A 40 year old leftover woman has a debt of more than 100,000 yuan, can she still marry in this life?

Updated on society 2024-07-27
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Yes, as long as you want to, can you still get married? In your case, you are generally arrogant, thinking that you are very good, and you can't afford to cheap that kid, so you pick it today, pick it up tomorrow, and slowly come to the age of marriage.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    As long as you want to, you will always meet the right person, and you don't expect love at this age, the most important thing is that two people can live a good life together, just have the same three views, and if you have a debt problem, you can pay it off slowly after work, and you have to learn to save money to live.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    A 40-year-old leftover girl, and with a debt of more than 100,000 yuan, may not be able to get married, because many people love your lovely soul, so you yourself must also work hard to improve yourself. Don't lose hope in life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    For your question, first of all, it depends on your own thoughts, if you meet the right person, you can get married, if you meet a compatible person, then it is not a problem, as long as you work together, the debt can be paid off in a year or a few months, I hope it can help you, this is just a personal opinion, I wish you to find your other half as soon as possible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    To be honest, it depends on your own heart, whether there is a suitable fate.

    If you had lowered your conditions a little, you might have married yourself off a long time ago.

    Now this age is also middle-aged, and there are debts, unless there is any attractive merit, think about what stands out about yourself, and try to find it.

    Fate is wonderful, it may be tomorrow, it may be in the distant future, but as long as you don't give up looking, you will definitely find it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    A debt of more than 100,000 yuan is not too heavy. But 40-year-old is a big deal. If your requirements are not too high, such as finding a second marriage, it is still possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you are not picky, it is nothing to have a debt of more than 100,000 yuan, and you can definitely marry it out if you have certain conditions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That woman is in a state of scarcity, right? As long as you are willing to marry, you will always meet a person who is right with you, in fact, as long as you meet the right person at the right time, life will always be able to go on, if you always do this with a public mood and utilitarian color, he is not the object of looking for a partner, is looking for an economic partner, or looking for an investor, as long as you are an honest and hard-working person, you will always meet your side, the person who loves you and protects you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can confess what the debt of more than 100,000 yuan is going on when you go on a blind date, there should be hope.

    Moreover, a blind date is not a relationship.

    have already gone on a blind date, if the conditions are right, you should avoid those routines where men still need to chase you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This depends on your personal wishes, now women are not afraid of not being able to marry, only men are afraid of not being able to marry a wife. If you are in debt, you can save a little, and you can pay it off after 2 years of part-time work.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As long as you want to marry, you will definitely be able to marry, but you must examine yourself correctly and don't overestimate your charm and advantages.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No matter how old you are, no matter how much debt you have, as long as you are a hard-working person who is going in the right direction, you can get married, and you must have confidence in yourself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    is only in debt of more than 100,000 yuan, I don't think it's much, you see that people in society now are casually in debt of hundreds of thousands or millions. But 40 years old is a bit older, and there are debts, which is really difficult to be honest.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The 40-year-old leftover woman has a debt of more than 100,000 yuan, can she still marry in this life?

    Knowing how to appreciate you will naturally come to marry you, to find a mutual understanding and tolerance, who can appreciate you, you can appreciate him.

    At that time, they will naturally get married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    40 years old has not been married, it is not easy to persist until now, why do you still want to get married as a goal, you can change your mentality, more than 100,000 debts, this money is not much to pay back slowly, 10 years to repay, only 10,000 a year.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    More than 100,000 debts are nothing, as long as you work hard, you can pay it off soon, and as for getting married, it depends on fate.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello heroine, you will be happy, and you will get married, the people who love you will not care about these, even if the arrears are much, two people work together, face all difficulties together, and the problem will be solved after all, I hope the advice will help you, thank you!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Believe in yourself, 40-year-old life has just started, work hard, as long as you don't break the law and commit crimes, work hard, slowly accumulate finances, have a kind heart, you will meet your lover.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't know the specifics!

    But no matter what kind of leftover girl!

