I don t want to talk to my blind date, what should I do if I refuse, and I regret it?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    You have to endure regret, you have rejected others, and their self-esteem has also been hurt by you, and if you want to go back to find others, they will not agree. So what you have to do now is to go on a blind date to find a partner.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You don't want to get along with the blind date, and regret it after refusing, at this time you can have two ways, one is to find the matchmaker who was the matchmaker at the beginning, so that no one can help you make peace, and see if the other party still wants to get along with you, and the other is to contact the blind date before you to see what his attitude is, through his attitude, you can also judge whether the other party has the intention of getting along with you, and directly ask him if he is willing to be with you, these methods can help you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Today's social atmosphere is very civilized, advocating free love. As long as a man is unmarried and a woman is unmarried, they can have the right to choose again. If the landlord feels that the blind date is incompatible with your personality and is not suitable, you can politely reject the other party, after all, if you don't fall in love, you won't become an enemy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't want to talk to the blind date, and I regret it after refusing, in fact, you don't think you're a good object, it doesn't mean that the other party thinks you're not good, so if you regret it, you can also talk to your blind date again, that is, you yourself, you didn't think clearly and refused at the time, can you give you another chance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you fall in love with a blind date and refuse to regret it, you should take the initiative to recover it, admit your mistake, apologize, and not regret it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you regret rejecting the blind date now, we can go to the blind date and let the other party give us another chance, if the other party does not agree, we can only look for the next lover.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Excavators, social experience is bigger than yours, have these problems been solved? In your heart?

    If not, don't make trouble to others, you also said, his family is anxious for him to get married, don't be at that time, everywhere and feel that the excavator has gone through too much, you can't play, think about it, break up!! Don't make a fuss. Think clearly, 97 is not a child anymore.

    With 97, you have this kind of psychology, I also have a similar one, I didn't forget my last blind date, occasionally I think of it from time to time, my impression of him is actually not bad, there are other reasons for refusing at that time, there are bad states (I don't want to) I can even tell you the truth, I have three dreams related to him, looking for me to get back his gift money, engagement, get a certificate! I also wonder how I can have such a dream, I really only think about it occasionally, and I don't forget it! I thought of a sentence again, maybe, I have a fate with him, but the fate is broken, and the rest of the fate is exhausted in the dream, he should be thirty-one this year, we deleted each other's WeChat in February, in terms of age, his family should also be anxious for him to get married, if he goes on a blind date, I think, at this time should be married.

    It's not uncommon for blind dates to get married soon.

    I think of him from time to time, I think, the fundamental reason is that the mother is single, I want to be in love, there is no one around, I don't hate him, just like as long as the new love comes quickly, there will be no sadness, to the effect that it means!

    So, you have to think about what you think about him, if you just want to be in love, then he is not suitable.

    Think about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't want to talk to the blind date, I refuse, I regret it, what should I do, if you really like people, people are also interesting to you, you can eat back grass, just be thick-skinned! If the other person still likes you, they shouldn't mind.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You must take your relationship seriously. When you fall in love, you can't fish for three days and dry the net for two days, you can talk about it if you want to talk about it, and you won't talk about it if you don't want to talk about it. Of course, if you determine that the blind date is not suitable, you can break up decisively and don't drag your feet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really regret it, you still have to go to him again and tell him about yourself. If you don't grasp it well, then you will definitely try to treat him well.

    Maybe I will have some inferiority complex in the relationship, but in fact, both of them are slowly growing and running-in.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Say it, spill the water, since you don't want to talk to the blind date anymore and have already rejected him, then it's useless for you to regret it now. You might as well look for your next blind date.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't want to talk to the blind date, I refused, and now I regret it, in this case, if the other party has not found the other half, then you admit your mistakes in time and bravely ask for reunion, I think there is still a chance.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't go to him again if you regret it, because you must have decided to separate from him because you were sure that you were not suitable for him. If you go to him again, the conflict between you still exists, and once the conflict intensifies, you still have to break up again. Let's meet some new people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't want to talk to the blind date, and then I refused, and then I regretted it, I personally feel that regret at this time is useless, since I have chosen to break up with the blind date, then I don't have to regret it, so sometimes I don't want to make mistakes when I do things, I regret that I still have to live well and talk about the next relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    How long did I regret the refusal. If you just refused, rejected for a day or two, is there still a chance to redeem it? Can you send a message and say, don't you want to keep me?

    I just want to see if you have that kind of must-have attitude towards me. This saves a little.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you look around and regret that there is no better than him, or if you reject him and then find that he is actually good. If it's the first one, then I advise you not to regret it, because love can't be compromised, if you are going to settle now, you will be separated in the future because of the original will. If it's the second option, you can just find some excuse to contact him again.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is said that good horses don't eat back grass, so it's better to persuade you. In fact, as long as the relationship is missed, it is difficult to recover. But if you really want to drink him to date, then try to date him in the name of an ordinary friend, and then gradually develop a relationship.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you don't want to talk to the blind date, refuse, regret it, you can directly contact your blind date, if the other party has a good impression of you, then, the other party will not reject you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You can try to redeem it. If he likes you too, he may agree, you try again, he rejects you, at least you have tried hard and will not regret it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you refuse, and you feel that you regret it later, you can go to him again and start over, so as to give both parties a chance to avoid regrets.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't want to talk to the blind date, and then I refuse, and I regret it after refusing, so do you think the object of his blind date is still very good? Then contact again, this is nothing, as long as you think it is right, you will be brave to pursue it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If a good horse doesn't eat back grass, if you refuse it first, and then look back, others will think that you are using him as a spare tire, and they will feel very unhappy, and they will generally not agree.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think the most important thing is to tell him why he refused in the first place, because your own ideas are not very mature, you can take the initiative to reconcile with him, see if there is a chance to reunite and explain.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can ask the other person again.

