The divorce of my parents is tangled

Agree with the first floor, your father and teacher are so easy to change is not good for your mother. Your dad is like this: when someone treats him badly, or he feels that someone else treats him badly, he wants a divorce.

But when the relationship eases again, your dad doesn't want to divorce again. To put it mildly, don't do things simply, sissy. And it's not unpleasant to speak.

I advise your mother not to remarry your father.

Oh, let's be succinct, look at the dead

I never thought that my mother's position for her divorce was "he dumped me and didn't want me anymore"!

All along, she has been clamoring for divorce. She should feel relieved. But the truth is that she is in pain. It was the father who was liberated.

She kept repeating the words when she met people: "He lost his conscience, I raised three daughters for him, and now I see that my reputation is crooked, I can't make money, and my salary is higher without him, so I divorce me." ”

She ordered us not to associate with our father and told us to cut ties with him.

What a stupid idea, Mom! How can you believe that we will break off the relationship?

She didn't know the real reason why her father agreed to divorce him because she couldn't stand her various "behaviors". But my mother herself never accepted others saying that she "did", because she subjectively never wanted to "be someone else", what she did was because she couldn't control her emotions, she thought she was just venting herself, but she didn't know how much trouble she brought to the people around her. Who can endure this kind of frightened day for ten years?

This time she lived in the big house by herself. My sisters have gone out to work, and I am also working in other places. Now that I think about it, my mother should have spent a difficult life alone.

When we went back during the holidays, she always chattered about what my father was not, and I had heard those words dozens of times. Sometimes the slightest word I say for my dad will make her angry and even skip dinner. I can't remember it when I don't go back to see her, and when I go back to see her, I want to run away as soon as possible.

Many marriage and family relationships get along very poorly, and both husband and wife can't stand this kind of environment and choose to divorce, but some families already have children, and the divorce of parents will have a certain impact on the children, and the children may become closed, sensitive, and insecure because of the divorce of their parents, so parents must pay more attention to the physical and mental health of their children. Some people say that their parents are going to divorce, but they are about to collapse, what should I do?

If the child is facing the divorce of his parents and is about to collapse emotionally, it is recommended that the child should sit down with his parents and communicate with him about the pressure and anxiety he is facing.

When parents are busy with divorce and have no time to take care of their children, and the child's emotions are about to collapse because of the parents, it is recommended that the child find a school counselor or find his close elders such as grandparents, grandparents, uncles and aunts to talk about his emotional condition.

Finally, the children themselves must also learn to be strong and optimistic, the divorce of parents will not reduce their love for themselves, but it will still have an impact on the physical and mental health of the children, so it is better to be happy with things.

Marriage law in our country.

Article 17 The following property acquired by husband and wife during the existence of their marital relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife:

1) Wages and bonuses;

2) the income from production and operation;

3) income from intellectual property rights;

4) Property obtained by inheritance or donation, except as provided for in paragraph 3 of Article 18 of this Law;

5) Other property that shall be jointly owned.

Husbands and wives have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property.

Article 18: In any of the following circumstances, it is the property of one of the husband and wife:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Medical expenses, living allowances for the disabled, and other expenses received by one party as a result of bodily injury;

3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife;

4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

During the existence of the marital relationship, the following property falls under the provisions of Article 17 of the Marriage Law"Other property that should be jointly owned"：

1) The income obtained by one party from the investment of personal property;

2) Housing subsidies and housing provident funds actually obtained or should be obtained by both men and women;

3) Pension insurance funds and bankruptcy resettlement compensation that both men and women have actually obtained or should have obtained.

The title deed of the community states that the ownership of the house belongs to you and not to the joint property of your parents.

The ancestral house of the hometown, unless there is evidence to prove that it belongs to your father's pre-marital property, it will be treated as joint property.

A timber processing plant is the income that should belong to one of the parties from the investment of personal property, which is the joint property of your parents.

You are already a person with full capacity for civil conduct, and it is up to you to decide who you want to live with.

Who you have been with is no longer a matter of discussion, your parents do not have custody of you, the real estate certificate is in your name, the house has nothing to do with your parents, and it is not within the scope of division, the house in your father's name and others should be the joint property of the husband and wife, one person and a half, basically according to this principle, the two parties negotiate.

The ancestral house and the timber processing factory are the joint property of the husband and wife, and your parents are half and half.

Your neighborhood house is yours.

If your parents are gone, neither of your parents has formed another family, and you can inherit it. If you make up another composition, you won't have your share.

Therefore, if you are filial, you should persuade your parents to reconcile.

For these questions, it is recommended that you go to a law firm and ask a lawyer.

After all, they know more about this than we do!