He always thinks I m controlling him too much and always arguing and breaking up

It's not that you're managing too much. Research data shows that if you fall in love with someone, your tears will be 3-5 times more than usual, and it is easy to be sad and happy.

This is why scientists explain why it is easier for boyfriends and girlfriends to be separated and reconciled, you say that you control too much, in fact, everyone wants their object to be as good as they imagined, everything. I hope that I can help him plan his life and so on, that is, I hope that he will be responsible.

What about the direction? Many people tell him that you have to work hard, but how do you establish your goals in a step-by-step process?

Quantitative change is the basis of qualitative change.

To put it simply. In other words, you should look at what he likes on a daily basis and then mentally figure out how you want him to be. (Don't tell him what you think).

Then find an opportunity to ask him, what goals do you have, and what ideals and so on, generally speaking, he is wandering, there is a general direction but there are no small goals to achieve!

It's time for you to come up with your ideas!!

Your idea should be based on his own, and he will quickly accept it. A man is not a fool many times, he has to think for himself, you just need to guide it, and women will be four or two pounds!

Divide it, divide it, and a man who has no sense of responsibility can't rely on it.

And like me, I'm like this, how can I help you.

Life is long, like him who is not doing his job, how can you believe that he will bring you happiness, give up! He's not for you.

Because he felt that the other party didn't love him enough, the other party refused to give in if he didn't apologize in time. It's just about giving each other time to calm down. Then the result, of course, is not worth it.

You may even feel that if someone loves you, they won't give you so much time to let you think about it. The more I think about it, the more I feel that the other person doesn't love me enough. If you continue to do so, there will be no result, it is better to break up earlier, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

1. The boy didn't comfort you in time.

If after the quarrel, the boy will let you get angry, and then the two of them will start a cold war. Boys don't take the initiative to give in, they don't apologize to you, and they don't even talk to you. Then you will feel more and more angry.

I think it's better to break up. Maybe a person is a little more chic. I think he will only make you angry, and he will not coax you.

He must not love you enough. And then you think a lot about it, and you end up thinking that it's not worth it to be with him again. It's better to break up as soon as possible.

So as soon as you quarrel, you will want to break up.

2. You can't feel the boy's love for you.

Girls have always had a concept in their hearts. If a guy really likes you, then he definitely doesn't want to make you sad. And after you have a fight with your boyfriend.

Your boyfriend knows that you are sad, sad, and helpless. He knows it all, he just doesn't come to comfort you. and will not give in to you.

It's just to see you sad. You can't feel his love for you. You can only feel his desperation.

So you will feel that there is no need for this relationship to continue, and the boy is no longer in love. If you drag it any longer, you may turn it into an enemy. You don't want to make yourself sad all the time.

So as soon as you quarrel, you will want to break up.

3. Too sensitive.

People who are too sensitive are actually not good at falling in love. Because you are always suffering from gains and losses, and you are insecure and have low self-esteem. After a boy quarrels with you, he can't make you feel that he still loves you.

Not being able to feel the other person's love for you is very fatal for you. If something is slightly wrong with the other person, you want to escape. At the same time, you also care about the other person's attitude towards you.

Because after the vast majority of boys quarrel, they will choose the cold war without saying a word. And the sensitive person is most afraid of the Cold War, because the person who quarrels with you gives you enough time to think about whether the relationship is worth it. Think about whether you're too bad.

Even in the end, I wonder if I deserve to be loved. Or whether you are worthy to love others. The result of such cranky thinking is that I have more and more inferiority.

Becoming less and less confident in yourself. There is also no confidence in the other party. The relationship between the two people is even less courageous to continue.

That's why they choose to escape. And breaking up is the best way to escape. So as soon as you quarrel, you will want to break up.

Although it is easy to hurt feelings when there are many quarrels, but in fact, it is easier to hurt the feelings of Zao Zheng when you quarrel and say that you are breaking up or divorcing, and you should not easily say it in front of the rock if you are really disheartened, once you say it, you will make up your mind.

Don't think too much about those useless, every family has a difficult scripture, you are easy to think more may be because you don't believe in each other very much in your heart, at this time you should be calm and communicate more, quarrels can't solve anything, life is to need a double fiber party to understand and support, not to quarrel early. I hope you both can calm down and have a good conversation.

Don't think about his bad sedan chair years, think more about his good and advantages for you, and usually don't complain about him and dislike him in my heart, so naturally I won't think about breaking up.

It may be because you care too much, but the breakup may be because you may not have confidence in your future.

If you care about him and her, it's easy to think too much. If you want to improve your position in the other person's heart, you don't think much about it.

Because you just want to see if the other person cares about you, or get the other person to apologize and coerce you to break up, or something else.

If you don't really want to break up, it is recommended not to do it like this, let alone say it in anger, in case the other party is serious and really breaks up, you will regret it. It's also quite sad.

If you really feel that it is not suitable and want to break up, don't say it during the quarrel, because the other party may think that you are angry, you can't separate, and it will add other troubles to you.

Why would I recommend such a question to me, I am a single dog to be a relationship mentor?? ）