How much bride price do you think is most suitable for getting married?

Updated on society 2024-07-07
44 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The issue of bride price is something that many people don't want to mention! It shouldn't exist by itself. My family is from Liaoning, and we rarely ask for a bride price.

    It's the woman's request, and the in-laws gave it, and it's also for the young couple to live their own lives in the future, and now it's not like before, marry. The daughter can't pay back the money in vain. There are even people who take this as a business, which is really despicable.

    My family is trying to marry a daughter, how much money do you want to give. How can you live happily if you let your children and people form a family? Nowadays, people don't understand it, and they don't know what to do with the so-called local customs. ‍‍

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Now our bride price here is 8 to 100,000 yuan, there is no specific number. It depends on the situation of the in-law's family. When the mother's family arrived, the household appliances were all included, and she had to buy a dowry for her daughter.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When I got married, the bride price was only 10,000 yuan, and now it is basically more than 100,000 yuan, and now the countryside is serious about more men and fewer women, so the bride price is heavier, and girls are really in demand in the countryside.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I am from Inner Mongolia, if we get married, we have to pay a down payment for the building, about 150,000 to 200,000 yuan, and then the bride price is 40,000 or 50,000 yuan.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let me tell you how much my wedding bride price is, which is very different from the current one. At that time, when my husband and I first met, I saw that my husband was very honest and steady, and he rushed to get married, and we talked for a while, and the parents on both sides said that since the two children are willing, then get engaged, it's easy to get engaged, but there is no money, my husband's family conditions are not very good, so I said that there is less dowry, let's say 20,000 yuan, and then I got engaged, and when my husband sent me home, "I didn't get married, I lived in my mother's house", my parents gave my husband 2,000 yuan, and said that it was a change of mouth, and my father and mother were 1,000 and 1,000 together, which was 18,000, Since we are all engaged, there is nothing to do, let's get married in August of the next year, and the wedding bride price is 20,000 yuan, and the engagement and marriage are only 38,000 yuan in total. ‍‍

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This number is not easy to say, you can only look at the actual situation to see the family, if the man's family conditions are really good, give more, if the conditions are limited, give less, the bride price is a good intention, not to say how much, there are also local customs that are not the same may be required how much, then since it is a local custom, it must be almost nothing! I'm disgusted that the man said that if he wants a bride price, he sells his daughter, and he talks like a fart, and I also have a daughter that you can't buy! Besides, if you can afford it, my wife won't sell it!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I haven't gotten married yet, but the bride price over there is generally relatively high, and those who study will be cheaper than those who don't, generally around 150,000. Some time ago, I heard my mother say that a little girl in our hometown is actually 280,000, she is a few years younger than me, but they played together when they were children, because her family did not agree, but the girl had to be willing, and the family asked for 280,000 to stop, but the result was not stopped, God, I was stunned when I heard this number.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I remember when I was in high school, my brother's wedding bride price was only 6,006, which is a lot of money in my family. More than ten years have passed, and the bride price when I got married was 31,008. Actually, I have very few of them, usually a slap is 50,000, 100,000 oceans.

