Whether he doesn t love me enough or something else, I really can t figure it out

Updated on workplace 2024-07-07
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Asking this question shows that you don't love him enough. Since it's a boyfriend and girlfriend, if the relationship is good, consumption is shared to a certain extent. This is a very simple behavior, it is difficult to say that he doesn't love you from this one thing alone, maybe he just thinks you want to spend those 6 yuan, or maybe he is confused and doesn't understand what's going on.

    I don't think he will take advantage of 6 yuan since he treats you as his girlfriend. You should judge from his usual behavior, the conversation with you, and the behavior of you for a long time, and suspect that he is immature based on this one thing alone. Love is to be paid by both parties, you have 106, he only has 20 left, why can't you use 100?

    If he has to buy 20 with the only 20 left, and 8 yuan is left in the end, maybe he won't even have the money to send you home. Feelings are meant to be mutually understood. Relax and be more understanding.

    After reading your supplement, I can only think that maybe he is not rich enough, cares more about money, and is not generous enough. In such a situation, if he is selfish and unwilling to spend more, it means that he is more lacking in money than affection. If he has been poor, out of habit, then it is up to you, if you can control yourself and not ask for more material life, then there is nothing unacceptable, if you want a better material life, maybe you can't count on him.

    In short, he can't be that he doesn't love you, and probably the best explanation is that he is more short of money.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hehe!! Remember to put more change in the future!! Make yourself very depressed!!

    There's nothing wrong with your boyfriend!! He paid him! Rise to 20 yuan!! It's been thought about.

    He must have what he needs!! That's why it's not enough for the Sixth Academy! Maybe unintentionally!! Something happens to people's brains.

    It's a temporary forgetfulness!! He didn't ask for the 6 yuan! It's just very easy to take it! There was a gap!

    He probably didn't know what he was doing with it!!You don't care too much!! Peacetime! If I still have AA system.

    You're settled! Is it stingy or! It's very poor, no way! Please consume! ~!1

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It may be that he is useful, but seeing that you want it so much, he can only buy it for you, and he should have his own ideas about taking your 6 yuan, or he is afraid that the taxi money will not be enough, or he wants to buy a pack of cigarettes. If you really can't figure it out, just ask him, and if you make it clear, you'll be fine.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The amount of money a man spends for you is directly proportional to the love for you unless he is a multi-millionaire.

    Since he's so stingy with you, why don't you use your charm and find a few people who are willing to spend money for you and show him?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, if he didn't want to, it was very likely that he didn't care about the difference between who paid at all, and he didn't say anything, but if he thought about it for a while before doing this, it means that he had already thought about it. So it's not a question of not loving you, it's the degree of thinking about money, and the focus of looking at money. But when I'm with my girlfriend, it's always me who pays.

    Even if she has change, my whole money is the same. Think about it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you're still thinking too much, you've said it all. At that time, he had no money on him, probably because he was going home and using it for a while, what do you care about loving him?? Be generous

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, communicate with him more, make it clear, everything can be solved.

    Long live understanding. After all, when it comes to money, it's really difficult.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To put it simply, you are not as good as those few dollars in his heart, if it is me, I will be angry and exchange the hundred dollars for coins to hit him, (I am not the kind of person who spends my boyfriend's money indiscriminately, but this kind of boyfriend gives me I will kick him aside, despise!) )

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, I don't know how long you've known each other.

    But if he does, it means that he is a man who is not rich. At least it means that he needs money, so he is frugal. Men all want to save face, and who doesn't want to spend money with women every time they go out to show their demeanor.

    So I don't think it's a matter of love or not, and I think he's probably in need of money, at least for now. If that's the case, then it's already good that he's willing to pay 20 yuan, and you have to learn to be considerate of men's feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No matter how you don't have any money, I'm willing to spend money for you Even if I buy you all the money on my body to buy you food, I walk home by myself I won't feel tired when I think of you being happy, but your man is also a little too petty But since being together is fate, don't be crazy about small things, love him, tolerate him, and understand each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think liking and love are indeed different, if he loves you, he will tolerate anything about you, and will do a lot of things for you, so that you can feel his love for you, and when he looks at you, his eyes are full of love for you. But if he simply has a crush on you and likes you, then there are some things he won't tolerate you and won't do for you. There will be a degree, you should feel it yourself, who pays more in your feelings, who loves more, then who will be more uncomfortable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She doesn't love you, at least he is willing to be responsible for you, he still likes you, you love him so much, but he doesn't care about you so much, he is also willing to be with you, then don't cry, maybe over time, he loves you more and more.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Love is reluctant, and twisted melons are not sweet! It's not your fault that you like him and love him. He likes you, but he doesn't love you, (maybe he loves you too, but he doesn't know it), and he's right!

