What does it feel like to be confessed by someone you don t like?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Confessed by someone you don't like? Non-existent, no matter how the person who doesn't like you explains his thoughts and thoughts to you, your heart is unwavering, and even a little irritable, and there is no romance at all from the beginning that the confession should have, so I personally think that being confessed by someone you don't like is not a confession in the real sense.

    When I was in high school, I had better grades and a more cheerful personality, because I was willing to make friends with all kinds of people, and the opposite sex relationship can be said to have been good. During that time, I was immersed in my studies, I didn't care much about dressing up, and my clothes were just clean, but I did belong to the kind of eight-point girl who looked better without makeup (phew, really shameless), and there were a few boys in the class who were very good to me, including the top student in the class, and the last few very naughty but very righteous class ruffians chasing me.

    But until my sophomore year, I didn't have a boyfriend. Why? I don't like it.

    Friends around me often spread all kinds of news about getting off the list, only I live my own little life in peace, and it's not very bad. If you have to talk about what kind of experience it is to be confessed by someone you don't like, it is more accurate to say that you have no experience, and you don't feel anything.

    Love letter. It's like someone handing me a homework book, and I'll be very grateful to a guy who suits me for hot water after class, but if he has to fetch me water all the time, I don't want him to fetch me even if I need it, because I understand that I don't like him and I can't always let him spend time on me.

    Think about it, rather than spending time summarizing what it's like to confess to someone you don't like. Instead, it's better to list how you tell others that I don't like you, because I really don't feel anything, I should only have feelings for the person I like, after all, the premise of being together is that the two are happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The most difficult thing in the world is love, not only love, but sometimes it is also a difficult thing to be passionately pursued by people who don't like it.

    I believe that some girls have had this experience, being confessed or pursued by people they don't like. In the eyes of outsiders, this is a very happy thing to be proud of and show off, but as everyone knows, the person concerned is not as happy as others think. In other words, the goddess who seems to be high up and sought after by everyone is not necessarily happy.

    In fact, what people want most is that the person they like happens to like themselves, and it doesn't matter what other people they don't care think, even if you don't like it. Therefore, we will only feel truly happy when the person we like confesses to us. If you meet someone you don't like and confess to you that they want to pursue you, you will find it very troubled.

    Because you have to think about how to refuse him so that he doesn't feel embarrassed and hurt his feelings, you have to think about how you can do it to be more decent, and how to deal with it to get the best result. It's really not easy to do this, but all this trouble is brought about by the confession of the person you don't like, and you don't want it at all, which is a nuisance for the pursuer.

    I've had the experience of being confessed by someone I don't like, and I've always been the best brother. At that moment, I was so embarrassed that I wanted to find a hole in the ground and disappear in front of him immediately, and I didn't know how to face him at all. Later, I didn't know how to deal with it, so I had to avoid him every day and never play like before.

    Actually, I regret it now that I think about it, I shouldn't have treated him like this at that time, because after all, there is nothing wrong with liking someone.

    Hey, maybe in other people's mouths, this can be regarded as a happy annoyance.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone's feelings will be more or less different, the first time I was confessed was in the third year of junior high school, I was a tall, white, very clean boy. At that time, various subject groups were in vogue, and he was the head of my language group. I forgot the specific time, but I remember that suddenly one day everyone looked at me with an ambiguous smile, making people think that I knew your secret, and then my friend told me:

    Hey, you don't know? He likes you! My expression at the time was, in today's parlance, bewildered.

    During the weekend holiday, the boy came to me and said that he would take me to the station, and he was silent all the way, and when he was about to arrive, he suddenly confessed, which scared me a lot. At that time, he was young, and he was still in a state of ignorance and fear of the early love in the mouth of his parents and teachers, so he simply rejected him and never spoke to him in the following days. Fortunately, it was about to take the high school entrance examination, so this kind of day did not last long, and the next time we met was at the beginning of high school, unfortunately we were in the same school, but at that time he already had a girlfriend.

    Thinking about it now, it should have felt a little awkward and overwhelmed at that time, after all, the grade at that time had never thought about love.

    The second time was when I was in high school, and I already had a little understanding of love at that time, but I was forced by all kinds of pressure, so I never thought about falling in love. When I was in high school, I sat facing each other, and he sat diagonally across from me, and one day somehow he handed over a note and said I like you. Because two people don't communicate very much and don't talk much, it's strange how they can suddenly say they like you.

    Later, I found out that it was because I was punished for throwing winks at him when I was playing a game, but because I couldn't blink at that, he was tempted at that time. Because I don't have any feelings for the other person, I don't have any feelings. But what makes me feel comfortable is that the boy doesn't pester people, and even after the division, he will occasionally give small snacks.

    For his confession, I still feel a little guilty until now, because the other party has given your entire youth for you, and you have not responded, so there is always a sense of guilt.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone fantasizes that the person they like also likes themselves, but I haven't encountered this kind of thing.

    In the second year of college, we tourism management students were placed for an internship in a hotel, and of course there was a lot of complaints. But the head of the department threatened with a diploma, and we had to obey.

    So we embarked on a hotel internship journey, and during the internship process, because of the protection of the school, we were quite successful. Over time, we have become familiar with people from various departments of the hotel. <>

    During this period, we met, a fat big brother in the Northeast, a very nice person, working in the back kitchen, always bringing good food to a few people in our dormitory. We all think that others are nice and honest, and we always greet each other very cordially.

