I don t have a girlfriend, so I by myself when I think about it, so isn t this a mental illness?

Of course not, as long as it's just a moderate amount of Lu, it has nothing to do with girlfriends.

This is normal. Even if you have a girlfriend. It's not surprising to figure it out yourself.

This is a very normal physiological need.

The truth is actually quite heart-wrenching, cherish those boys who are still willing to pay for you.

Because many boys feel that they are not strong enough, they should not start.

I think it may be that the conditions are not good, it is difficult to find a suitable one without a house or a car now, or it may be for the sake of career, career-oriented boys will focus on their own work, so they are not in a hurry to find a partner, of course, it may be that fate has not yet arrived.

It may be due to financial pressure, and I have not been able to afford the cost of marriage and love, and I am afraid of the other party's jokes. Or maybe they don't have the idea of falling in love yet, and they want to talk about it for a few years. There are also because of their psychological problems, they always feel inferior to others, and they dare not talk to girls head-on, and they are very shy.

Because he didn't succeed in his career, he didn't want to fall in love.

This is not surprising. Girls nowadays are realistic. And being a boy is very stressful. It's better not to fall in love, not to get married, and it's not bad to live alone. There is also a kind of relationship that has been hurt, but there is no desire to fall in love.

Let me tell you, I don't know if it's you, he actually likes you very much, it's just a lot of pressure, and I don't express it clearly with you, love is two people, maybe he said this because of you.

Actually, it's not that I don't want to, it's a disappointment in the surrounding environment and the girls now, because the girls nowadays are very realistic. I'm not very generous myself, and I think it's also a burden for girls to want this and that, and in comparison, maybe a person's state will feel more relaxed......

Some boys think that they should start a career first and then think about personal problems, because it is a waste of time and energy to fall in love

Maybe he was hurt emotionally. So I wrapped myself very tightly and didn't believe in love. The older ones may have passed that period of time and did not have such a longing desire for love. I think it's good to live alone, nothing.

Because men are used to being free and lazy, they don't want to give people too many constraints, and the most important thing is that they have no money, no house, no car.

Have a good talk with her and tell her that she is your only one, and your current efforts are all for the sake of being able to live a good life in the future and be able to love her well. Instead of losing your temper at her. Because she loves you deeply, she will doubt you.

There are such boys, after all, girls are demanding now, and the current social pressure is very high, many boys have difficulty supporting themselves, and it is even more difficult to support a family, and now girls have high requirements for marriage, resulting in many families who can't afford it.

I didn't meet the right one, I didn't meet the one I liked.

I don't want to talk about it when I'm so hurt

No way. Isn't that the reason he rejected you?

In two cases, one is not enlightened at all, and my brother is that he was not interested in girls when he was in college. He is a very late bloomer, and he sees that girls belong to the kind of feeling type.

The second type is the ideal youth, they have their own ideas, they have to work hard to realize their dreams, and they don't have time to think about love.

The third is that there is no interest in the person who proposes love. For example, if a girl confesses to a boy, and the man says that he doesn't want to fall in love in college, it means that he is not interested in the girl, and he is just looking for an excuse so as not to hurt the girl.

First of all, falling in love can bring us happiness, and we should enjoy the process, which is one of the reasons to fall in love, in order to enjoy the joyful process in it.

2 6 Secondly, in order for us to have a place to go, a person is lonely after all, and it is necessary to find a companion, otherwise we will only be lonely and grow old.

3 6 Later, the idea of falling in love for the sake of passing on the family lineage may seem too conservative, but in fact it is not, and human beings need to reproduce after all.

4 6 Moreover, falling in love also allows us to have more sense of responsibility, if a person does not even have a sense of responsibility, it is too boring to live, and falling in love happens to make us have more sense of responsibility.

5 6 Then, in order for us to know how to cherish love, quarrels are inevitable in love, and we must learn to cherish each other.

