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I think it's mainly because they're more demanding, so boys are generally discouraged.

Mainly because everyone is more afraid of getting married now, so this situation will occur, and you should maintain a peaceful mind.

Because the older leftover women have very high requirements for the other half, they have to be the right person when choosing the other half, and they don't find the right one.

Talk about my personal opinion, if I am a man, don't say 200,000 bride price, even 50,000 will not be given, if the woman does not take the initiative to ask for the bride price, if I am a man, if the economic conditions are good, I can buy a house for the woman's parents. First of all, it is the law of nature for men to marry women, girls to marry, men to marry daughters-in-law, women are newcomers, men are also newcomers, a couple of newcomers are happy together, not a transaction, if I am the woman's parents, as long as their daughters fancy the boy, and the boy is positive, motivated and sensible, and ambitious, if my conditions are good, not only do I not want a dowry, I will also give the daughter more dowry, and then give money, wish the daughter and son-in-law happiness, this is what real parents should do, whose parents do not want their children to be happy, As long as the children are happy, even if they work hard, it is worth it, this is what most parents should think and do, and what they should hope for, is it a house, a car and a bride price, is it a transaction to have a daughter? Real parents are mainly based on the happiness of their children, as long as they are happy and happy, it is worth it for parents to take the initiative to pay.

I think almost all parents in the world want their children to be happy, except for some parents who are hungry for profit.

The reason why men will not say yes is because their economic strength does not allow it. And I think that the woman may value property.

No dowry, sitting on the ground, no money and no sense of security, her parents need compensation for raising her for decades, youth loss fee, change of mouth fee, get off the bus fee, raise younger brother fee, parents did not buy a pension to the man to support the whole family, the bride price is less The mother's family will not pay attention to her, a considerable part of them are **, in the city, the family is normal and the woman who has a job will not have these strange remarks, only the poor in the abnormal family will be like this, basically many people start to regret marriage not long after marriage, do not do housework and do not work, They don't mind the second marriage, take the money and leave, find the next home, I really don't understand why anyone likes this kind of woman, most places in China have no bride price or low bride price, and there are a few rural areas such as Jiangxi and Henan to sky-high prices, recently more and more men have realized that this is a fraud, a Shandong woman took the bride price and refused to return was arrested by the police and arrested on the news, this kind of crooked trend is not stopped, and all kinds of underwear do not fit messy reasons will lead to divorce.

Love has nothing to do with age or age difference! The bride price is a kind of commitment to the man to express his sincerity and give the woman happiness in the future, in fact, the man who is unwilling or does not give or gives less bride price for various reasons, on the other hand, is a bad embodiment of the lack of integrity and dare not and is unwilling to promise!

Of course! There is an older leftover girl upstairs in my house. I'm 45 years old today, I'm afraid I won't be able to give birth to a child, what more dowry do I need? I've been waiting for her finger to grow old all my life, sad.

There are young women with gentle temperament and wealthy families who do not accept the bride price, and there are also women who are unacceptable in all aspects and propose a 300,000 bride price on the day of the blind date, who is wrong? No one is wrong, whether or not to have a bride price is a social individual family choice, and it should not be related to appearance, age, family background and other conditions.

The bride price has something to do with the local form, and many second marriages also have a bride price, because there are few women.

The bride price itself is a form, which has nothing to do with the age of marriage, it can be said that a marriage with a good relationship can be married without a bride price at all, on the contrary, it is impossible to get married without a bride price with a poor relationship, which means that the bride price has nothing to do with age.

Who said that when the older leftover women get married, there is no need to take the bride price, is it because the older leftover women are inferior, as long as the bride price is in hand, then there is status.

No. Girls don't lose their value just because they're older, and there's no need to marry if boys think so.

Actually, not necessarily, because some women are still very good although they are older.

Using the word older women to express women is definitely not a respect for women, and I think women can find their other half even when they are older. An aunt said that when she was in her 70s and 80s, she also had a marriage between two people, so if you meet your true love, even if you are older, you can find your true love. 38 years old is actually not a special age.

If you're good enough, you'll be able to find your partner. I'm not afraid I can't get married.

Please don't get married for the sake of getting married, you must only want to get married if you find someone you really want to spend your life with. At the age of 25, you may be urged by your family because you are not married, but there are also young people who do not feel happy after marriage. Rather than arguing all the time after marriage, I think spending time alone makes writing happier and happier.

Sisters can be invited to take a nap. If the sisters are not available, they can work on their own and do what they want.

At the age of thirty-eight, he did not pursue home. The car can definitely get married. If you are worried about not being able to get married, you can improve yourself.

If you're good enough, you don't have to worry about that. We need to understand that someone will appreciate you. Also, don't worry about reaching the age of 40.

Must not get married. Whether you are married or not has a lot to do with yourself, not your age. Don't question yourself because of this, and slowly discover your personal strengths.

You don't have to give up your own rules in order to get married.

Otherwise, others will think that you are a boring person and will not choose to cherish it. Pay attention to this point, and later on, you can't let people say that you are just someone you don't want anyone. Actually, it's not easy.

Think about it for yourself, what kind of person will a man who wants to marry a 38-year-old woman be now? At least 40 years old, the number of men who are still single at this age is too few, so to speak, even fewer in the city. If it's in the countryside, that's another story.

