Is there no one to chase the older leftover women now?

There are more men and fewer women, and older leftover women are chased at any time, and the most worrying thing is that older leftover women don't want to be friends.

As long as you are good enough, it has nothing to do with age, and the current society is getting more and more progressive, and there are some traditional ideas that are gradually being thrown away by people, older leftover women, older leftover men, these labels are rarely willing to be mentioned, because people now know more and more about respect.

Some people say don't label a person lightly, especially if you don't know her well.

Everyone's situation is different, and everyone is different in the choice of marriage and love, and there is no one who is born to choose single, but he has not met a more suitable person, and his fate has not arrived.

Don't take the initiative to say that other people's older leftover women are not married, and don't label yourself as an older leftover girl, or that I am destined to be single in my life, and my life is not over, and it is nonsense to say anything.

As long as a person is good enough, he will be noticed by others and will be pursued by others, which has nothing to do with age.

There are many people who break through the age difference, come together, establish a relationship, form a family, and live a very happy life.

Unless a girl chooses to be single, there will be people who pursue it, so radish and cabbage have their own love, as long as you are confident in yourself, you are very good in all aspects, have a good personality, have many hobbies, and have strong social skills, why do you have no one to pursue it?

In this world, there are no two leaves that are exactly the same, so as long as girls don't make up their minds to choose a single, they have a chance to be pursued by boys.

Even if a girl chooses to be single, it is not a shameful thing, let alone something that cannot be worked hard, in today's society, it is more and more difficult to control the rhythm of their own life.

Emotional problems have also become one of the biggest problems that plague modern people, and the divorce rate in our country is increasing, because many people are unwilling to sit down and communicate together.

There is too much hurt, when two people love the deepest, each other's shortcomings are good, once they don't love, the other party has no advantages, and they slander each other.

Therefore, many young people do not dare to choose to get married easily, nor dare to choose to fall in love easily, and really devote themselves to loving someone, maybe when you fall into it, you have already lost and there is no turning back, which may also be the reason why some girls choose to be single.

As long as the mentality is adjusted and young people feel happy, when the level of happiness increases, it will also reduce the phenomenon of older men and older women.

I don't think there is a problem of older leftover women, women of any age are chased. If you don't have anyone to chase, then you can also chase others, now people get married late, don't think about your age, it's not a big deal, be brave when you meet someone you like.

Someone is chasing, it's just that the time is not right, there may be very few people you meet, and you still need to take the time to meet the right person, so you can't generalize so much.

It's not, it's that the older leftover women feel that their conditions are relatively high, relatively cold, and some people want to chase but are afraid that they can't catch up, so they feel that they are difficult to chase.

No! You've got a problem with that! Let me tell you what I saw, I was still single last year, someone introduced me to someone, and the matchmaker was also my colleague, saying that her friend was 38 years old, good-looking, and good at work, and asked me if I agreed or not, I was single at the time, so I agreed, and there was no follow-up!

Then one of our old directors asked me again, there was a woman who was a few years older than me, and asked me if I agreed, and I said that I would see you, and there would be no follow-up in the future! It's not that older women are not chased, but the psychology of older women is no longer healthy! Of course, I'm not saying all!

That is, you have to hold your own beautiful personality, but you are afraid of blind dates, and you waste time year after year in the dead loop! As a result, no one is chasing? It's just a reversal of black and white, until I got married, there were four times when someone introduced me to an older leftover girl, and in the end I didn't even see anyone.

There is no one to chase the older leftover women now, mainly for these reasons.

The first reason, to put it very practically, if a 30-year-old woman is still single, it may be higher than the average person, and even the requirements are higher than when you were in your 20s, but the problem is that you don't have the peak of your 20s, if you are a man, chasing a woman in her 30s is more difficult than chasing a girl in her 20s, so the leftover women after the age of 30 must always calculate their own capital when making demands on men. But I'm telling the truth.

It's useless to say it, if the remaining girls understand, there won't be any left.

The second reason is that at the age of 30 or an older leftover girl, you just think about how you can be better than others? There are many girls who are better than you, more educated than you, and much better than you, why don't they become older leftover girls, it is because you think of yourself too well and too well, so many boys dare not approach you and put down their worth, you are an ordinary woman's heart, so boys will like you.

The third reason, go out on a blind date, in your 30s, most of the suitable people around you are married, and you can't look down on the remaining men, so you can only go on a blind date, cast a net in a large area, see if there is a destined person, appropriately lower the standard, the blind date first looks at the character, the second looks at whether it is compatible, the third looks at the three views are correct, the material aspect is passable, the money is enough to spend, you don't have to pursue too much, the appearance is not too demanding, the handsome guy will not get married in his 30s, it is almost pleasing to the eye.

