The cry of a 32 year old leftover woman, women don t wait until they are 30 years old to know that t

This is because once women wait for the age of 30, they no longer have so much expectation for their relationship, and what they yearn for more is to have a good career.

In fact, I think it is very normal, because women should still be financially ** to become very independent.

I think everyone's fate is different, and we can't be too pessimistic and easy to have negative psychology, which is not good for our physical and mental health.

30+ older leftover women. It doesn't necessarily mean that there is no market. But relatively speaking. The market for older leftover women really is. Smaller and smaller. Or rather, with age. The market will gradually decrease. After all, there are fewer and fewer older leftover men.

According to the traditional situation in our country. Basically, all of them. In marriage, men are generally older than women.

Often in life you see. Men in their 30s. May marry a 20-year-old woman.

This is also more common. But. A 30-year-old woman is married to a 20-year-old man.

Basically, very little. Although sibling love is now popular in big cities. But the probability is not very high.

It's just a handful of them.

Women in their 30s. In terms of career, it may have basically been considered a success. Whether it is income or position, it may be relatively high.

So looking for one. The position and income are higher than her to marry someone. And men in their 30s are no different.

The position and income are relatively high. At this time. These men don't want to look for it.

Women of the same age as themselves come to get married and live. Rather, they like women who are younger than themselves. This contradiction has led to the market for older leftover women getting smaller and smaller.

In real life. Do you always feel that you have to do whatever you should do at what age? If you are in love, you should start around 20 years old.

You should get married at the age of twenty-four or five. Because it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl at this age. They have a yearning for their marriage and family life.

Often, the requirements for both parties are not so strict. There's also a lot of romance in there. And with age.

These romantic colors faded away. It's become more realistic. Desire for marriage and family.

The requirements are more stringent. Under the impetus of this situation. A lot of men and women.

There are fewer and fewer people who always feel that they are suitable for themselves. In fact, it is not that there are fewer and fewer suitable people, but that the requirements are getting higher and higher. gradually became an older leftover girl.

Sometimes it's busy. There wasn't that much time to reach out to some men. It is also caused by women.

A factor that becomes an older leftover woman. Now there is a love corner in Beijing and Shanghai. That is, to go there and sell yourself.

But often. There are very few leftover women or leftover men. It's all parents who are helping.

It's also good that way. We have a mother of a saint in our neighborhood. I'm in a hurry, my daughter's marriage.

Therefore, he personally went to the Shanghai Love Corner. Listing to find a son-in-law. You don't even have to say that you've been hanging for three days.

I really found a good son-in-law. Now I am married and have children. So don't worry about the older leftover women.

The market still has. It's up to you to look for it.

In fact, society is still not very tolerant of women, because many labels, men and women have different interpretations, the most serious and obvious is age, such as ".Forty-one flowers for men and forty tofu dregs for womenSo this atmosphere spills over into the dating market, and it does affect perception and ultimately behavior: the older a single woman gets, the less popular she is. However, behavior can reshape understanding, and older single women can fight a beautiful battle for their reputation in the marriage market as long as they find the right channel!

Older single women want to get ahead in the marriage market, vertical channels are the most suitable, and there is a good marriage and love at present, I will talk about it later, first analyze why other channels can't:

Offline blind date is the most unfriendly way for older single women, the reason is very simple, the cultural roots of patriarchy are here, and the idea of what age to do is very stubborn, not that you can't meet enlightened people, but the probability is very small, so older single women go on an offline blind date, basically angry!

Online popular channels, such as Zhenai.com, Century Jiayuan, Baihe.com, etc., have obvious advantages and disadvantages, the advantage is that users have more choices, the greater the chance of success, and most of the people who play online are educated and open-minded; The disadvantage is that the platform review is not strict, leaving a lot of illegal users, easy to cause property losses, this as long as you pay attention, the hard injury is that its matching is too broad, time-consuming and energy-consuming, affecting work and life, not to mention, looking for the age and older.

I haven't used the vertical channel of marriage and love before, but I heard that older single female friends around me are using it, and one sister is successfully preparing to get married, so I tried it. In fact, I think that there is no great difference between a partner and other channels, in addition to the strict security of the audit, the main advantage is in the accurate matching, there are famous school areas, post-80s, post-90s areas. It's all a concentrated essence that fits your heart, and you can talk about it, and if you can't talk about it, you won't talk about it, and you won't ink it directly.

As long as you want to get married, age 30+ is not a particularly big problem, so there is still a market. In reality, the older you are, the fewer potential people you can associate with. Less does not mean nothing, maybe you will meet someone who is really suitable for you at this age.

