What is the psychology of a man who allows his wife to have many children? Does he really love his w

Having many children is the result of the love of men and women, not the unilateral needs and desires of men, but the psychology of common love and many blessings. He loves his wife, and if he doesn't love him, he won't be together, and he can't get married and have children. He really loved his wife, and being able to have many children showed that his wife really loved her husband too.

A family that can have more children must be capable, happy, responsible, and must be a beautiful family with loving father and mother. Only with love can there be a home, and there must be children and daughters in a family, so that they can multiply, rejoice, be beautiful in the world, and live forever. Thank you.

A man who allows his wife to have many children may have different psychological motivations. Here are some possible explanations:

1.Family values: This man may consider the family to be very important and that children are the most important asset between husband and wife. He may believe that having more children can bring more happiness and fun to the family, while also being able to pass on the family's values and traditions.

2.Social pressures: Some social and cultural backgrounds may perceive having more children as a sign of a man's dignity and worth. This type of man may feel pressured to prove his abilities and worth by having his wife have more children.

However, these psychological motivations do not necessarily mean that the man does not love his wife. He may genuinely love his wife, but he also wants to have a large family, or he is influenced by his social and cultural background to feel that having more children is necessary or appropriate.

Whatever the man's psychological motives, having his wife have many children is a decision that needs to be carefully considered. The size of the family should be determined according to the economic, social and psychological situation of the individual, while also ensuring that each child receives adequate care and resources.

Regardless of whether a man or a woman, as long as they still have children after remarriage and have a good relationship with their current partner, then they will love their current children very much, and they often do not love the children in front of them so much. If you don't see each other often, you won't love the children in front of you even more. Regardless of men and women, after getting married, they generally don't pay much attention to the children in front of them, and the reality is cruel.

The parent-child relationship also needs to be raised by Peiqiao group, and the child is raised by his side.

In fact, it is normal to think about it, if the husband and wife divorce, the child only lives with one party, and the other party does not see the child for a long time. After the divorce, the party who does not have children will only get farther and farther away from the children, because the child Minzhou Tang is not around, and he has not brought it up with one hand. In addition, if this party has another child, the time and energy are focused on the trace and the child in front of him, and the more he pays, the more he loves, and his heart is full of the child in front of him.

How can there be time to think and love the child who is not around?

Generally, the more you pay for your child, the more it hurts, the more you see your child, the more it hurts, and the less you pay and often don't see it, the less distressed. Human nature is like this, not to say who is good and who is bad, but all feelings need to be managed, even if it is their own children, the feelings that have not been contacted and managed will gradually become strange over time, and only when they are often together can they have feelings. The reason why people are affectionate is that there is no replacement, and once there is a replacement, they can be forgotten.

Men and women love each other, especially men.

In a family with good husband and wife, children also grow up in full love. Because people love each other, if both husband and wife love each other, then they also love the life they conceive together.

Especially for men, if a man loves a woman, he will love her children 100%, which is the instinct of the male to please the female.

Because many women put all their energy on the child after giving birth, then you can see the essence of the relationship between the husband and wife, and some men will feel that their identity has changed, and their wives will love her even more after giving birth to a child; There are also some who think that if their wives and children are born anyway, then they can not manage their marriage.

Many times when you get married, you can't see whether there is a substantive contradiction between the two people in a short time, but once you have a child, after the family structure of a family changes, it will have a positive or negative impact on the original relationship between husband and wife. For example, some men do not know how to take care of others and family responsibilities after marriage, but as their wives become pregnant and give birth to children, they gradually begin to mature and begin to know how to take on family responsibilities, so after their wives give birth to children, they will feel that they have a great responsibility, and they will begin to take more care of their wives and become caring for their families.

But there are still a large number of people, and the relationship between husband and wife after giving birth to children has deteriorated. Because when a woman gives birth to a child, all the focus is on the child, and she chooses to turn a blind eye to the men around her, so at this time the man will feel left out and begin to have some emotions. If the wife does not notice the changes in the man at this time, then the relationship between the husband and wife will deteriorate, and the woman will feel that the person does not care about anything for a day, has nothing to do, and looks at all kinds of unpleasant eyes, and the man will feel that the woman has a big temper and is not gentle, and the places she once liked have become shortcomings.

In fact, the real harmonious family relationship, the relationship between husband and wife should be above the parent-child relationship, if after giving birth, the relationship between the husband and wife has changed, to consider whether it is good or bad, if it is bad, to find out the problem in time, to actively solve the conflict. You must know that children only accompany the husband and wife through a certain journey, and the real long-term relationship is still the husband and wife, so after having children, the husband and wife still have to manage the marriage, and a more harmonious family environment is conducive to the growth of the child.

Because a woman's attitude towards her husband has also changed after giving birth, and she has focused her life on her child, naturally men's attitude towards their wives has also changed.

Because the heart is tired, the woman who has children has changed, she is all focused on the child, and she has less time to care about her husband, and even she is too lazy to dress up, so the husband naturally has no mind on his wife.

Because the wife's body has been deformed after giving birth, she has grown very fat and bloated, and she has no time to dress up at all, and the woman has lost her original gentleness, so the men have changed.

Yes, indeed, but the reasons are bilateral. The wife has to devote a lot of energy to take care of the children, and ignores the feelings of the husband, and the husband does not think well from the wife's point of view, which causes conflicts.

That's because many men will realize that they have more responsibilities after the birth of their children, and they will take better care of their children and focus more on their children.

Now there are many men who have children again, and their attitude towards their wives has changed greatly, in fact, after adding children, the couple must have shifted their attention to the children.

Although it is a difficult multiple-choice question, I still have a positive answer for me. That is, the wife is more important than the children.

For me, my wife will be the person who will be with me the most in the world, because our parents will eventually grow old, and our children will not be able to spend a long time with us because we are old. Therefore, the time spent loving the person should be the longest.

Then, although it was a difficult multiple-choice question, I learned that it seems that the majority of women choose children, and I will analyze my reasons here. The wife and children mentioned here must be compared if they love both of them very much, but if I have to choose, I will still choose my wife.

Although the child is also biological flesh and blood, but for me, the child is gone, and it can be reborn, but the wife is gone, she is gone, and it is really difficult to accept to find another one, and the woman who is willing to give birth to a child for you, your feelings naturally need not be said, and although it is a bit ruthless to say this, the child must not be closer to you and your wife in terms of family affection.

Also, if you choose to protect your wife or your child on the issue of your wife giving birth to a child, then you can't decide on this issue, because if there is such a situation in the hospital now, it is the default to keep it big, like the hospital doctor you saw on the TV series in the past asked you whether you want to keep it big or small, and now there is no question. And in this case, even if you have a choice, few people should have children. Because although the child is his own flesh and blood, after all, he has just arrived in this world and has not yet developed feelings.

This is the reason why I think that a wife is more important than a child, and I think most male friends should choose a wife, in the case of a normal relationship.