    However, in the end, my mother-in-law returned the money to my daughter-in-law.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It depends on local customs and family situations. In my hometown, it is generally more than 100,000, just do it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Weifang, Shandong, zero to hundreds of millions, just kidding. Parents on our side generally don't ask for how much to give, and marriage is not about selling their daughters, in terms of the actual economic situation, if you have it, you can give more, and if you don't have it, you can give it less, anyway, give an auspicious number.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There is a house, a car, no mortgage, no car loan, the man is suitable in all aspects, 100,000, right?!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How much bride price do your parents want, if there is one, I will never burp, I also opened my mouth to ask you to marry, if your parents open the bride price of 50w, I don't say a word to tell my girlfriend, I love you very much, but my situation, you know that I can't afford so much bride price, you are still young and find a better than me is not a problem, I will not delay you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I didn't ask for a bride price, naked marriage, his family is very poor, fortunately, my mother-in-law and husband are not bad to me and my mother's family, otherwise I wouldn't have served my mother-in-law who has been sick for many years from the moment I entered the door.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If my husband, my in-laws, my husband is sensible, my husband has good ability, and I have no financial pressure during the period of giving birth to a child, and there is no financial pressure when I have a child, and it is nothing to have more or less gift money. I'm afraid that kind of scumbag man A woman who is pregnant and gives birth to a child in October and doesn't know how to be grateful, and who says all day long that women eat him and drink him, and that women have no ability to earn money The garbage man will immediately make you a second-married man.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Depending on the man's family conditions, if the woman's family wants a high bride price, the man can't afford it, even if he gets married, he will not be happy after marriage.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After getting married, I think it doesn't matter if the bride price is given or not, as long as both of them are happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Scarcity is expensive, and there is no girl bride price in a street in the countryside, that is, how much money is charged, and how much money is given.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Half a year or a year's income.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    How much bride price is the right bride price for a married woman?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think it is very normal to say that the bride price is required for marriage, because now when getting married, the man gives the woman a bride price, and the woman herself will prepare the bride price and dowry, I think the bride price is about 100,000 yuan is more appropriate.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's very normal, because it's money for the two children to live in the future. It is still determined according to the customs and habits of various places, generally speaking, within 100,000.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It is normal to ask for a bride price for marriage, but the bride price should be based on the other party's family situation and cannot be fixed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, it is normal, and the amount of bride price should be judged according to local conventions, like our place, about 100,000 yuan.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    With the economic and social development, people are increasingly pursuing a luxurious material life, and for young people, the cost of marriage and love is getting higher and higher, even to the point that they can't afford to get married.

    First, employment pressure has increased. Today's young people, after graduating from college, quickly change their status from students to unemployed youth. The phenomenon of losing one's job as soon as one graduates has become a common phenomenon.

    In order to go to college, many college students have already spent all their family savings. After graduation, according to the relevant national policies, these college students often transfer their student files back to the talent exchange center of the city (county) district where they are located, leave relevant information, and wait for various recruitment activities organized by the personnel department. The employment pressure during this period can be imagined.

    Without a job, the matter of marriage can only be rushed.

    Second, the cost of marriage and love is high. Even through various activities, young people find jobs. However, the cost of marriage and love is also prohibitive. Under normal circumstances, there are three things that must be prepared before marriage: bride price, house, and car.

    The current bride price is different in each city, but there is a common trend: it is outrageously high. In some places, the average monthly salary per capita is only three or four thousand yuan, but the bride price is more than 100,000 yuan. The bride price must be paid in a lump sum, which is an important condition for marriage.

    Not to mention the house, you must buy a house in the county seat or the city where you work. Under normal circumstances, a 100-square-meter house is cheapest to be more than seven or eight hundred thousand, not including furniture, decoration and other matters.

    As for the car of the means of transportation, the price of trembling lead is also more than 100,000 yuan. In this way, the cost of marriage and love is not a small amount.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Marriage inevitably mentions the bride price, so the bride price must be faced. Personally, I don't think the bride price can be measured by money, the bride price is actually an attitudeI believe that most women do not have any hard requirements for the bride price, but they value the attitude of the other party. Therefore, the man still has to attach great importance to the bride price, and he can prepare it according to his best ability.

    For example, if the annual salary is 1 million, then take out 1 million as a bride price, and truthfully explain to the future father-in-law and mother-in-law that the bride price is your own annual salary, and you will give the salary card to their daughter in the future. I believe that the woman is very satisfied with this kind of bride price, after all, the attitude is very good. First of all, the bride price was taken by oneself by virtue of one's ability, not by one's parents!

    Secondly, there is an attitude that directly explains who is in charge of the family and who is in charge of the money after marriage. Again, the father-in-law and mother-in-law are treated as a family, and the father-in-law and mother-in-law are of course satisfied.

    The touchstone is actually a wedding bride price is also a touchstone, which can test how deep the love is, and what kind of family the woman is. Let's take an example, the man's family situation is not very good, it can be said that the marriage is borrowed from all over the place, at this time, the woman proposes to ask for a million bride price, isn't it difficult for a strong man? Therefore, this belongs to the unloved!

    The woman is also unreasonable. Even if you want to try the sincerity of the other party, you have to be within the range, the lion opened his mouth, and the result was that the marriage could not be married, and the two people broke up like this. Therefore, if you don't care about the wedding bride price, you just want to be sincere, just mention it within the scope, the economic situation is not good, and it is enough to ask for 100,000 yuan!

