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In many cases, rebellion comes from the incorrect guidance of the family, such as parents who are too busy and neglected, grandparents education, too large a generation gap, and various pressures, such as what the family gives, what the school gives, and what the society gives. I think it's normal to be rebellious, but it's strange not to be rebellious, except for those who have very superior family conditions, everything goes well, or those who are very considerate of their parents and sensible, general rebellion is a normal physiological reaction. Pay attention to yourself, be rebellious and rebellious, and don't do things that are harmful to yourself.
You can talk back to your parents, but you have to know that they are the only ones in this world, who have a conflict with you today, and care for you tomorrow. It's "normal" to be rebellious, but don't be greedy
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Trying to control oneself, the reason for adolescent rebellion is because when you grow up, you have your own thoughts, but your own thoughts will conflict with your parents' thoughts, which is called puberty. So, try to communicate with your parents, and if you really can't convince them, contact them less to avoid conflict.
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If you don't rebel, it's called Shenma adolescence? Are those scientists eating dry food?
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Not all girls are rebellious and don't want to communicate with their parents, because there are disagreements after a few words, and it would be better to do more and talk less, such as studying hard, doing housework, etc., at least be able to listen patiently to what their parents say, and not to confront each other.
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Adolescent rebellion in girls is manifested by irritability and stubbornness.
When these girls are irritable, they will have conflicts with strangers, and even their own families. When a girl becomes very irritable, she will not only have conflicts with her family, but also with her teachers and classmates.
Stubborn and stubborn, insisting on a specific thing, even if it is the same in appearance. Insist on wearing a certain piece of clothing and shoes, even if it is not in season, you must do what you want to do, otherwise you will cry and make a fuss, sit on the ground in public, and beat people. Contrary to the parents, the more the parents ask for not to do it, the more forbidden things to do, the more to do.
Ignore your parents and would rather play by yourself than with your parents.
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Girls will compare with each other during puberty, and there are many forms of rebellious psychology in adolescent girls. When girls reach puberty, they buy a lot of things because they compare themselves with each other. will challenge the rules and authority, deliberately break the previously set rules of the scumbag, put forward new requirements one after another, talk to parents about conditions, and be willing to do things only if they meet the requirements.
Depression and inferiority tendency, into adolescence, and gradually into the social growth period, the surrounding people, things, environment, atmosphere will affect and determine a girl's growth and maturity. At this time, the girl is no longer an innocent little girl, and the natural growth period of laughter and carefree has gradually passed.
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The manifestations of adolescent rebellion in girls are as follows:
1. Emotional instability: In the case of irritability, girls will have disputes with their classmates, their relatives will also have disputes, and in serious cases, they may also have conflicts with teachers.
2. Strong comparison psychology: they will pay extra attention to their appearance, and they will dislike their parents, and even often buy things they can't afford.
3. Get rid of family consciousness: When girls reach puberty, they already have the consciousness of getting rid of the family. She no longer needs too much care and companionship from her parents, but they are not independent enough and mature nature determines that they are always a little cowardly and afraid, so they will tell some psychological things to their classmates.
How to deal with it
1. Need to give children space to grow: As parents, after girls enter the rebellious period, they need to learn to give children space to grow. Cultivate children's habits and ability to solve problems independently, learn to let children think independently, and know how to feel children's thoughts and emotions with their hearts.
2. Don't easily deny the child: When the girl enters the rebellious draft, the behavior is unacceptable, but the father-respecting mother needs to be treated objectively and cannot easily deny the child.
3. Pay attention to education methods: When girls are rebellious, they need to let their children learn to distinguish between right and wrong, and they can give children appropriate praise and encouragement, not always criticize and blame themselves.
4. Uninterrupted attention: The growth of girls needs long-term guidance and constant attention.
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Girls in the rebellious period generally do not listen to their parents, and will often go against their parents.
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The performance of girls' adolescent rebellion, Lu Heng often shows that he does not like to be disciplined by his family. For the teachings of the elders, it is difficult for Yin Xikuan to listen to them, and sometimes Feng Liang will think that the parents are verbose, and talk back to the parents.
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Emotionally unstable, but also early love, hates studying, is very impulsive about everything, and is also very curious, and does not want to socialize.
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1. The rebellious performance of girls in adolescence is often manifested as not liking to be controlled by their families. It is difficult to listen to the teachings of the elders, and sometimes they will think that the parents are verbose and talk back to the parents. Children at this stage, as long as their parents oppose what they are not allowed to do, they will come in the opposite direction, and they will fight with their parents all the time, which is more difficult to discipline.
2. Adolescent rebellious children will disagree with their parents or teachers. The expectations and requirements of parents cannot be completed well, and the things that parents do not allow will be done more comprehensively. During this period, the child's attitude towards the family and school is indifferent.
And the behavior will also be more extreme, often do some excessive behavior or behavior.
3. Most girls in the rebellious period of adolescence are self-centered. Whether it is in the family or in the school environment, it is a one-way attitude. I like to make my own decisions about everything, and sometimes I seem to be a little unfocused and don't take my elders seriously.
In the minds of such children, their actions are always right.
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