    Only if you have good intentions, you will definitely have good results!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's better to settle your debt problem first, so that you don't feel stressed about the other person in a relationship. Don't let yourself lose confidence in love because of age or other problems, thinking that you don't deserve your own happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Think about how to work hard to pay back the money, take it easy for yourself, in the current era when there are more men than women in society, now there is only no way to marry a wife, rarely can not get married, only whether you want to marry or not.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's okay for people to be in debt for millions. If you go to work for a few years, you can pay it off, don't put pressure on yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As long as you're not picky, you'll definitely be able to get married.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is your own choice to marry or not, not what others think.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You must have confidence in yourself, there are always more ways than difficulties, as long as you have firm faith, all difficulties will be overcome, and the life you want will be slowly realized.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't go out and harm others.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Pay off your debts first, and rely on yourself for everything. No one else is obligated to pay your debts for you. Even if you meet this kind of person, it will make you feel indebted to the other person, which will affect your relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A 40-year-old leftover man with more than 10 debts, are you willing to marry?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In real life, when encountering 40-year-old girls who have not yet married, people's first reaction is that they are very picky, rather than that they are picky, I prefer to believe that girls who have not married out at this age are "left" because they have been waiting for the right person to appear. For feelings, in fact, it is not so easy to meet a person you like, because feelings are not wishful thinking, but two people must have a common goal and the same three views, so that the feelings of two people can go long-term. To quote a sentence: "Since the love has not yet arrived, why should I change my current state?"

    Don't worry, I'll be a rich old girl, and only a poor old girl will be the laughing stock of everyone. ”

    What to do in the process of finding love and waiting for love is to elevate yourself.

    I believe that everyone likes to associate with excellent people, so only after we continue to improve our abilities, we can be more easily seen by others. We can start with our own interests and hobbies, cultivate ourselves first, and then specialize in them. We all like motivated people, not passive people, so that we can lead ourselves to get better and better, and our feelings can become deeper and deeper.

    In the process of finding love and waiting for love, what you need to do is to expand your social circle, and if your social circle is expanded, you can greatly improve the probability of success in getting rid of singles.

    As the old saying goes: many friends, many paths. Nowadays, network technology is becoming more and more developed, and various object finding software has come into being.

    Make good use of these software to increase your social networking. For example, a partner marriage and love are all good dating software, but the threshold for a partner to enter is very high, and all information must be reviewed and certified. From registration to filling in personal information, all need to go through strict real-name authentication audit, implement real-name authentication in all aspects, and resolutely bad fake users.

    Fully functional and very rigorous, to create a safe and trustworthy elegant dating platform. The screening function can give you a good push to some people with your interests and hobbies, only if there is a common topic to talk about, the three views are achieved - so that two people can go long-term.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you are in the countryside and you don't get married at the age of 40, you will definitely be said by many people to be ashamed, but now is a new era, and everyone looks down on it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think the traditional concept is gradually changing, late marriage, no marriage, older leftover men and women are not a special group, maybe the previous generation still has some traditional thinking, and the post-8090s are estimated to be gone. Don't worry too much about it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Ordinary heart. No matter how old you are, it is your choice to marry or not, as long as you are comfortable and happy, it is the best.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There are a lot of such phenomena in society now, no matter what, I still wish you to find your other half as soon as possible.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's okay, now many people are afraid of marriage or something, and it's nothing, so don't worry about the eyes of others.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Sit and watch the flowers bloom and fall, the flowers wither and wilt, and the young flowers become old flowers.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    At the age of 30, it's time to really think about personal problems.

    However, it is not possible to change the current economic situation by making a bet on marriage.

    Her own conditions are not so perfect, and she still owes debts, and no one will be interested in a woman who hates to marry.

    Don't think too much about it at the moment, let's improve your self-ability first.

    If you bloom, butterflies will come.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Whether you are looking for a job or starting a business, you don't have to go to a metropolis like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, but you don't have to go to a small town in the fourth or fifth tier, you can choose a third- or fourth-tier city.

