What is it like to be flaunted by someone who doesn t have any money of your own?

I've heard a story about a rich man who lived so long, and people asked him how you managed to live so long and be rich. The old man said that when he was young, his family was very poor, there were only three thatched huts, and every time I encountered something angry, I would circle around the thatched huts, and when I turned around a few times and saw that my land was so small, I told myself that I had the ability to be angry with such a little property, so I turned my anger into hard work.

Slowly my wealth has changed a lot, and when I encounter angry things, I still go back to my home, circle around my land, and when I am tired and exhausted and have not played around, I understand that I have so much and what is there to be angry about. Showing off your wealth is the most powerless expression! When you encounter it, you can treat it indifferently and laugh it off.

Out of "poor" self-esteem, which is so strong, I'd rather swear that I'm rich than laugh and say I'm poor. Generally, this situation is due to facing too many other people's sarcasm and ridicule of their poverty in the early stage, so they will show the behavior of "showing off their wealth" in the later stage. In fact, this kind of person looks very arrogant and arrogant on the surface, but in fact, when you really get to know him, you will find that he is actually very fragile in his heart, after all, no one wants to be laughed at for being poor.

In other words, he is using a strong appearance to protect his humble self-esteem, even if it is a bit hurtful.

Generally speaking, if you know that person is not richer than yourself, that person will usually be someone you know, or it may be a stranger. If it's someone you know, then I believe you must have known him, but you haven't fully understood him, if that's the case, then you might as well laugh it off, anyway, he knows in his heart that he doesn't have as much money as you. If it's a stranger, then why might as well laugh it off, anyway, he doesn't know that there is someone richer than him.

People who are greedy for vanity and can't restrain themselves will always decorate themselves with some beautiful and expensive things, for fear that others will not see that they are "rich". This type of person can feel hypocritical and disgusting.

In ordinary minds, everyone's way of life is different, and the way of thinking is different. Maybe the other person just wants to share it? Don't worry too much about it, and there's no need to prove anything.

In fact, some people show off their wealth just to stand on their own feet and make themselves more dignified in front of people. So when I encounter this situation, I won't say anything. Just watch silently.

I think everyone has a different understanding of wealth. If someone flaunts their wealth in front of me, I usually turn a blind eye to it, even though I am richer than the other person. Because my understanding of wealth is to take it from the people for the people, and the best way to show off your wealth is to use the money you earn to give back to the society.

Money is not a measure of a person's character. There's nothing wrong with flaunting your wealth, it's just a way for some people to show off in front of people. Although I am richer than him, if the other party likes to show off his wealth, then let him show off his wealth, and this behavior will not affect me anything.

It's unfair in my heart. It doesn't feel as good as others.

I don't think he has a better life, and I want to ask him about his outlook on life if he has the opportunity.

First, I am too busy with work to post on Moments. Everyone's life is actually busy, at different ages, we do different things, students are busy with their studies, adults are busy with their careers and families, and we have to take care of both.

Even the retired elderly can't be idle, they either hide from their grandchildren, or are busy with fitness travel, participating in various social activities, etc., they are also too busy to talk about it, and they can't stop for a moment. Being busy is actually a good state that can make your life more fulfilling, and your heart will be richer and less empty.

Second, they are generally very assertive and do not go with the flow. Some people want to take pictures of people and things when they see them, record them, or see everyone rushing over to join in the fun, and they will definitely not be left behind. Then follow everyone's footsteps, follow the common voice, cater to the public, express opinions and get everyone's approval.

And people who are really clear-headed are often very aware of their current state and future development direction. They won't follow the crowd at all, but will find another way, and Chunwu will not take the usual path. This kind of person is very assertive and thoughtful, and is often prone to extraordinary achievements.

Third, they love life, are content, and never like to show off and compare. People who like to show off are not really rich, but often caused by inner emptiness and lack of confidence. They want to win the approval of others, to gain praise from others, and to satisfy their vanity.

And people who are really strong in their hearts don't need to pay too much attention to what the outside world thinks of themselves, they will only look for the direction and move forward unswervingly. If you get it, you will not be ecstatic, you will not get it or lose it for the time being, and you will not be depressed and slumped, but you will become more and more frustrated and courageous, and go to a new level.

If they want to compare, they will definitely replace the object with themselves, compare themselves with themselves, and make progress every year, every day, and even every moment, and they are already very content.

Fourth, they tend to prefer to be alone and have learned to reject unnecessary socializing. In life, in many cases, we are consumed by the people and things around us, but we don't know it. Friends come one after another, party after party, it is difficult to really settle down and be alone with yourself, in such a noisy environment, can you still keep your heart?

Under this repetition day after day, we are wearing up or grinding our own time and energy, and it is ourselves who are really delayed. Because no matter what, time never stops. We must learn to be alone, thoroughly understand what you really want in your heart, and then go and work hard, and you will eventually achieve your goal step by step.