A promise made to a loved one to fulfill after breaking up?

Updated on society 2024-07-07
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Commitment is very important for girls Always expect the person they love to give them the promise they want But at the same time I hope that boys don't make promises easily I think that what you say must be done Otherwise, don't say Break up The promise is still there It's better to fulfill it first Occasional boyfriends never make promises easily I love you The simple three words have never said He just said that I love you He thinks that I love you represents a lifetime commitment If he will marry me, he will say those three words to me In fact, there are still some small touches.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course don't fulfill.

    If that person makes a lifetime care for her.

    Can you do it?

    Don't you have to live your own life?

    Don't you have to start a new love on your own?

    I believe that love is natural.

    There shouldn't be any promises.

    It's all natural.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Fulfilling an x point is a point.

    When did a man's promise not be forced by a woman?

    They asked, it was not easy not to promise, and then when they broke up, they used the forced promise to say things, and the brother didn't have to pay attention to him

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Promises don't have to be fulfilled.

    If two people are together, it will enhance the relationship and increase understanding. That's okay. But after a breakup, there is no need.

    Even if you fulfill, so what. The fact of the breakup has already happened, so there is no such thing as who owes whom.

    At the same time, he has to put everything he has at the bottom to rot ......

    It's not your ruthlessness, it's your strength.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's all a lie, and what promises are fulfilled after they all break up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be sentimental. Fulfillment.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    So don't promise anything lightly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe there really is no right or wrong in love, I'm still very busy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is giving, even if it is a breakup. You still love her, and it's your duty to fulfill it. Men should be responsible, even if they marry someone else in the future. I don't feel sorry for my love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Once two people break up, everything before the breakup, whether it is promises, agreements, or arrangements for certain things, etc., will not count.

    A breakup is a breakup. In a way, it means that the two people have no relationship.

    Those promises and agreements are valid when two people are still in a relationship. If two people don't have anything to do anymore, then you can't expect the other person to do these things.

    I know it can be hard for you to deal with that, or even to accept the breakup.

    Indeed, many people are entangled in these small things after the breakup, which just shows that you have not accepted the fact that two people have broken up in your heart.

    If you can't accept it for a while, it doesn't matter, take your time, you need time.

    I know that you are like a little match girl who came across a stove in the cold. You spent a quiet time snuggling up to the stove, and today the stove is suddenly gone, and of course you miss the warmth that the stove once brought you.

    Again, take your time.

    You may need to take your time to adjust to life as a person.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In fact, when the promises are said again, people say it with their hearts, and they really think that way in their hearts, but with the change of time and events, the two people are no longer together, and those promises will of course disappear.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Some people have such a personality, they renew their commitments, and as long as they promise to do their best, they will do their best.

    Or maybe he still has you in his heart, and you still hold an important place in his heart. So he told him that he was just fulfilling his promise.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think I'm going to be responsible for what I once promised, because we're no longer us, it's her and me.

    In every emotional life, there will be many commitments. Some promises have been fulfilled, while others have become lies. But when the two broke up, it didn't make any sense.

    Whether or not there are still concerns in our hearts, there is no intersection in our lives.

    One to the left, one to the right, promises that have long been crushed by pulling. I still remember the day I broke up with my ex, I still thought the sunshine was very warm, but after the breakup, I felt very dazzling. When she turned to leave, I closed my eyes and crouched in place, and after a while, left in the opposite direction.

    The distance is getting farther and farther away as the two people leave, and all the beauty and sorrow between the two people have become piles of fragments. Those promises that were once made have slowly turned into bubbles, shattered by the harsh sun of that day.

    If the promise is a leash between two people, then when two people break up, this rope has long been let go of the hands of the two people and fell into the endless abyss.

    I won't be responsible for the promises I made after a breakup because I don't want to mess up the lives of two people anymore. Life after the breakup, she is she and I am me. We will never cross paths in our lives again, and we should not have any concerns and thoughts about each other in the future.

    The path of life has gone in a different direction, and the promises we once made have long since ceased to bring us happiness. I don't want to be held accountable for those promises, just because I don't want to let this failed emotion hurt two people again.

