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Please don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes. (*
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To be a man, you must be able to bend and stretch, bend your face, and stretch your dignity.
1. Most of our pain comes from comparison and calculation. Therefore, we are distorted by gains and losses, and decadent by success or failure.
2. The ups and downs of life are half of the pits dug by life, and half of the holes are the edges and corners of our own. When we walk so hard, it is often not because we lack hard work, but because we are covered with thorns that we like but do not like in life.
3. Many of the pains in life are caused by the inability to distinguish between needs and desires. The less you need, the easier it is to be satisfied; The more you desire, the more disappointment. Too much of our disappointment and dissatisfaction stems from our excessive desire for life.
4. If you worry too much, it becomes a fetter, and if you are lost for too long, it becomes a pain. Caring too much will reduce the joy of life, and if you look down on everything, you will have more relief in life.
5. When you become an unattainable fantasy, letting go sometimes becomes the best relief. When the heart is small, all the little things are big; When the heart is big, all the big things are small; Look down on the vicissitudes of the world, and your heart is safe and sound.
6. In life, how can everything go well; Life, how can everything go smoothly. Don't be serious with the villain, because it's not worth it; Not to be more true to society, because it is less affordable; Don't be serious with yourself, because you can't afford to hurt; Don't compare with the past, because it's worthless; Don't be more serious with reality, because you have to go on.
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1. You should not be dissatisfied with others all the time, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you are suffering yourself.
2. To be angry with others is to punish yourself for the mistakes made by others. Do you think it's worth it? Besides, spending 2,000 quick money to buy a lesson and buy the true face of a friend is nothing, remember to be cautious when making friends in the future!
3. If you understand this truth, you will naturally not be angry, if you have good karma, you can touch the Dharma and recite the Buddha wholeheartedly. It was a real joy.
4. The key to doing it is not to see if it is right!
5. You don't have to look back at all to see who is the person who curses you? If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite him back?
6, Seong lost his horse, how to know if it is a blessing!
7. If you are angry, you will have troubles, and if you have troubles, you will not be able to be pure, and if your heart is not pure, you will not be able to become enlightened, and you will not be able to reach the state of "one mind is not disordered". will wander forever in the six realms, and it will be difficult to escape from several catastrophes.
8. Everyone knows that it is a momentary atmosphere. So no one will hold on.
9. All the ways of doing things should be viewed as such, so as to strengthen the heart, let the thousands of scenes in front of you be illusory, and the heart will not move.
11. What people say when they are angry. There is no reliability whatsoever.
12. The rules of questioning should consider this way of answering, a kind of silent support for excellent answers! We are sincere and work together to serve the questioner, as long as there is a good answer, we must support, absolutely not trying to score or anything.
13. But try your best to finish it. When you can't. Explain it to the other person.
14. Hating others is a great loss to yourself.
15. You don't have to worry about being angry. The other party will not be at ease.
16. Others can violate cause and effect, others can harm us, beat us, and slander us. But we can't hate others because of that, why? We must keep a whole nature and a pure heart.
17. One party must bow its head first. Take the initiative to talk to the other person.
18. Well, of course you have to be responsible for what you have said. Therefore, men rarely speak. Women can be irresponsible. So it can be said that a bunch of words are going to be dead or alive. Everything is determined by this social environment.
19. You can't take it away, only karma is with you. But if you can't practice at home, you won't be able to control your anger.
20. Today's attachment will cause tomorrow's regret.
21. It shows that the most important virtue in life is: keep your word, others can believe you!
22. What people have said. Sometimes it doesn't work. There may be some reason.
23. If you are right, you must insist, even if the wind is pressing; If you make a mistake, you have to apologize and change it completely, so why be ashamed to answer.
24. Patience and immobility, like the earth; Meditation is deep, like a secret; Wait until Yan Li, like a wonderful flower; Wisdom is as deep and broad as the sea.
25. It is understandable that people say something excessive in anger, and they don't have to take it seriously; If you usually speak with faith, this is a matter of credibility as a person.
26. Actually, you all know. You are the breath of the moment. Not at all the truth is spoken.
27. Of course, since you have said it, it is necessary to do it, and if you can't do it, don't say it under any circumstances.
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Forget it, forget it, it's not worth it to be angry with your body.
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