    If the woman explains how much dowry she wants to give, the man should add 20% to the dowry to show sincerity. All in all, love is not a sale, and marriage should not be influenced by the bride price, which should exist as a sense of ritual, not a catastrophe.

    For the wedding bride price, if the financial ability is good, give more; Those with poor economic ability give less, as long as they love each other, it is not a problem.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think fifty or sixty thousand yuan is fine, but the specific amount can be decided according to the individual's family conditions, if the family conditions are good, it doesn't matter if you give more, if the family conditions are not good, you can give less, it is recommended to discuss with the woman.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My family is in a fourth-tier city and rural area, to be honest, when I got married four or five years ago, the bride price was only two or three yuan, but in the past four or five years, the bride price has generally increased to 100,000 yuan. I don't know what the reason is, maybe the real root cause is worth thinking about, whether it is the amount of the bride price, has become a kind of comparison.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no provision for this, and no one thinks it is more appropriate, mainly depends on the economic conditions of the individual, and the economic conditions are very different, so it is most appropriate to determine the wedding bride price according to the economic conditions of the other party.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    According to local customs and one's own family situation. Because the wedding bride price is different in each place, the amount of bride price will generally be determined according to the local bride price level and your own family situation.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The bride price is different in each place, and I think it should be set according to the customs of each place, like ours, about 100,000 yuan, I think it is more appropriate.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Sometimes don't ask too much for the wedding bride price, because the requirements are too high, the first man can't afford it, the second may greatly reduce the feelings of two people, and the other is two people, because this matter will add some burden to love.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think that the common sense that is more suitable for the economic conditions of both families is appropriate, because different families have different determinations of the bride price.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    As for the question of the wedding bride price, I think it is not a question of how much, but a woman's attitude, it depends on how much you want to give.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    According to local customs, generally speaking, 100,000 yuan is more appropriate, but it should also be determined according to the specific situation.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    The amount of the bride price for marriage should be determined according to the man's family economic situation, and the man should not blindly follow the trend and cause financial pressure to the man.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This should be done within one's means.

    If the bride price is too much, you will not be able to afford it.

    If it is less, it seems too disrespectful to the other party.

    Therefore, the bride price should be discussed.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    For the bride price, I think it's okay not to exceed your ability, after all, this is just a representation of the man's heart, and more money can't make you rich, it's just a blessing to the newlyweds.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    For the wedding bride price, I think as long as both families can accept it is the most appropriate, the specific is not easy to say, the standards and economic conditions of each place are different.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Hello, for the wedding bride price, I think about 50,000 yuan is more appropriate, which will make the marriage of the two of you more happy.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    For the bride price, I think 60,000 or 80,000 yuan is fine, if it is particularly rich, you can give more, and if you are an ordinary family, these are a lot.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    As for the bride price of marriage, I think that as long as the man shows his sincerity, for the girl, he feels that he is also the one who is valued.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    As for the bride price, I think it is a common number for the locals. For example, if the local area wants 100,000, I will also have 100,000, which is very reasonable.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Actually, I think it's good to follow the local customs, and there are no excessive requirements, otherwise it won't be good for us.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    For the wedding bride price, I don't think it's too much, as long as you give 30,000 to 50,000, it is very appropriate, so that it will not put a lot of pressure on any family?

Related questions
17 answers2024-07-07

This question depends on the economic conditions of the man's family and local customs, but this is not important, it is important that the two people must have a certain emotional foundation, as long as the relationship is good, everything is a floating cloud.

23 answers2024-07-07

The general one is 60,000 to 100,000, in the rural areas of northern Jiangsu.

14 answers2024-07-07

I think 30 or so.

With material security, the status is also stable, and I have the energy to grasp love and marriage. >>>More

19 answers2024-07-07

Answer: The legal age of marriage in China is that a woman can only marry when she is 20 years old, unless otherwise stipulated by some ethnic minorities. >>>More

22 answers2024-07-07

Yes. That is, the woman pays the bride price, and the man brings the dowry. Just ask the men if they're happy or not. >>>More