Complicated feelings, 3 years just waiting to break up!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    In fact, the problem is very simple, the main thing is that you don't know your own love for her, she shows her love too obviously but makes you feel very indifferent, if you lose it, you will know how much you love her! How much regret will be @! Cherish it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Agree with the statement of the first floor, you care about her in your heart, people are like this, I don't know how good she is when I have it, and I completely lose it, you just think about her good every day, then you know what it's like, and I think men are more serious than women in this regard, there have been several examples around me, all of them are after a man lost her ex-wife, he was in pain, and when the two were together, he complained to us all day long about how dull he and her were, and he wanted to die or live to divide it, and he didn't feel anything after he was divided, But when other people's women look for someone else, he will collapse all day long, hehe This is a man, so brother, you are still very young, and your emotional experience is not rich enough, so you should listen to the opinions of the people around you. Best wishes.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't let it go.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, you are very wrong, for the sake of your own superficial face to maintain this relationship! If it's not fair to yourself, it's even more cruel to her. If there is no love, let it go, it is best for her and for you!

    In fact, it feels like you have no love for her from the beginning, just spiritual dependence, dependence and liking are two different things. Feelings can grow over time, but your separation does not deepen your feelings, but becomes weaker and weaker. Surely you haven't thought about why!

    You can't say you don't like her anymore, because you're worried about hurting her? All I can tell you is to do whatever you want! But don't regret it, because there is no regret medicine to take in life, and don't wait until you lose it to understand what it means to cherish.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Remember! Lad! True love is only once in a person's life!

    I believe you can argue clearly; So; You keep it and cherish it! Otherwise, discard!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Honestly. In fact, there is no problem with your question itself, the so-called problem is just a problem that you ask for yourself! Come to think of it, you didn't like her in the first place, right?

    Then you start to like her again, but in the end you still don't like her, right? So why aren't you breaking up now? Why?

    Because you feel that you have face, (classmates and other friends envy you and say that you have such a beautiful girlfriend!) In fact, it's very face-saving). But think about it, are you trying to save face?

    Or do you want to be genuine? If you figure this out, then your problem is solved!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You are cold-blooded and only love yourself as a selfish person.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She is a person, not a chicken rib, and if she doesn't like it, she will tell people plainly that his conditions are so good, and there must be many suitors in the university.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The 3-year relationship is not just about letting go, think about it if you really break up with her. What will happen to her? 3 years of affection, you have some nostalgia.

    It won't be without emotion. Feelings can be cultivated, just like you don't have feelings in the beginning. Think for yourself.

    No one can make decisions for you, and if I were you, I would choose to continue to love her. 3 years of time, people have given it to you. Cherish it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because you are too indifferent, feelings are to be cultivated by yourself, after you are divided, maybe one day you will reminisce about the beauty of the present, I feel that you do not know the blessing in the blessing, if the woman asks for more time with you, it is because I love you very much, I miss you very much, why don't you understand her, I am worried about you. Really, your girlfriend is a good woman.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you just like her face and her figure? Doesn't her inner beauty appeal to you? Then please let go, you don't really love someone, your "love" will only bring harm to her, you don't deserve to be loved by an infatuated person!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're still worried about her.

    You're still thinking about her.

    You're here to ask this question.

    All explained. You like her.

    Just because you feel like it's too easy to get.

    I don't want to cherish it. Maybe after you lose, you will know what regret is.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    How hard it is to find a good woman now.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's been three years, it's not easy, there are several three years in life, and a woman chooses you who have nothing when she is the most beautiful This is already a great sacrifice to love her with your life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love cannot be forced, it can be cultivated. You can try to be with her, if you still don't feel like her, then break up, otherwise you won't be happy together without love. If you don't bring it up, she won't bring it up, so you can't delay her.

    But if you are with her and slowly feel that she is good, and feel that you love her, then you can be happy together!

    The figure and looks are nothing, no matter how beautiful you are, if you don't like her, you can only appreciate it, not socialize.

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