I don't think you should be in the countryside, there are very few women left in the countryside, even the women of the second and third marriages are so popular in the countryside, after all, the basic national conditions are like this. Therefore, it is not important not to have a car to house a house. The most important thing is that my requirements for the man who wants to marry are important, the smaller the rules, the easier it is to get married, and the bigger the rules, the more difficult it will be.

You can get married, you have to give yourself enough self-confidence, don't be too inferior because of your age, you will definitely meet the person who is suitable for you.

Of course, many men don't get married now because they can't meet each other's requirements, they don't have money or a car, and if they don't ask for these, they can get married.

1.Financial burden: The bride price is a traditional custom in some places, and the cost of the bride price varies from place to place, but it is often a large expense. If you don't have enough financial strength, it may increase the financial burden on your family.

2.Matching: Some parents may believe that the bride price status is an important indicator to assess the conditions of the other family and the suitability of the match, and that if there is no bride price or the bride price is not generous enough, it may affect the evaluation of the special qualities and abilities of the partner by both parents.

In response to these problems, it is recommended that the following scenarios can be considered:1Promote civilized marriage, advocate simple and practical bride price customs, and reduce the cost of bride price as much as possible. In particular, young people whose family conditions are not wealthy should look at the bride price tradition rationally and not blindly pursue prosperity.

2.To establish a new type of marriage market rules, we should not only pay attention to the quality and ability of both parties, but also attach importance to each other's psychological and spiritual support and companionship. Participate in more social activities to meet the opposite sex, expand your circle of friends, and find a partner who fits your heart.

3.Parents should change their mindset and realize that the bride price is not an important indicator of the success of a marriage, and focus on the qualities that are really needed for marriage. For young people who do not have a bride price, parents should give more encouragement, support and understanding, and truly think about their children, rather than using the temporary bride price as a yardstick.

In short, no bride price can not become a big obstacle for young people to get married, and we should pay more attention to the essential values and concepts, so as to find a suitable partner and start a beautiful family life.

We can find that there are a lot of leftover women in these big cities, and they are in the big cities. Many girls don't need to ask for a bride price when they get married, and they will give each other some gift money. But in this case, there will still be a lot of leftover women.

We can find that there are some girls in the city where we are now in their twenties if they want to make a bid.

There are girls in the countryside who want to get married when they are just over 20 years old, so they need some bride price at this time. The other party will also give it to himself. If girls are getting older, it will be very difficult for them to want some bride price or to get married.

And this happens often in big citiesBecause women in big cities always want to make their lives better and make themselves better, they will pay more attention to their work.

And when they want to get married, or are urged to marry by the family, they are already after the age of 25. And after the age of 25, many girls still don't want to get married. In addition, many girls in big cities have very strict requirements for their other half, so at this time they will be picky, so it is very difficult to get married.

And in many cases, we find a person who has the same heart as us, that is, we can get married, and now there are many girls who don't want to get married.

Because these people will also make their lives very bad when they get married, in fact, for every family, they want their daughter to find a better family. Because they have raised their daughter for more than 20 years, they must hope that their daughter can live a happier life in the future. And there are a lot of people in big cities who love their daughters even more.

Therefore, the requirements for the other half will be very strict, so there are many girls in big cities who can't get married when they reach a certain age.

But there is no such problem in the countryside, there are many people in the countryside, they only hope that their daughter can marry a rich man, no matter how big the gap between the other party and their own family, and they will not really hope that their daughter is happy, as long as they remember that their daughter can marry a rich man. And in many cases, we also know that in big cities, they have very strict requirements for the other half, and the requirements for the other half's family are also very strict, so they can't get married.

Financially independent, not a bloodsucker, only get married when you meet a suitable three views, not for money.

Women in today's society are independent, especially girls in big cities are more independent and have their own opinions.

In fact, it is mainly because these women have too high requirements for their partners, so many people don't look down on them. And I feel good about myself, and when I get older, no one wants it.

The reason why there are more and more leftover women in big cities is because their requirements for each other are too high, and their own conditions are not superior enough.

She doesn't want a bride price, she asks you to be a civil servant, a public institution, a house, a car, your parents have a pension, and the only child in the family is the best, but fortunately I don't ask for everything, just meet the main things, my requirements are not so harsh, it doesn't matter if you are an only child or not.

Because contemporary emerging women have their own ideas, they would rather be proudly single than live together.

The main thing is to require boys to have a good education, an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan, and a height of 1.8 meters, which is good for her, because there is no such man in the world, so they can't find such a man

People treat themselves high, men treat women low, and they are smart not to marry, because everyone loves themselves the most, and men are selfish and will harm women for themselves.

Perception is everything. If you look at the notion of leftover women, you can see why. Everyone has the freedom to stick to their own philosophy. I hope that the female comrades will continue to improve in practice.

Now is an era of ideological explosions, impetuousness and distortion.

Why are there so many leftover women in big cities, and what is their fate in the end?

Why are there so many leftover women in big cities, and what is the reason? Aren't they in a hurry?

In the past, marrying a man and marrying a man dressed and ate.

Now that you can earn yourself by dressing and eating, why do you get married?

Let's think about it.