6 6 Finally, in order to let us know how to care, many people only care about themselves and don't care about others before falling in love, and it is also very important to know how to care through falling in love.

Understand each other, care for each other, walk together until old age, and rely on each other as companions.

l Love is to establish the exclusive emotions of two people, and constantly run in the differences in order to achieve an intimate emotional experience.

This is the girl's hint, she doesn't want to fall in love just doesn't want to fall in love with you, basically deciding that you are a person who is not suitable for her, and you can break up.

First of all, how old are you, what is your education, are you in junior high school, high school, or college? Your question is small with critical information.

One, girls like you too, this is very important. It shows that you have an emotional foundation, so that there is a lot of room for development in the future.

Two, the girl tells you that she doesn't want to be in a relationship. Then I understand that you are high school students. In this case, studies are more important than love. Maybe she's just smart, so she looks further than you, and she hopes to go to a good university, so that there will be a wider world in the future.

Three, if you are a college student or have already gone to work, then, she said that she doesn't want to fall in love for several reasons, 1, she is now thinking about doing her job well, she values her work very much, and she is very ambitious, and she doesn't want to fall in love to influence. 2, there are some things happening at her home, her heart is chaotic, and she is not in the mood to fall in love. 3. She is fragile in the depths of her soul.

This could come from an unhappy childhood, or from a previous relationship that hurt her, or because of her personality that makes her particularly insecure, so she is watching before you give her enough security.

In fact, since you are sure that she does like you too, then this problem is easy to solve. As long as you continue your own offensive, be careful not to be aggressive and not self-defeating. Look for an opportunity to dissect your scheming.

Actually, you don't have to be impatient, as long as you are sure that you can block other boys from joining, you will not be able to make a difference. You will make it!

I think I didn't dare because I was afraid of losing.

Because, I am afraid that I would have lived a good life alone, but I would have made myself unbearable because I fell in love. I'm afraid that I will take your casual flirting words seriously, and I'm afraid that no matter how hard I try, I can't replace the status of my ex-girlfriend. I'm afraid that you can't give a sense of security and complain that we think too much.

But in fact, ** is that we don't want to? I don't dare.

There have never been surprises and gifts, there has never been romance and flowers, and I have never dared to ask how much you can give, for fear that you will think that we are vain and materialistic. I'm afraid of denying myself repeatedly, I'm afraid that you will be cold and violent, I'm afraid that you will be free and ruthless, and I'm afraid that you don't know how to cherish it, but only know how to ask for it. What girl doesn't want to have a long sweet love?

Because, many girls in life who are sincere in their feelings know in their hearts that they are just the short-term goals of those people. There is no shortage of other targets for them, they can call your daughter-in-law on their mobile phones, or they can be ambiguous with others at the same time. Therefore, the girl herself knows that with this true heart, how can she be punished by others.

Because I'm afraid of meeting a scumbag, I spend all my time making myself better, and I use it to study, hoping to meet someone who is also good with me, as long as I meet him, the lonely battle in front of me also has meaning. So it's not that we girls don't want to fall in love, but because we feel that we are not good enough and unworthy of the person we think is excellent.

Sometimes I envy some girls who are very free and easy, and they can be the same as some boys, ambiguous and unambiguous, and they will disperse if they can't do it. But I'm always afraid that someone will inadvertently miss the boy who also pays sincerely, and I'm afraid that if I'm not careful, I will hurt others and delay others. I am always worried about the beginning of the unclear and the end of the unclear.

When a girl is good enough to give herself a strong sense of security, she will definitely want to fall in love if she can meet someone she likes.

There are several scenarios. One is to face your confession that she doesn't like you, there is no heartbeat feeling, women are emotional, and saying this to you will neither hurt your face nor affect the relationship between the two parties. One is that they have been emotionally traumatized and feel that the price paid for love is too great, and they never want to touch it again.

