How has your life changed since you had your third child?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-17
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Life has changed dramatically, life has become busier, life pressure has become greater, there is no way to rest well, there are more things, and there are more things to face.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My life has become busier, my life has all revolved around children, I have no life of my own, I have completely lost my freedom, my life has become very dark, this is how life has changed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There have been very serious changes, life has become more and more stressful, and then the quality of life has become less and less, and there are more and more things to worry about, and there are also situations where there is no way to do it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Introduction: Everyone should know that now the three-child policy has been opened, as long as it is a conditional family, they will have a second child or a third child, or even more, but for some more difficult families, after giving birth to three children, they will find that the quality of life has changed greatly.

    I used to like children very much, and I think that children are the crystallization of love, and he can bring a lot of happiness and joy, but it's okay to raise a child, but when you raise one more child, you will find that your experience is really not up to it, after all, children also need to be taken care of, and big children also need to be taken care of. Therefore, many families will not choose to refuse to have children when they see that other people's families are like this, otherwise they will work too hard and have no way to provide a good living condition for their children. There are some families who have given birth to three children, and their lives have become particularly bad, first of all, the parents are busy, and secondly, there are more children.

    There is no way to take care of them uniformly, as well as education.

    But there are still some families who are very happy, because they feel that having an extra child is equivalent to having more hope, no matter what the family conditions are, but they want to give the best to their children, and there are many such cases. But let's just say it, after giving birth to the third child, I feel that the family is even more constrained, because educating the child takes time and money, and the older child has to go to school, and the second child has not yet gone to school and needs to take care of the third child so young, so I am a little exhausted. Therefore, remind everyone that under the condition of conditions and under the condition of being taken care of, you can have three children or even more, and don't have so many children when there are no conditions, which is to increase the pressure on yourself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After giving birth to three children, my life has completely changed, every day is around the children, and to take care of three children, it is not easy, there are many things to do every day, especially hard.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After having three children, my life became very bad because I was going around the child every day and I didn't have any personal space for myself.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Living in different eras, the problems we face are also different, we all know that the country used to strictly regulate the issue of childbirth, if you enroll students, then you will be punished accordingly, but now the country has completely liberalized the three-child policy, so some people will have such doubts, that is, after giving birth to three children, what will your life become? On this issue, in my personal opinion, I think it is likely that every day is the family and the children. And the pressure is also very high, let's listen to it below.

    1 Every day is a family and a child

    In my personal opinion, in fact, I think that having two children in a family is almost the same, and if there are three children, I personally think it is very difficult, and we all need to spend a lot of money in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation. If I have three children, I feel that life is just about family and children, and every day we are faced with these three children, I feel very upset at that time.

    2 It's stressful

    In fact, it is not easy to have three children, in such an era, the price is also very expensive, if you want to support these three children, we must have the corresponding ability, and at the same time I think the pressure is still very great. And now for children's education, this aspect of the expenditure is also relatively large, and now many parents hope to be able to send their children to a variety of training courses to cultivate their various interests and hobbies.

    So in my personal opinion, I think when giving birth to a child, we must be based on our actual situation, if it exceeds the range we can bear, I think our mental pressure will be very large, and at the same time, there will often be some problems in raising children, so we must consider carefully, the above is my summary of some of the relevant understanding of this problem, I hope these can be helpful to everyone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Life can get very busy, there is no time to do your own thing, and it can also make yourself very unhappy. And it can also make yourself feel stressed. If it's very serious, it can make my life very chaotic.

    So this also warns some people to have children in moderation and never to have too many children.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After giving birth to three children, my life will become a mess, after all, the pressure of raising three children is too much, and it is very headache for me.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My life has become very tiring because of the financial burden of having a child.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Very happy experience. When they were young, it was the most troublesome to take the eldest and second child out to buy groceries. On the way through the vegetable market, there are people to buy food, the boss will always stand in front of the stall selling rock sugar gourds, and the second will always stand in front of the stalls selling sugar cane.

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