My boyfriend wanted to separate on his own, but he tried to get me to take the initiative

If you're really with him for work. Then I didn't say anything. If it weren't for living with your parents and finding a job on your own, you would have grown up in a greenhouse.

Of course, living together as a family should be quite self-contained and tolerant of each other. Maybe your position is right, and the other party's position is wrong, but the other party has to strive for these trivial things.

One, he's tired of you, and two, there's some special reason.

We should accommodate each other, understand each other's difficulties, understand each other, and seek solutions to the problem, and can't blame any party for the problem His faint redemption shows that he still cares about you very much! Blessings...

Your friend's [guess] 'maybe' is right! Because:1

They have 'many' properties and would rather rent them out than let you live separately 2.His friends helped you find a couple of 'good' jobs, and he just wouldn't tell you. Because he's going to break up.

Your friend [said] that 'maybe' is wrong! Because:1

Their family has no ability to 'buy a new house', so they can only 'squeeze' into 'home';When I promised you, I said it 'casually', and I didn't 'weigh it'; 2.It is appropriate to help you find a job, but it is limited to a 'small' social scope, and you will not find an 'ideal' job that is 'suitable for you' for a while. So let you [also] figure it out.

He faintly redeemed: It was you who cultivated a 'cowardly' man who could 'be 'cried' into a 'man with tears [Mo] flicking' and a man who was not strong enough".

Have you [reflected] over?!

From the 'little boy' who was 'a little angry' and he was anxious to 'cry', he has grown into a 'ruthless man' who 'broke up' and was just a 'faint redemption'.

This process is not your credit?! Are you 'too loving' to be angry?! 'Women are hard to raise', but you told him with realistic 'words and deeds'!

You propose? He proposed? Does it matter?!

The crux of the matter is: your 'love' is already very difficult to 'love'!

Haha: Maybe it's possible.

Your boyfriend has had enough of you big miss.

Change your temper a little.

Communicate more about everything, so that it can last a long time.

It's impossible not to hurt, just minimize the pain of the breakup, and according to my understanding, your boyfriend should be machismo, he is more possessive, and if it's because of a third party, he will also drive him crazy.

For such a person, frankly, you can only tell him directly, "I don't have feelings for you anymore." "Because it's useless to say more.

And I think the reason why you raised this question may have been figured out in your heart, hoping to break up with him, if he loves you so much and is so possessive, he will not easily agree to you.

The most likely result is that the lotus root is disconnected and entangled!

But I think that's the most painful way to break up, and both parties are delayed.

It's better to break the pain than to break the pain for a long time, really, forget the pain, don't hurt again, hurt again.

It doesn't matter what you say, the key is a matter of concept.

Also, I guess you'll say things like "we can still be friends", but it's actually hurtful for those who are possessive. In fact, there is no value at all in saying this, it is just an excuse.

You get ready, and if you say it, don't think about his good, or don't divide it. If you divide it, you have to be decisive. In this way, both people are better.

I wish you all the best.

People may be like this, they don't cherish what they get, and they don't cherish what they get easily.

As you can see from your situation, your person really loves you and sticks to you, he may be a Pisces or a Cancer.

And you, probably Aquarius.

The personalities of such two people can be said to be really not suitable for being together.

Since I don't love anymore, there is no need to compromise, and I feel very guilty when I say I broke up.

The way Aquarius breaks up is generally cold, neither saying it out about breaking up, but also not contacting the other party, even if the other party contacts them, they will ignore it.

After a long time, the other party will inevitably get tired and will take the initiative to break up.

Pisces is the most afraid of being left out, and the cold heart is cold.

However, I think that if you don't love it, you should be brave enough to say it, so that both of you are liberated, so why not?

You should talk to him thoroughly and tell him how you feel! Don't be anxious with him, let alone noisy. You can't always drag it back, it's not fair to him, since you don't love him, you can't force yourself, and you can't be embarrassed to say it, love is love, if you don't love, let go!

You should slowly distance yourself from him, you can't procrastinate, he should feel it, just don't say it! I hope you take care of your relationship!

If you don't like it, hurry up and separate, please don't be sentimental, boys are inexperienced in love, and if you fall in love, you will dig out your heart and lungs, and it just so happens that you don't like it, it doesn't matter, some people like it, you quickly withdraw, make room for others, don't waste your time and others, and don't expect this boy to take the initiative to break up, the longer it drags on, the more it hurts, what to say, it's actually nothing if you don't be a lover.

Since you think so, then you still take the initiative to break up, you can see, you really don't have any feelings for him, but your boyfriend is deeply involved, I think it's better for you to mention it, it's good for both of you to bring it up as soon as possible, you two are really not suitable for being together, and if you continue to go down, there may be no good results, so, don't be too entangled, talk to your boyfriend for a good chat, don't talk so ruthlessly, if he peesters you, you can ask your girlfriend to talk to him, you don't get too entangled, I also believe that time will dilute everything.

Since you don't like it, make it clear to him, the two of you don't have the same personality, if you are together, you will be unhappy, let him understand that you are fruitless, if your boyfriend is clear about people, he will understand you, since he likes you, you don't want to go with him, he will make you happy, if you break up with him, he will understand.

Just go straight to the point. It's hard to explain the relationship, if you love someone, everything about him is so pleasing to the eye and so cute. If you don't love him once, then it's awkward to look at him, and it's uncomfortable for him to do anything.

In fact, this is the absence of him in his heart, which has nothing to do with his performance at all. If you don't love it, then break up, say it directly, and get together and disperse.

It is recommended that you make it clear directly, the more you delay, it is not a good thing for both of you, there is no right or wrong in the world of love, no one is sorry for anyone, if you can still be friends in the future, then slowly return the favor, if you can't, you don't mind.

He loves you so much that it's impossible to take the initiative to break up, unless you do something beyond his bottom line, but so why bother? Whoever mentions the breakup will have the same result, you take the initiative to mention it, don't let him waste his feelings again, but before mentioning it, you have to make sure that you don't regret it, in case you can't find someone who loves you so much in the future.

You can slowly snub him, but if it doesn't work, you have to say it directly, personality disagreement, language discord, etc. If it drags on, it hurts both of them. Long pain is better than short pain, early problem and early relief. You obviously don't like him anymore, and it's a disservice to him not to mention it.

Tell him directly, I don't like to break up. But it's not easy for you to meet a man who loves you so much, so cherish it.

You don't like people anymore, and you still want people to bring it up and break up, I think it's a bit too cruel for you to do this, because he likes you, why did you let him bring it up? He loves you so much, he won't propose to break up, you don't love her anymore, you should bring it up to break up.

You don't love your boyfriend anymore. You should tell him. I think he'll break up with you when he knows.

Since you don't like him and want to break up with him and are embarrassed to say that you are very annoyed, then you should have a good talk with him, talk about your psychology, let him think about it well, and don't always procrastinate and decisively separate. Otherwise it's all painful.

It's simple, just find a man to pretend to be your boyfriend, so that he basically can't stand it and will take the initiative to break up with you.

Tell him directly, if you don't like it, you don't like it, there's nothing to hide, and you have to break up simply!

Every day, you ask him for money to spend, and if you don't give him, you will beat him.