    During the Spring Festival that year, he also sent me a text message of blessings, and I didn't take it seriously, I thought it was normal, we were all friends, greetings. After that, he texted me every day, and I talked to him. And then he confessed to me, oh my!

    What's going on with this, he likes me? Then I just said no. It never thought about it for him.

    Then I met him in the hotel and I always avoided him, and even began to hate him a little, thinking he was disgusting, chubby, so uncomfortable, I didn't want to see him at all.

    My classmates all talked about me, saying how could I be like this, if I don't like it, I don't like it, and when I see someone else, I still run, and he can't eat you. I still think people are disgusting and like you, which is a good thing, and it's not people's fault.

    I don't know how I reacted so much, maybe it's because he is too far away from my boyfriend! I feel that I am too good to judge people, and I know that I am wrong, but I still can't control the disgust in my heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I just don't like it very much, I'm a little embarrassed, I'm a little embarrassed, and I don't know how to say no, so I basically like to hide, or run away, and don't say anything.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I feel a little embarrassed and embarrassed because I don't want to accept it, and I appreciate his kindness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I will do everything I can to refuse, and in the future, I will avoid him not very much direct contact with him, and I will be a little proud in my heart.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    was confessed by someone I don't like, there was once a sentence that said, what do you like about me, can't I change it? Confessed by people who don't like it, people who are bad feel that confessions are disgusting like a piece of dog skin plaster, and people with self-cultivation will feel that they are not good enough to be worthy of such a person, as the saying goes, only two people with the same aura are attractive, and whether this attraction is strong depends on whether the two people call.

    There was once a boy who confessed to me, I always thought that boy was annoying, not handsome, and low emotional intelligence, so I reflected on myself, **There is a problem, **what makes him think I am beautiful? So I changed my style, and I was like two people before, and I avoided that person, and in the end he was stupid, and he felt hopeless and stopped. Of course, I have also encountered times when I like but can't love, stalking, every day, but the aura is different, unattractive people, never reach the end, and in the end he avoided me, and I was also very sad.

    Confessed by people who don't like it, this is a wrong approach, in fact, two people get along, there is love and no love can be felt at a glance, but there are many people who insist on going their own way, unrequited love, to confess, so that the friendship between two people is not strong, this feeling is really weird, the higher you stand, the more people will treat you differently, even if you have a heart of admiration, you are not afraid to show it, this is a powerful aura, so the most important thing is to improve yourself.

    Of course, there are examples of people who were disliked at the beginning and finally chased after them, but there are very few such examples, and two people want to make changes, the man must persevere, tirelessly dedicate himself, and most of the girls will be easily moved by the details, do what they like, understand others, and can win. So if you are confessed by someone you don't love, you must tell him that you have to improve yourself, I am not worthy of you, and refuse elegantly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Accepting the confession of someone you don't like, for yourself, will not only make you have a bad love experience, but also make yourself a "maker" of pain in the other person's heart

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This feeling should be quite disgusting, because the confession of the person you don't like is like an insult to you, so of course the mood is very unpleasant.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are confessed by someone you don't like, you will feel a little disgusted in your heart! Because the person you don't like is very bad in your impression, and then you want to confess, which is even more disgusting!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hello, being confessed by someone you don't like is an experience that is both exciting and worrying, excited is that someone likes it, don't consider whether you like the other party for the time being, at least you are excellent, you are worried that you don't like him, and it's a bit cruel to reject him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    He may feel embarrassed, because you don't know how to refuse the other party, but you should still refuse, and if you don't like it, tell the other party directly, don't delay him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Everyone has the right to like someone, if you don't like her, just reject it directly, as for the experience is your own true thoughts.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't like his own feelings and will be fluttering, although I will feel that the other party's confession will fail, but I am a very attractive person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Very helpless and helpless.

    Helplessly, why not confess it to the person you like, helpless things, want to refuse and are afraid that the other party will be too embarrassed, and I am sorry for my heart.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is also better to express love by a girl who is not liked. The point is that you have to be polite, such people are very welcome.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Being confessed by someone you don't like shows that you are still very attractive, and you should be able to get the admiration of the other party, and you should be happy.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's a very embarrassing experience, because you treat the other person as a friend, but the other person wants to fall in love with you, which is a very unpleasant feeling.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's a very uncomfortable feeling, and I don't like you, but you like me so much, it makes me very embarrassed.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Are you saying that being confessed by someone you don't like is a personal experience, I think it may be a bad feeling!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Sometimes, you will feel this kind of life, and you will feel some pain, but in fact, sometimes, you should feel happy, after all, someone likes you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Although I don't like him, I'm still very happy if he likes me if he gets by in all aspects.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's a very sudden feeling, feeling how he will like me, and then he will politely reject the other party.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I feel a little embarrassed and a little overwhelmed by being confessed by someone I don't like now.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Being confessed by someone I don't like is probably because I think it's a little annoying, because many times when I am confessed by someone I don't like, first of all, I think she may recognize my ability in a certain aspect, and secondly, I think why he confessed to me? Is it because I'm too easy to chase?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Being confessed will have a sense of accomplishment, feeling that no one likes you, but if you are confessed by someone you don't like, you will have a sense of loss, and you will feel that why is it not the person you like who confesses to yourself?

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