Do you have the right to ask someone to make a change when they make you uncomfortable?

Comfort or discomfort is a subjective feeling, and your actual right has not been detrimental in any way, and there is no good reason to have any right to demand that others stop acting in a way that does not actually interfere with anyone's interests.

No. Comfort or discomfort is a personal standard, for example, if someone sees an ugly person and is uncomfortable, should an ugly person wear a mask to go out? Moreover, the standard of ugliness also varies from person to person, and it is just a personal feeling.

If it's just a visual obstacle, then it's good to walk away by yourself, why bother asking others to make changes. The relationship between people is delicate. So there's no need to change others, just adapt.

When you can't get along with others, you don't have the right to ask others to change, you can only adjust yourself, and just stay away from him.

Everyone has their own ideas and principles, and we can change our own attitudes but we can't change others. So learn to adapt, because not everyone can hit it off with you. We don't have the right to ask others to change.

People who feel uncomfortable must not be the same type of person, you can express your gratitude first, but be polite and distant, and you don't have to force yourself to treat him as a friend.

It's good to strive for perfection, but it's not good to always demand perfection. If you live in a world that demands perfection, you will feel tired one day. You are yourself, and others are others, so you should change yourself.

There is not much hatred, pay attention to yourself, and don't care. Besides, I don't have the right to change others, I can only work on myself.

Learn to adapt to the environment. Some things can't be rushed, others are not yours, don't force to change, the world is very big, and there are still a lot of things to experience. Be relaxed.

Try to get to know the other side of him, maybe you will see something you like, and if you really don't feel well, then reject him. It's not that hard.

If you meet such a person in your life, you will stop at nodding your head because it is not worth it; If it's work, then just talk about things and do your job well, as for him, how can I love it.

In fact, you don't need to have a specific goal to make friends, if you want to make friends with the same personality as yourself, it makes no sense, all kinds of friends have to be made, and you will learn a lot from different friends, it depends on how to treat each friend and cherish fate.

Some people get along with the world with good intentions, and some people have bad intentions to contend with the world.

Some people are as bright as the sun, while others are as dark and damp as a swamp.

Student A never thought that she would meet such a person, and some of her behaviors and words made Student A feel uncomfortable, and even caused Student A to have some psychological changes.

For the time being, this person will call her classmate B.

In the temporary classroom knowledge and acquaintance test, student B has been playing with her mobile phone, and she feels that the test is very headache, so she asks student A: Will you do this test?

I take my studies very seriously, and student A feels that I don't have a good grasp of this knowledge: I am not very good at it.

Student B: Ah, that's great, but aren't you listening?

Student A: I think this knowledge is a bit difficult, and I need to read the book again.

Student B: Then I'm relieved.

But over time, Student A will also wonder why Student B feels "relieved" and "great".

Then classmate A thinks, what's the matter with you?

Then Student A began to notice things that were usually happening but were not noticed.

For example, student B always asks student A to go to **, and if it is confirmed that it is the library, he will ask what he has learned.

For example, if you find that your classmate has found a boyfriend (girl) friend or has been admitted to graduate school, and you want to beat your good friend and say that she is so stupid (ugly), how can this kind of thing happen to you?

For example, during the midterm exam, I deliberately ran to sit next to my classmates with good grades.

For example, secretly log in to classmate A's information to see classmate A's grades.

For example, he never does his homework well, just waiting to ask others for answers, and even Jin Fan will get angry because the other party doesn't give it.

For example, if you don't go to class and always hand over student A to sign in, if you happen to not meet the sign-in, student A will be "glad" that he didn't go to class when he comes back.

Then student A began to become, not wanting to reveal his whereabouts to classmate B, not wanting to copy homework for classmate B, and not wanting to sign in for classmate B.

Even secretly, he didn't sign in to classmate B, gave wrong answers, and talked about his whereabouts indiscriminately.

There are also a lot of important notices, and I don't tell Classmate B, and sometimes, I also convey the wrong message and then correct it when the time is almost up.

Student A didn't know that he was such a person, but Student A's state of mind had subtly changed.