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Don't drop out of school easily. It's not easy to get into college, it's a pity to give up halfway, and the trajectory of your life may change because you drop out of school. Your parents will not only feel sorry for you, but they will also worry about your future and feel sad that you dropped out of school.
In fact, when I was in high school, I should be more nervous and difficult to face the pressure of taking exams, and when I went to college, I should be relieved, I should learn more if I want to, and if I don't want to study, I can pass the door, and I shouldn't want to drop out. I think there may be two reasons for your situation: 1. You may be a bit introverted, you don't get along well with your college classmates, and you always feel that you can't fit into the group, so you are miserable, miss your old classmates and friends, and want to drop out of school.
2. You may have a tendency to depression, some people will feel depressed in the early stage and feel too tired to live, although normal people will also have this emotion, but people with depression will exist for a long time. Some people will feel that they are not interested in life, sigh all day long, lose confidence in themselves and life, and reduce social interaction. Either they shed tears at every turn, or even repeatedly have suicidal thoughts and behaviors; Or they often show irritability, sensitivity, suspicion, stubbornness, and always feel uncomfortable.
If it is the first case, then you should focus on studying, and if you study well, your friends will naturally be more accordingly. Learn to be cheerful and learn to be tolerant, there is a saying that always looks at others unpleasantly because of their own lack of cultivation. If it is the second case, it is recommended that you tell your parents that you don't want to go to school anymore, get their attention, go to a psychiatrist, and adjust your mood and it should be fine.
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Your parents are your closest relatives in your life, and no one loves you as selflessly as they do, so try not to break their hearts. Compared with the above, more than the bottom, the third-rate undergraduate is also an undergraduate, I went to a junior college, and I have the same feeling as you in the three years of studying in school, extremely depressed, I feel suffocated. This is just one stage of your life, and now that I have been working for 7 years, I look back on this experience and feel very beautiful and precious.
You have a lot of time to plan your life now, you have to ask yourself, what kind of person you want to be, what kind of life you want to live in the future, you have to fight for it, don't hesitate. You have a sense of loss, and my advice to you is to communicate more with people and communicate more; In addition, you must be down-to-earth to achieve your goals, don't be ambitious, as long as you make unremitting efforts, your ideal life will be closer and closer to you. Good luck.
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Then sign up for an interest class Taekwondo, what kind of musical instrument, clubs, it's okay, just have more contact with people, don't drop out of school, good days are ahead, don't be depressed, make yourself happy.
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Parents will not understand at first, but with your happiness they will approve. Parents just want their children to be happy and happy.
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You should find a time when they are in a good mood and tell them about your troubles, saying that I have never been happy in school, whether I have classes or not, and I am willing to go out of society in advance.
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Running away won't solve the problem. If you can't escape from school and society, are you going to stay at home for the rest of your life and not go out?Find a way to change yourself!
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