not to be sleepy.

Children are eager to be loved by their parents, this is the instinct of animals, parents love children, this is the instinct of people who are born again because of their children after becoming parents.

We use animal instincts to tear human instincts, which is unfair and cruel to parents.

Because we always think that the people close to us will not leave our own infiltration, we don't know how to cherish, and always leave the worst temper and the worst side to them, but leave the best side to strangers Because you are not the closest, so you don't care about their feelings and their thoughts. Because we are not the closest ones, we always don't care about their feelings, their thoughts, and always hurt them unscrupulously. Because you are not the dearest, they always don't know that you love them, they don't always know that you care about them, they always don't know that you actually miss them very much.

Because you are not the dearest, they don't know that you love them, they always think that you don't love them, they always think that you don't care about them, they always don't know that you miss them very much. Because you are not the closest to each other, they always don't know that they need to care and care, they always don't know that you actually love you.