    One is to leave the environment that brings negative emotions to you. The environment has a great impact on people, and once it has a negative impact on people and makes people's emotions depressed, it will affect judgment and choice.

    The second is to put yourself in a suitable position. Cities are too small, and what you have learned is often not available, so it is better to go to the right city, apply what you have learned, and get the right income!

    The third reason is that third- and fourth-tier cities are neither too far away from home like big cities, nor too close to small cities, so that they can balance work and family relationships.

    So when you deal with this position, then it's just about dealing with work and debt, don't think about debt in your heart, talk to people and treat debt as if debt doesn't exist.

    Be confident, as for starting a business, don't continue in a short time, because no matter whether the business is successful or not, it will not be of much help to you to find a partner, and from your mentality, you also care very much about other people's opinions, so you can work steadfastly, take finding a partner as a top priority, and you can use some social software!

    For you now, if you can find a suitable person, you can not only help solve many problems together, but also stabilize your mentality, and then want to start a business, but you can get twice the result with half the effort.

    You have to believe that you can get married, and you have to be confident, brave, know how to show your charm, show your strengths, of course, "Lu Yao knows horsepower", don't rush.

    The best relationship is to be evenly matched at the beginning, learn from each other later, then make progress together, and finally achieve each other!

    I wish a lover a family member!

    Emotionally untie and be a happy and happy person.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Marriage is sure to be able to get married, as for whether you can find what you like, it's hard to say, the foreign debt you owe is just a trivial matter, more than 70,000 yuan is not a lot, if it is a second marriage and a man without children, you can consider it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hello, your situation is that the business is not good, the boyfriend has just been separated, the older leftover woman, and the helpless. Now is the low point of life Since we have come to this point in order to start a business, no matter how difficult and hard it is, we must continue to walk, look at the general direction and adjust the strategy, and the future is a bright place! As for marriage, it is necessary to follow fate, not to marry because of marriage, maybe love will come quietly when you succeed in your career!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Thirty-year-old leftover girl, still in debt, very confused, very broken, can you still get married, thirty-year-old leftover girl, still in debt, very confused, and very broken, people like you, see a lot, you can marry, it's up to you, you have to have self-confidence, **fall on**get up, don't you be confused, you have to have the courage to face everything, there are many people in their thirties, you have to fight hard for a few years to change your destiny in your own hands, Good entrepreneurial opportunities are feasible, if you have money, you will be capricious, it doesn't matter how much you owe, as long as you are really hard-working to make money, pay back the money you owe, you will be a lot easier, will you be happy, you will not be confused and collapsed, can you still find the life you want, can you marry out of the feeling that suits your appetite.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Why do you expect to think about getting married? Do you think marriage is simple and beautiful?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I think it's very likely that we lost to reality. After all, as I get older, my enthusiasm for love and my passion for love begins to slowly decline, and it is replaced by a yearning for family, so I basically lose to reality.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    They married love, because these people have their own ideas and are independent, so they end up marrying love.

  44. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think it's lost to reality. Because it is difficult for older women to find a suitable marriage partner, they can only bow to reality in the end.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Personally, I think that leftover women in their 40s should continue to insist on themselves, and don't marry themselves off casually because they are old, which is extremely irresponsible to themselves

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Everyone's pursuit is different, if you meet the right person at the age of 40, you can remarry, but if you deliberately really don't.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    In my opinion, there is no need for older leftover women to insist anymore, otherwise, they will get married and have children in the future, they will all belong to advanced maternal age, which is very dangerous.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    At present, the legal retirement age in China is 60 for men, 50 for women, and 55 for female cadres. A woman is 40 years old, and there are still ten years left to retire! A 40-year-old unmarried woman who has never given birth to a child has the highest degree of risk, and the child she gives birth to may have problems, which also affects pregnant women!

    The more stable and safer is the caesarean section. The marriageable age in China is 22 to 40 years old for men and 20 to 38 years old for women!

    However, if a woman over the age of 35 is unmarried and has never had a child, it is a bit risky to have a child.

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