    So you don't have to be sad, there is no grass at the end of the world. You can put this matter aside for a while, treat it coldly, and let time take away the unhappiness in your heart, maybe you can turn around!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    In fact, it is difficult to have a standard for the boundaries of love, some people love so deeply as soon as they enter love, and some people always understate love, love is also the same as other things, who pays more who will hurt more, so no matter when, our hearts should be stronger, endure three parts of love for themselves, keep seven parts of love to go with the flow, you love me more, I respect you for three points, don't take my love for you as a **, to hurt me, if so, go their own way.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Maybe you have paid a lot in love, and you always feel that he has paid less, he doesn't love you, at least he is responsible for you, and it is enough to pretend that you are in your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe you've given a lot to the relationship. And you think he's going to give very little. In fact, there is not much in love. As long as he is responsible for you. That's it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, his love for you is just a simple liking, then it will not be punished, there is no need to ask.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To put it bluntly, you don't want to have a deep relationship, maintain a level of relationship that he is satisfied with, and don't care about your feelings at all.

    Because, in essence, people think about themselves, and extreme people will make up a set of reasons for themselves.

    So, take the initiative and stay away from him. Just drift away, this kind of person is destined to be a pit?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The feelings paid by both parties may really not be completely equal, but as long as two people like each other in their hearts, it is enough, and there is no need to compete for who likes who likes who more, and who suffers what kind of thing is not clear at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    From the way you point commas, I feel that your love is at least impulsive.

    In addition, when love begins to compare how much it is measured, it is already less love, more like a transaction.

    There is so much fairness in love.

    The fastest way to force another man to leave you is probably n times a day, do you love me or not.

    Anyway, good luck. Above.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    She knows that you love her deeply, but she is also very honest and can tell the truth, she doesn't seem to love you so deeply, but feelings can be cultivated, as long as you are good to her and see people's hearts for a long time, she will also fall in love with you, you don't have to be sad, she is an honest and good girl.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to know how to maintain it, sometimes your love causes him a lot of pressure!It's time to relax with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sister, who understands what is going on in this picture, but I have to tell you from a calm, bystander that he says he is responsible and he doesn't necessarily do it, and that he says he doesn't love you that much must be true.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Love is not everything, sister, there are many beautiful people and things besides him besides your love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    See things from your own perspective. If you put yourself in the other person's shoes, you will also feel that you don't love the other person very much. It's good that two people love each other, why care, who loves whom more?

    Don't think too much, good things can become bad things, be simple, you can make life happier. Two people, after all, are two different people, their way of thinking, behavior patterns, and the environment in which they live and grow up are different, and their views on love will not be completely consistent, so the expression of love will be different. "You're not giving me what I want", so, "You don't love me enough".

    So what should you do when such an idea arises?At this time, you shouldn't get into the horns of the bull and blindly question "he doesn't love me enough".

    Instead, we should observe and think about each other's values, personalities, behavior patterns, etc., more calmly, to see if the two people are really compatible, Lahu or can appreciate each other. A sense of identity with each other is the basis for two people to be able to get along for a long time. It's not that he doesn't love you, it's a sense of self-preservation, a smart girl won't keep asking his boyfriend about the past, remember to talk about it once, it's equivalent to making him recall once.

    Since they've broken up, why do you want to remind him of it, right, girl. If you understand the psychology of a man, you will put him like a kite, the line is in your heart, and you can release it if you want.

    If you don't want to put it away, he will listen to you honestly. Girl, you can remember that you are his girlfriend, in his heart you are unique, he has no before, only the present, and your future. If a man falls in love with a girl, he must have a sense of responsibility, and this sense of responsibility is not to stop the other party from having a sense of security, and suffering from gains and losses.

    I don't know if your boyfriend has been hurt before, or if he has never been honest in the emotional world. If you are confident that he will change for you and be able to fall in love with you without reservation, you can try to fight for it, but I personally suggest that if the other party still does not respond after you work hard, give up decisively, which is also letting yourself go.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, in fact, people's intuition is very accurate, because some of the other party's words and deeds show that they don't love themselves, and they can naturally feel it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think it's true, I think you need to get to know each other carefully, and sometimes love is in your heart.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Yes, sometimes the other party is not good at talking and expressing his feelings, which will give the other party a false impression that he does not love him enough.

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