Let's first analyze why some people think that 30+ girls have no market in marriage and love. Some people say that the essence of marriage is a transaction, so there is nothing wrong with comparing marriage to a market. Out of the instinct of racial perpetuation, marriage is to have children, and after the age of 30, women's fertility decreases significantly.

There is also a popular joke in the past, that is, whether a boy is 18 years old, 28 years old, 38 years old or 88 years old, he likes 18-year-old girls. This paragraph sounds funny at first, but when you dig deeper, you think this concept is a bit stinky. In fact, men do prefer young and beautiful girls.

After women reach the age of 30, there will be fewer men to choose from, so some people will feel that there is no market after the age of 30. After the age of 30, you may still be beautiful, and you have added more mature charm, but compared with the kind of little girl in her early twenties, you are a little less aura after all. So some men will go after a younger girl instead of not pursuing their sister.

And under normal circumstances, women will look for a man who is slightly older than herself, or a man of the same age, as a partner, and of course, there are a small number of people who like sibling love. Boys look down and girls look up, resulting in too few people for 30-year-old sisters to choose from.

Some people say that the reason why it was left is because it is too picky, but I think it is not picky, but an obsession with a better life. It's just that when she was in her 20s, she didn't meet that suitable person. When you're in your 30s, you don't have to.

In the journey of life, some people decide to find a regular partner to move forward with at the age of 20, while others choose to keep this position and continue to wait for the most suitable person, so they may miss many people, and there may be excellent people among them. Like the ears of rice in a wheat field, what we can grasp with our hands is not necessarily the best one.

After the age of 30, you can lower your requirements appropriately, but there is no need to let go of yourself. There is no need for us to point fingers at those sisters, after all, marriage is a personal matter. The above is a personal opinion, to sum up, 30+ women can still find a partner in the marriage market.

Not. So why are there 30+ older leftover women, and the reasons are as follows:

1. "Why are all the people around me who are not as good as me already married, but I have always been single".

Nowadays, people's definition of excellence is getting broader and broader, so that many people have been living in the "false quality" personality, so that they do not see their own essence. I'm sorry, it's really not good, it's just an ordinary person who lives a good life at best. When men start to think about getting married, it means that they want to marry someone who can share the responsibilities, finances, and pressures of the family.

If you live in your own spiritual world every day, I will still marry you with a hammer.

2. "Why do some men stop contacting me after they have been in contact with me a few times?"

A man is willing to contact you, which means that everything you show is acceptable to the other party, and even has a good feeling, but after a long time of contact, your interior, personality, and upbringing will all be shown at a glance. If the other person is away from you after that, you should think carefully about whether there is something wrong with you, such as personality and emotional intelligence.

What is more terrible than the older leftover girl is the older princess disease.

Older princess disease is those middle-aged women who are 30+ years old but have not grown much compared to their twenties, their income is not high, they buy and buy all day long, their minds are immature, and they still hope that men will spoil them as "little princesses".

The most important thing about older girls is that they are not self-aware.

3. I'm so good, why should I take the initiative to contact the other party?

Compared to a beautiful woman and a girl next door who is absolutely sure to pursue, 100% of men will choose the latter.

In terms of male thinking, they are very concerned about "cost accounting" and "goal feasibility".

People are realistic, and they never expect things that are out of their reach, just like star-chasing girls no matter how much they like their idols, no matter how much they call their husbands I love you, but they are also clear in their hearts that they may not have anything to do with celebrities in their lives, so they are still living their ordinary lives.

Although the 30+ older leftover women have missed the ** period of "men should get married, women should get married", there is still a large market, at least in China. Because in China, there are more men and fewer women, and the serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women is already a social consensus, and it is also a very serious social problem, so it is definitely a very wrong statement to say that there is no market for 30+ older leftover women. In fact, if I choose, I actually prefer to choose 30+ older leftover women, because most of the women in this part are financially independent, independent-minded, more intellectual, and very charismatic.

Women in their 30s do not mean that there is no market, but after a few years, most of them have made a little success in society, and they have achieved financial independence and no longer need the man's money. I have also seen many people who are sophisticated, and I have lost my dedication to love at the beginning, and I have lost my unhesitation for love. Looking at love is more realistic, taking into account the economic situation of the man's family, the man's personality status, and the potential that the man has.

For them, the current marriage is not just love, but the two are just right and can live together.

Of course, their market is indeed shrinking, their age is gradually increasing, many men are married and have children, most of them stay relatively ordinary, and there are very few high-quality men.

30+ older leftover women have higher requirements for the future party, and the high-quality men in the market are gradually losing. Therefore, the demand is greater than the supply and demand, resulting in a shortage of demand, forming an illusion that there is no market for older leftover women in their 30s.