The fourth reason is to find the reason from yourself, is that you are too demanding? Or how? Or is it because the circle is too small to have a chance at all?

Or do you have personality problems, such as being too introverted, not good at talking, etc., if these are not these problems, then you don't like to dress up? Wait, to discover your own shortcomings, there must be a reason for being single.

This is because they themselves are already very good, and because they are older, they sometimes put some pressure on men, and no one around them dares to pursue them.

Your statement is not right. Of course, the older leftover women are chased. There will always be someone chasing.

How can there be no one to chase it? Some are chased. It has a lot to do with age.

It's so normal for a 40-year-old man to chase a 30-year-old woman and a 50-year-old man to chase a 40-year-old woman. Why is there no one chasing after them? I don't know how you know that the older woman is not chased?

It's because these girls' requirements are particularly high, and the average boy can't meet them at all, and these girls may ask the man to buy a car and a house.

It's not that there is no one to chase the older leftover women, but they can't catch up at all, I always think that I am still an 18-year-old girl, and the poor conditions can't look down on it, and the good conditions can't climb it.

In fact, the main reason is that the competitive pressure is still relatively large, and older women are also more demanding.

Now women may misunderstand excellence.

The fertility of older leftover women has declined, and men are reluctant to find women with poor fertility. Older leftover women are always very picky, and men with low education can't get into their eyes. Older leftover women want their men to have a house and a car, but there are not many men with such conditions.

Because no one wants to spend a lot of money to buy products with a short shelf life and a short shelf life, as well as obsolete products that will expire!

This is because the older leftover girls themselves reject their suitors, and the boys like people who are younger than themselves, so no one chases.

Ordinary men have long known that their conditions are not up to the requirements of older leftover women, so they don't chase it, because they can't chase it, so why waste time and energy? Men who are qualified to chase leftover women will not chase older leftover women at all, because there are many beautiful little girls who are automatically sent to the door.

Because these women are very arrogant, and secondly, because they have high requirements for boys, many boys know that there is no result for such girls.

It shows that the boys are self-aware, which is also a good thing, saving the girls the trouble of choosing.

is too good, and men are not worthy of leftover women.

They are picky, and they don't want such people to have no results!

If no one wants to get married the most, then you can go to some places where there are many people, meet more people, in fact, you can also meet new people through blind dates, and you can also pursue the person you like, so that you can also get happiness.

Don't be in a hurry. You should go on more blind dates, attend more parties, and dress up more.

Older leftover women, this term is actually not uncommon. There are also more and more women in this type. It's not so much that they're hard to chase, it's that the suitors don't know them well enough.

The reason why they are still single when they are old is that they either have an economic foundation, a career foundation, or an emotional foundation. Their knowledge and cognition are different from those little girls.

I think there should be some older single women around us, which is what we usually call it"Leftover women"。And there are many of these "leftover women" with excellent conditions, why don't men like them, and they will be left? It's because in the eyes of boys, it's not high-quality.

High-quality "leftover women" are not high-quality in the eyes of men.

In fact, there will be such problems, often because this part of the women do not have a clear understanding of themselves, or their own cognition is biased.

Those who consider themselves to be high-quality women need to know what "good quality in the eyes of men" is

For boys, this is easy to judge, and boys themselves understand that men also have their own standards, such as height, appearance, income, personality, etc., and there are basically no leftovers with these conditions.

For women, there are some differences, many women will see ordinary conditions as "good" and then think that they belong to high-quality women, so this cognitive bias is created, and the result is often to match with someone who does not stand the same position as themselves. For example, beauty is the most intuitive thing, in fact, in the eyes of most men, people who are really called beautiful women are not common in life, but there are many women who will think that their appearance is good.

In the eyes of men, beauty is an upward comparison, while in the eyes of women, it is a downward comparison, so the comparison gap is obvious.

There are also some relatively virtual conditions, such as independence, emotion, understanding, etc., which can be counted as quality conditions in some cases, and many women do not actually meet such conditions at all.

Remember, in the eyes of men, the quality of the condition must be something that most people do not have, others can only be regarded as ordinary conditions, and are not familiar with the "range of quality" at all, do not have this cognitive bias, misunderstand your own situation, and think that you belong to the women with surplus quality.

There must be many people who think that they have shortcomings, that is to say, in this case, they think they have shortcomings, so they will feel that there is no one to pursue them, or to find them.