    She has found her life, and I am about to face a new life, and those promises are just shackles in memories. I still can't let it go, but I can't make it happen.

    All the involvement between the two people has been cut off at the moment of breakup. No matter how important the commitment is in our hearts, we are already strangers.

    Stop bothering each other after a breakup, that's the last thing I do for her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No, it won't. Because I feel that after the breakup, the two of them have gone their separate ways. There is no need to be responsible for each other anymore.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Definitely not, because those promises were made when the two of them were together, but now that the two of them have broken up, these vows have become meaningless.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't do this after breaking up, since the two people have chosen to break up, I personally feel that doing such a thing again is a waste of my time and feelings, and it is of no practical significance.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't. Now that the relationship is over, even if the promise I made is fulfilled, it is meaningless.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After the breakup, I don't think there is much need for the promises I made, so if it were me, I would definitely not fulfill the promises I made, because things are no longer human.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After the breakup, I will actually take responsibility for the promises I once made, because I think people should be honest people.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, I was also confused about this question, afraid that the other party would think that I still cared about him.

    I'm also afraid that I won't be able to forget those pasts.

    But now I figured it out.

    If you feel that doing those things makes sense to you.

    It will make you feel happy.

    Then do it. If you hate it.

    Just don't do it.

    Don't care about these things.

    Because it is always irrelevant to itself.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    How to deal with your ex after a breakup?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think the promise made when you are in love should never be taken seriously after the breakup, because people have changed!In my opinion, there are generally two kinds of promises in love, one sounds good, but it is unrealistic, for example, I will never leave you, I will never break up with you, because you are the treasure of my heart. The other is that it may not sound so beautiful, but it will be implemented, for example, I will take you to see Zhang Jie's concert, let's go to Lijiang to play together, and let's make a down payment together next year.

    If you carefully analyze these two promises, the first of them is generally used by scumbags to deceive little girls, because removing their beautiful words, in fact, there is nothing substantial in them; And the second one is my personal favoriteDon't worry about all the bells and whistles, don't love all day long, do something together and achieve some common small goals, which is what a real relationship needs

    So my advice on how to approach commitment when you're in love is:A good promise, just listen to it at the time, and slowly untie the knot in your heart; If you make the second promise with your heart, if he doesn't do it, you do it yourself!You know what I mean?

    You can't live without him? If you can't live, you will die, and if you can live, you will live well. Don't trap your circle in love, go out and walk more, read more books, really.

    The world, a little love, what is it? If you don't believe that you are the sun, how can others love you? Or you're not the sun, so it's okay to be a little light bulb, right?

    Don't dwell too much on what promises aren't keptBecause the two of you broke up, this actually means that the two of you no longer have any relationship, the past promises, agreements, that is when he is with you to play a role, if after the breakup, you use these promises to ask each other, maybe the other party will be sad, but it is more likely that he will think you are naïve, let him dislike you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First of all, the commitment is based on the relationship, and now that you've broken up, don't think too much about it. If you think like this, the other party may not take it seriously! However, human nature does not exclude the commitment between friends, and I think this is within my reach.

    If the other party is a man, don't expect anything, if it's a girl, maybe you can become friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Commitment is based on the existence of the feelings of both parties, if the two parties break up due to emotional discord, then the original commitment will also cease to exist with the relationship, and lose the meaning of existence. Therefore, after the breakup, there is no need to fulfill the previous promises.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's just like you heard a joke at the beginning, and you still plan to let the other party cash in after you broke up.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    They all broke up, and the previous promises don't count, so let him pass the past.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Now that the incinerator is gone, the previous promise no longer exists; Unless you promised someone something when you were in a relationship, what would happen after the breakup, then you should make a promise.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When the other party hasn't said it, they have broken up, and those promises no longer mean anything.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    They all broke up, and the other party's promises must be all counted, just like the flags they set up together before.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's all broken up, and it's useless to promise or not to promise.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's all divided, isn't it all nonsense to promise something?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's all broken up, and what promises exist.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You shouldn't believe in any promises.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Once you've got it, don't care so much.

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