Is it still the age of patriarchy?

Patriarchal... How to say it. My grandfather has been dead for a few years, and if he is still alive now, then he is almost in his 70s, and my grandfather is not patriarchal.

The family my aunt married was patriarchal, because my aunt gave birth to a daughter, so the food given by my in-laws was not very good, but now the conditions are better, and the food is not worried. When my mother first gave birth to me, my grandfather asked my mother with a smile what she wanted to eat, and she would buy whatever she wanted, and he was also very precious to me, and I remember riding a bicycle to take me to the street to play when I was a child. I'm also a girl, and I'm the only one in my family.

Therefore, I think that the preference for sons over daughters is not determined by society, but by people's thoughts, everyone's thoughts are different, everyone comes into contact with different people, and they have experienced different things, so it is natural that the outlook on life and worldview are different. So it's not that the current society is patriarchal, it's that people's thinking is still too rigid and traditional

So what are you trying to express?

Also, society rotates between men and women, and now it is estimated that it will be back to matriarchal society...

Yes, the traditional Chinese idea is that boys are good. If you don't want to have children, you are looking forward to having a boy, but the south is different, the south likes girls, because when you get married, the man has to pay a lot of bride price money and have a car and a house, and girls are very popular.

Your question is messy.

Reorganize it and send it again.

Yes in some families, but it is not advocated now.

Ideologically or in terms of employment? It should be gone, there are more and more things for men and women in various fields, and the division of labor between men and women is becoming less and less obvious!

Although the law provides for equality between men and women, this phenomenon is isolated and exists.

Last year, I helped my uncle in the countryside. Because of trivial matters, my uncle quarreled with my aunt, and my uncle said, "You have the ability to give me a son."

My aunt stopped talking. This sentence is like a thorn in the back, I didn't expect such patriarchy in the countryside. My aunt's family has three daughters, and the family is unwilling because they didn't give birth to a son.

In the countryside, many people prefer sons over daughters, but in fact, people in the city also have this concept. Now I don't distinguish between the city, and the countryside has Tomoga. The preference for sons over women is prevalent in societies with balanced gender balance, in economically backward areas, and in rural areas where manual work is carried out.

But to be fair, men do have an advantage over women in life and work. There is no choice of gender. This kind of unfair concept of equality is gradually decreasing in a society where there are more men and fewer women.

But there is still a long way to go.

This phenomenon is inevitable in all ages, after all, from the genetic point of view, only boys have the genes of the male father. In daily work, it is often men who dominate, and the so-called strong women are rare.

The older generation must have thought this way. Nowadays, many young people don't have this kind of thinking. On the contrary, I still think my daughter is good.

Because a lot of people's minds have changed, boys and girls are the same.

In rural areas, there are more or less shadows of patriarchal preference in life, and the shadow of this phenomenon is still relatively common and easy to find.

Take grandpa's house as an example, every year during the Spring Festival, there will be a family gathering, the whole family will get together for a meal, but when eating, it is often the women in the family who are busy cooking, and the men in the family generally only need to sit at the dinner table and chatter, drinking tea and waiting for the female members of the family to prepare the meal, and no male member of the family takes the initiative to go to the kitchen to help the women in the family cook, which is a typical patriarchal phenomenon. After all, such household chores should be shared between male and female members.

And when it comes to eating, often the man sits at one table, the woman and the child sit at the other table as a dish, when it is ready, it is to serve the food on the man's table first, and then give the woman and the child this table of dishes, which seems to be a small detail, but it can also be clearly felt that obviously in this family, the man is treated with special care, and when the meal is over, the men in these family members do not need to clean up the table, continue to go back to the house to chat, or watch TV together, and the female members of the family need to clean up the table and wash the dishes, although this is just a small detail in life, but more or less it still makes me feel a little uncomfortable, after all, these housework should be shared by male and female members, and should not be pushed on female members.