    If you regret it, make up for your mistakes and go back and ask the other person, maybe you still have a chance. If you just regret not acting, then you have a chance.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you don't like your blind date, then don't give him a chance and hope, you should decisively reject him, so that he will let go of you, and don't force yourself for feelings you don't like.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you find that you don't like it in the process of talking, you should refuse it in time, you can get straight to the other party and we don't feel appropriate, if the other party asks you that it is not suitable, you can think that the other party says that it feels wrong, so that the other party knows the difficulty and retreats;

    When you feel that the other person is not bad, but it is not suitable to be a boyfriend and girlfriend, you can express this intention euphemistically, for example, you can say, I think you are very good and honest, we can be friends, so that the other party will understand what you mean;

    Of course, if you feel embarrassed to reject others in person, you can end this blind date as soon as possible, and then refuse directly by texting or WeChat when you get home, for example: I'm sorry, I don't think we are suitable;

    Another way to avoid embarrassment is that you can find an intermediary introducer, tell him that you don't feel the object of the blind date, and then let the intermediary pass on the word and tell the other party, so that you don't need to face the other party's questioning eyes;

    In the process of blind date, we must pay attention to the way of rejecting others, so as not to hurt others on the premise of returning to the absolute party, after all, I didn't know before, and there is no need to hurt others' self-esteem.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Find some suitable excuses for refusal, such as: saying that the parents do not agree, that there is no common topic, that the height does not match, that it is not your preferred type, etc. You can also talk about some topics that the other party is not very interested in, and if the other party tries to change the topic, you will not answer, so that the other party's enthusiasm will naturally cool down, and the other party will understand that you are not interested in him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think the best reason for this is that it is not suitable. In other words, if two people can't get along, then there is no common language. If you feel inappropriate, these are all reasons for rejection.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you don't want to talk to your blind date, you can use your family affairs, or temporary business trips and other reasons to refuse.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You just find fault with him, of course, you can also find fault with yourself, you can also say directly, you think the two people are not suitable, you feel that the two of you have no fate.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's best to be straightforward. If the other party understands, then it is good to get together and disperse, if you refuse, then such a person will not be happy together. So you can say succinctly, you are good, we are not suitable, hope to be a friend, lovers are not suitable, you will find the right person.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Talk about topics that are not of much interest to the other person.

    If you find that it is not suitable after meeting, it is recommended that you talk about some topics that the other person is not very interested in, such as talking to the other person about your own professional topics and talking about cosmetics.

    If the other person tries to change the subject, you can not answer, so that the other person's enthusiasm will naturally cool down, and the other person will understand that you are not interested in him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you don't want to talk to your blind date, you should tell the other person directly, just say that you are not suitable and have no common language.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you don't want to talk to the blind date, if you don't want to talk to the blind date, in this case, you can call your friend after you arrive, let him call him five, if you don't want to talk to the blind date, in this case, you can call your friend after you arrive, and let him call you in five minutes. Say you can leave if you have something.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can directly say to the blind date that we are not suitable.

    Or tell the other party the reasons why it is not suitable for both parties.

    Sometimes it's better for everyone to be clear.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you don't want to talk to your blind date, what reason should you use to refuse? I think if you want to talk to the blind date, you can say whatever reason, you can also tell him directly, we don't get along, or you don't want to tell me directly, you can tell the introducer.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If you don't want to talk to your blind date, you can politely reject him, saying that you are not suitable, or that you don't want to be in a relationship now.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You can say no with reasons that feel like two people are inappropriate. It can also be said that you have no plans to get married for the time being, but your family is forcing you to go on a blind date, or you can refuse him more tactfully.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you don't want to talk to your blind date, you can tell him that our personalities and hobbies are not suitable in all aspects, and if we are reluctant to be together, it will not be good for everyone.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You can directly say to the other person that we are not suitable, after all, he is just a blind date. It's just a meeting, if it's not suitable, it's not suitable, so there's no need to say anything.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can say directly to your blind date, I don't think it's appropriate between the two of us, so you still don't fall in love with me, because it's very inappropriate to pair up with the two of us, so don't worry about me.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There are many reasons for rejecting a person, you can say that the parents who are buried in the family do not agree, or you can say that you don't want to fall in love at this age, but because you are in the middle of the family, you will be forced to go on a blind date.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    You don't need any reason, just say that you are not suitable, after all, the purpose of the blind date is to choose a partner for the wheel and concealment, and the hall does not say that you must be together, and it is good to explain it early.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you don't want to talk to your blind date, you can just refuse and just say that it's not appropriate for the two of you to be together.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    A direct and clear refusal is to say that it feels that two people are not suitable, and this cannot be forced, which is also a manifestation of responsibility for both people.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If you don't want to talk to the person you are dating with, you can tell him that it is not appropriate for you two to believe Lu Qin, and you can be more direct about this matter, so as not to entangle you.

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