One is that people in the surrounding environment have unhappy marriages and unhappy love, or they grow up in unhappy families and have a natural fear of love and marriage. There is also a kind of really strong woman, who can earn money by herself, her family can take care of herself, a person can take care of herself very well, the quality of life is high, and a person is also very good.

I'm a girl.,I've had experience with this problem.,My family conditions are not very good.,I'm still outstanding.,Plus the education level that my parents gave me.,Today's status is very embarrassing.,I don't like boys who aren't good enough.,Good enough, I feel that my family conditions are not worthy of others.,In short, it's very contradictory.,So I don't say that I like boys.,Just say that I don't want to talk about it yet.。 I don't know if that's the case with the girl you like.

She should have some difficulties, I think it is probably due to family factors, you have to be patient, slowly find out her difficulties, if you two can get through this, I think you are not far from happiness. Don't rush it, remember.

Lovers eventually become married.

To put it bluntly, you and her have a good calm talk, if there is something to talk about later, nothing can be said to be dead, what is said is what it is, what if anything changes?

If you like it, you shouldn't be in love.,There's no one to stipulate it.,Maybe she's afraid of delaying her studies.,Or work or something.。 Anyway, there should be a reason, since you like it, respect her decision.

Love is very careful, there must be a confusion in the girl's heart, she always refuses to accept you, and liking does not mean love. Maybe it's just that I have feelings for you, but not the kind of love that is very deep.

Maybe at the moment she has something to do or deal with, and she doesn't have the time or mood to fall in love.

Maybe she likes you, but she hasn't figured out if that kind of liking is a lover's kind, and she's not mentally prepared to associate with you.

The girl tells you that he doesn't want to fall in love, then I can understand that you are high school students, and your studies are more important than Ning'an, maybe he is smarter than you, and he can see farther, hoping to get into a good university.

If your college student is already at work, there are several reasons why he doesn't want to be in a relationship.

One he is now thinking about doing his job well, the work is very important, and it has a special career line, and he doesn't want to fall in love, which will affect.

2 There are some situations in her family, and her heart is more chaotic, and she is not in the mood to fall in love.

3. She is more fragile in the depths of her soul, which may be due to an unhappy childhood, or she has been injured in a relationship before, resulting in a particularly insecure personality, so when you don't give her enough security, she is waiting.

The first is that she really doesn't want to talk about it, she wants to study hard, work hard, and fight first, and the second is that she doesn't like you.

There are also several situations where girls say they don't want to fall in love. The first is that I really didn't find the boy I wanted. Of course, he has no desire to fall in love.

The second is that he has been deeply hurt in the relationship and doesn't want to talk about it. There is also the fact that she met some boys who are not high or low, and she feels that love is better than indiscriminate. If you don't look for it, you won't look for it.,If you want to find it, you must find a good one.,It's the best for yourself.。。

Although she likes you and misses you, you still don't reach her ideal goal.

Some girls don't want to just don't want to. There's no particular reason ... Maybe you don't think it's okay to be a boyfriend or a friend...

I have seen too much of some love problems on the Internet, and I think now is not the time. Now you need to be a hero to be beautiful, to make him feel that he is more important than your own life ...

Either they are afraid of affecting their learning. Either the family refuses. Either that, or they are afraid that their feelings will be hurt again.

Because girls are afraid of being hurt.

Because the girl has been hurt, she still can't forget her ex, so she doesn't want to fall in love and she doesn't want to do anything. Only when you get out of your ex can you have the courage to fall in love.

It's not that I don't want to fall in love, it's that I don't want to get married.

People are contradictory, maybe he has a knot.

Because some girls will feel that it is very troublesome after falling in love, they have to take care of the other half of everything, and there is a possibility of quarrels, which makes girls very bored. There is also a possibility that the ex hurt too much.

Most people have been hurt because girls are more fragile than boys after all, and after experiencing some sad things, they slowly lose confidence and hope in love.

Because you probably don't meet her requirements.

When girls ask this question, one is that they are not interested in boys! The second is that your position does not allow love! (e.g. students).