The 38 year old leftover girl does not accept the bride price and brings a dowry of 200,000 yuan, wh

Because this older leftover woman has all kinds of problems, which men don't like now, and they don't want to endure.

First of all, this society is unfair to women, especially older leftover women, many people will feel that they are older and do not choose, because they will have a thought, that it is better to choose an older leftover girl than to spend money to find a younger one.

Most men are very concerned about the age of the girls and feel that women of this age will also have weak fertility, so no one wants to go.

Because generally if you don't get married at this age, you must be very demanding, and you are also very tricky, which is also a particularly big problem in your later life.

Talk about my personal opinion, if I am a man, don't say 200,000 bride price, even 50,000 will not be given, if the woman does not take the initiative to ask for the bride price, if I am a man, if the economic conditions are good, I can buy a house for the woman's parents. First of all, it is the law of nature for men to marry women, girls to marry, men to marry daughters-in-law, women are newcomers, men are also newcomers, a couple of newcomers are happy together, not a transaction, if I am the woman's parents, as long as their daughters fancy the boy, and the boy is positive, motivated and sensible, and ambitious, if my conditions are good, not only do I not want a dowry, I will also give the daughter more dowry, and then give money, wish the daughter and son-in-law happiness, this is what real parents should do, whose parents do not want their children to be happy, As long as the children are happy, even if they work hard, it is worth it, this is what most parents should think and do, and what they should hope for, is it a house, a car and a bride price, is it a transaction to have a daughter? Real parents are mainly based on the happiness of their children, as long as they are happy and happy, it is worth it for parents to take the initiative to pay.

I think almost all parents in the world want their children to be happy, except for some parents who are hungry for profit.

The reason why men will not say yes is because their economic strength does not allow it. And I think that the woman may value property.

No dowry, sitting on the ground, no money and no sense of security, her parents need compensation for raising her for decades, youth loss fee, change of mouth fee, get off the bus fee, raise younger brother fee, parents did not buy a pension to the man to support the whole family, the bride price is less The mother's family will not pay attention to her, a considerable part of them are **, in the city, the family is normal and the woman who has a job will not have these strange remarks, only the poor in the abnormal family will be like this, basically many people start to regret marriage not long after marriage, do not do housework and do not work, They don't mind the second marriage, take the money and leave, find the next home, I really don't understand why anyone likes this kind of woman, most places in China have no bride price or low bride price, and there are a few rural areas such as Jiangxi and Henan to sky-high prices, recently more and more men have realized that this is a fraud, a Shandong woman took the bride price and refused to return was arrested by the police and arrested on the news, this kind of crooked trend is not stopped, and all kinds of underwear do not fit messy reasons will lead to divorce.

Yes, because the other party has a big temper, he will definitely quarrel over some trivial things in daily life, and then he will feel that he should not have married this girl in the first place.

I think this statement is a bit one-sided, and most of these girls often don't have any bad intentions, but are just straightforward.

I think the most important thing is whether the two of them can get along, maybe she has a bad temper with others, but she has a good temper with you, this is not certain, if you really like it, you can try it.

I think there are too many misunderstandings about older leftover women nowadays, and the requirements for these girls are also very high, and they don't have a correct understanding of their own shortcomings.

For a girl, it's because she didn't find the right person, and for such a girl, it's very gentle to meet someone she likes.

In my opinion, this view is a bit one-sided, because the conditions for some older leftover women are actually very good.

I don't think that's right at all, because older young women don't just have bad tempers.

I think it's because I don't have much ability to master such people, so there is such a statement, and these people are very good.

When people choose to marry, most of them will choose younger ones, and few people choose older leftover women, because older leftover women will not be too loyal to themselves.

I think it's a prejudice between boys and women, because girls are temperamental because men are too incompetent.

Love has nothing to do with age or age difference! The bride price is a kind of commitment to the man to express his sincerity and give the woman happiness in the future, in fact, the man who is unwilling or does not give or gives less bride price for various reasons, on the other hand, is a bad embodiment of the lack of integrity and dare not and is unwilling to promise!

Of course! There is an older leftover girl upstairs in my house. I'm 45 years old today, I'm afraid I won't be able to give birth to a child, what more dowry do I need? I've been waiting for her finger to grow old all my life, sad.

There are young women with gentle temperament and wealthy families who do not accept the bride price, and there are also women who are unacceptable in all aspects and propose a 300,000 bride price on the day of the blind date, who is wrong? No one is wrong, whether or not to have a bride price is a social individual family choice, and it should not be related to appearance, age, family background and other conditions.

The bride price has something to do with the local form, and many second marriages also have a bride price, because there are few women.

The bride price itself is a form, which has nothing to do with the age of marriage, it can be said that a marriage with a good relationship can be married without a bride price at all, on the contrary, it is impossible to get married without a bride price with a poor relationship, which means that the bride price has nothing to do with age.

Who said that when the older leftover women get married, there is no need to take the bride price, is it because the older leftover women are inferior, as long as the bride price is in hand, then there is status.

No. Girls don't lose their value just because they're older, and there's no need to marry if boys think so.

Actually, not necessarily, because some women are still very good although they are older.

I think it's mainly because they're more demanding, so boys are generally discouraged.

Mainly because everyone is more afraid of getting married now, so this situation will occur, and you should maintain a peaceful mind.

Because the older leftover women have very high requirements for the other half, they have to be the right person when choosing the other half, and they don't find the right one.

If it were me, I would still choose a woman who is married for the second time, because some poor and delicate girls are too vain, and they must be lavish in spending, and they can't afford to bear so much money.

I will also marry a second-married girl, because the second-married girl has become mature and responsible, and knows how to take care of a family.

I will choose a poor and delicate girl, because although such a girl is not rich, but she has her own lifestyle and is very motivated, but the general conditions of a second-married woman are not particularly good, and I may not choose.