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In fact, in the Han Dynasty, the idea of marriage and love was very open, and it began to be restrained in the Ming and Qing dynasties, so our current thinking about marriage is much more restrained than in the previous dynasties, and it is not so open. As the so-called "My Fair Lady, Gentleman is Good", in ancient times, as long as a woman is handsome, good-looking, and able to win the love of men, men can be pursued, even if this woman is already someone's wife, so in ancient times, those wives who went to other people's homes were not like me now, they would be said to be very unsightly, and it was actually a very normal thing in ancient times. Especially in the war era, his own man died in battle, and if there were other men, especially high-ranking and powerful people who wanted to go to the woman, they would generally be married, just like Cao Pi married Zhen Mi, who was already married.
Zhen Mi was originally Yuan Xi's wife, and at that time, she was also a first-class beauty during the Three Kingdoms period, which was completely comparable to Diao Chan. After Yuan Xi's defeat, his mansion was occupied by Cao Cao, and Cao Cao and Cao Pi had long heard of this Zhen Mi's beauty, so both father and son were thinking about this person, what Cao Cao didn't expect at that time was that his son Cao Pi grabbed it first, and Cao Cao couldn't rob a woman with his son for the sake of his own reputation, so he married Zhen Mi to Cao Pi. <>
During the Han Dynasty, the idea of marriage and love at that time was not as much as we have now, and it was still the Three Kingdoms period at that time, and the war was chaotic, so I didn't pay attention to these anymore. At that time, as long as the woman was beautiful and good-looking enough, as long as the high-ranking and powerful man liked it, he could marry and occupy it, especially if the woman's husband died in battle, it would be even more helpless, and it was normal to be forcibly married. Therefore, it is not surprising that Cao Pi dared to marry Zhen Mi, who was already married, and his father Cao Cao also liked to marry other people's wives.
Therefore, during the Han Dynasty, the idea of marriage and love was much more open than it is now, and there were not too many ethical constraints on the behavior of marrying a married woman.
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Marriage and love in the Han Dynasty were still very open, and women in the Han Dynasty could file for divorce, remarry, or have their own property.
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It's not very open, it's just the political situation at that time, Zhen Mi can expand Cao Pi's power. so that he has more strength to inherit the throne, so he will marry Zhen Mi after weighing the pros and cons.
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No, it's just that he inherited his father's hobby and likes to rob the enemy's wife, so he did it.
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First of all, Zhen Mi is Yuan Xi's wife, then Yuan Xi is Yuan Shao's second son, so Zhen Mi's status in the Yuan family is not trivial. Yuan Shao is the third prince of the fourth letter chain, a famous family, and he can become Yuan Xi's wife, not just by virtue of beauty. Yuan Shao's family was the "fourth generation and three dukes", which was very prominent at that time and was a typical noble.
During the Wei and Jin dynasties, it was very important to pay attention to the right people. Cao Cao's family status was not prominent enough, so Cao Cao wanted to make friends with some famous families to improve his family's status. As a nobleman, the prominent position of the Huabi Yuan family is very attractive to Cao Pi.
Cao Pi accepted Yuan Xi's wife Zhen Mi as his wife, and psychologically he would not feel very disadvantaged. Secondly, Cao Pi canonized Zhen Mi as his wife, it must be that Zhen Mi is beautiful, otherwise Cao Pi would not marry Zhen Mi back.
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Because Cao Pi was really fascinated by Zhen Mi, Zhen Mi was so beautiful, Cao Pi fell in love with her deeply and wanted to make her his wife.
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Zhen Mi's status in Zhizhen at that time was very high, which helped Cao Pi to be a stool unification, Zhen Mi was very beautiful, particularly talented, and had a special sense of general knowledge, which was also very helpful to Cao Pi's pure and fierce position.
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In fact, I feel that the two of them don't actually have any love, but are forced to be together.
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There must be no love, Zhen Mi was forcibly overlorded by Cao Pi.
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Zhen Mi doesn't love Cao Pi, she was robbed into her harem by Cao Pi.
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should really like it, otherwise I wouldn't marry her, Zhen Mi was Yuan Xi's wife at that time, and it belonged to the second marriage. And Zhen Mi's children eventually inherited the throne.
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If you don't love it, Cao Pi has no normal people's feelings, and her ruthlessness is beyond imagination.
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