What should I do if my interests are different from those of your lover?

I think everyone has a different living environment since childhood, and of course they will have different hobbies. You love your lover, but also respect his hobbies, try to enter his circle and inner world, so that you can slowly cultivate common hobbies!

The best outcome is to be able to maintain a good relationship while maintaining your interest. I think as long as two people can communicate, there is no need to deliberately find common hobbies with different interests!

Try to love each other's hobbies, if not, then you can only break up, after all, I think it will be boring to date. ‍

If I love him, of course I can't make it difficult for others! The opposite is true! Everyone has their own hobbies, you can allocate time reasonably, and the two of them humbly let each other do what they love, wouldn't it be good! ‍‍

I don't think I mind, I go to activities with different interests, and when I go home, I talk about what happened today, and it's a pleasure to listen to each other's things, and I can empathize.

I think that when your lover and you have very different interests, the common interests may make the flower of love more fragrant, but without these, it will not make the flower of love wither. Achieving psychological coordination and communication is the most important thing. ‍‍

You don't have to force yourself to cultivate the same interests as your lover, but you must be accompanied, you can accompany your lover to do what he is interested in, and let him feel your tolerance and love for him.

When you decide to spend your life with your lover, you have to be tolerant and accepting of everything about him, and different interests can make life more fun.

Usually before I look for a girlfriend, I always look for someone who is compatible with me, and even if we maintain a common language for a period of time, it is difficult to stick to it until we are old. I think it's better to find the same interest as much as possible, there will always be. ‍‍

When I decided to be together, I was ready to tolerate all the differences of the other party, and I would not be separated because of different hobbies. ‍‍

I think you should respect and adapt to each other's interests and hobbies on an equal footing, and guide them to gradually understand and accept your interests.

I believe that we should learn from each other, participate in a variety of activities together when conditions permit, and cultivate a wide range of interests and hobbies in both parties, so as to make love more beautiful. ‍‍

Only when a relationship reaches the flat period will the number of things be envious and expose many problems, whether the three views are the same, and whether the interests are similar. At the beginning of the relationship, most people don't particularly care about others, and the throbbing in their hearts has been urging the two hearts, and they like and care about each other in their eyes, and are willing to cater to each other, as long as they are together, what they do is romantic. When the relationship cools down, when each other is in love, it seems that there will be a lot of problems that you don't care about at first.

Whether hobbies need to be consistent is an inescapable topic. Indeed, if couples have similar interests and resonate with each other at the same frequency, it will be very easy to get along. But it really doesn't mean that every long-term relationship, two people must have the same hobbies.

Good love requires both parties to know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, know how to change each other, and know how to tolerate each other. Falling in love is a moment, and getting along may be half a life. Being together is actually a process of knowing how to assert oneself and learning to compromise with each other.

In my opinion, this is not so important. Because everyone has a problem, it is impossible to force others to cook consistently.