Does a man s willingness to have a second child mean that he likes his wife?

A man is willing to have a second child, and he has no connection with his wife who likes him or not.

It is because the child itself is passed on from generation to generation, and it can also increase the relationship between husband and wife. But whether to have a second child or not depends mainly on one's own family situation, and it has little to do with the relationship between the two people.

Whether or not to let his wife have a second child is definitely not the standard of "really loving his wife". On the other hand, on the issue of having children, if a man loves his wife, he must respect his wife's wishes, and even if a man has any ideas, he should be honest with his wife, communicate sincerely, and strive to make both parties reach a consensus. You tell me?

Hopefully mine will make you aware of something.

Nor can it be judged that way. Some people want to have more children and more blessings. So being willing to have a second child does not mean that he likes his wife. But whether you really love your wife. The other person should be able to feel it.

Hello, a man is willing to have a second child.

It is hoped that the family will be happier with two children, and the two children will be more lively, and the children will also have companionship, so naturally they want the couple to live a better life and the family to be happy. I also hope that I can live a good life with my wife.

Allowing a wife to have a second child is definitely not the standard of "really loving a wife". On the contrary, on the issue of children, regardless of whether the man loves his wife or not, he must respect his wife's wishes, and even if the man has any ideas, he should be honest with his wife, communicate sincerely, and strive for both parties to reach a consensus. What are you talking about?

I hope mine makes you aware of something.

Not necessarily, sometimes family is everything.

You say it doesn't matter, but he still knows that after giving birth to a second child, he and his wife are inseparable, because there are children involved, right, he has already considered this aspect.

But you say that this means that you like their wives, and the reason for admitting it is not that it is very firm, this is just one aspect, just a performance.

It is normal to have a second child with your wife, and it is also a kind of love in itself.

The same can be said about this, but it is not necessarily love between two people because of the child.

Nowadays, there are many people who have more than one child after marriage, but some people want a second child, and some people do not want a second child. Someone summed it up and found that men are often more willing to have a second child than women. What is the psychology of a man who wants to dismantle the second mold?

As for why men want to have a second child, perhaps the reasons can be analyzed from the following aspects.

1. I simply like children and want to be lively at home. Some people want a second child simply because they like children. Although it is very happy for the couple to live in a two-person world after marriage, having children will make the family more complete.

Some men are very caring, especially like children, after having the first child in the family, he will hope to have another one, on the one hand, two children are also good to have a companion, on the other hand, there are many children in the family, and the family atmosphere should be relatively lively.

2. It may be the influence of patriarchal ideology. Some men already have a daughter at home, and he still wants to have another son with his wife, which is likely to be influenced by patriarchal thinking. These people may not admit that they are patriarchal, but they still subconsciously want to have a boy in their family.

3. If you want to have both children and daughters, Lu Wang envies that others have children and daughters in their families, and he is not far behind. Having both children and living a long life is something that many people dream of. Some men want a second child, not necessarily because of patriarchy.

For example, some families already have a son, but they still want to have another daughter. This kind of person may also be very envious of the people around him who have both children and daughters, so they hope that they can also have this kind of blessing.

4. The family conditions are okay, and I don't feel that there is any burden to raise children. Raising a child requires a lot of effort, a lot of money, time, etc., as well as thinking about the child's long-term future. Some people want a second child but don't have the ability to raise him well, while some men want a second child, they may simply think that the family conditions are good, and they can afford to have a child, so they will want a second child.

Whether to have children after marriage, and how many children to have, different couples will have different opinions. For some couples, one child can no longer be taken care of after marriage, and having another one will only make the two more stressed, and it is not conducive to the child's education. However, some couples will prefer children and feel that having one after marriage is not enough, and they should have another one.

What is the psychology of a man who wants a second child? In fact, strictly speaking, women are more stressed to have children, so women often can't understand why men want a second child so much.

There may be many reasons why a man wants a second child after marriage, and some people prefer children and like the lively family, so they hope to have a second child after marriage. Some people may want to have both children and daughters, and if they have a daughter, they want to have another son, and if they have a son, they want to have another daughter, and it seems that such a marriage is perfect. And some men want to have a second child after marriage completely go with the flow, feeling that everyone around them is giving birth to a second child, and he also wants a second child.

There are also men who want to have a second child after marriage because of the influence of machismo, this kind of man will not consider the problem from the perspective of a woman at all, let alone want to know if his wife wants a second child.

For people who like children, the life of a family of three may be a bit monotonous, they may feel that they can afford it anyway, it is better to have more children after marriage, and the two children can have a companion in the process of growing up, and the family with multiple children is also lively.

Because of the influence of the two-child policy, many families now have two children, and men wanting a second child may be simply affected by the environment. I feel that my friends and colleagues around me have two children, and he has to have two children. But this kind of man has no idea whether he can afford it or not.

And some macho men, having a second child is not his intention, and having a son is what he wants most. When this kind of man has a daughter at home, he will try his best to let his wife have a son in the name of having a second child. This kind of man is the most hateful, they don't understand the hard work of women's childbirth, and they also value sons over daughters, thinking that boys can inherit the lineage, and women had better pray that their husbands are not such people.

It's hard to say. The reason why it is "hard to say" is because there is really no one uniform standard.

However, is a man willing to let his wife have a second child, is it really as those two netizens said? Answering questions from friends here, I have seen many similar questions from women: "My husband wants me to have a second child, if I don't have him, he will divorce me", "I don't want to have a second child, but my husband said that if I don't have a second child, I will divorce".

Then you say, if your husband says this to you, what do you think?

As a husband, he has four different wishes, and among these wishes, only the "rarity" for his wife is missing. Of course, it does not mean that it is not the same as "not rare", but if it is "rare", it is by no means just "rare" at the level of having a second child.

It should be said that as a husband, it is not rare for his wife to be rare, only his wife understands.

Oh, yes! It shows that men love their wives very much!

The man wanted to have two more offspring.

In fact, having a second child has little to do with whether the relationship between husband and wife is good, because many couples are getting divorced, and the wife is not the same pregnancy. And whether the wife is willing to give her husband a second child is actually a show of whether the relationship between the husband and wife is good enough.

We all say that a man is a lower body animal, even if he doesn't like it, he will have a physiological reaction, and when that person is his wife, he may not like it but will also solve his physical needs, and therefore the woman may get pregnant. Therefore, whether a man has a second child with his wife or not does not represent whether he has a good relationship with his wife.

Now isn't there a lot of girls who find out that they are pregnant after half a month after two people break up, this is it, obviously there is no emotion, but they are doing intimate things, this is a man, obviously not loving, but the same will make a girl pregnant.

And girls are different, if they don't love this man, many times, they are reluctant to give him a second child, after all, pregnancy and childbirth are not a matter of that moment, but to be responsible for this child after birth, this responsibility may be a lifetime, and if a woman does not love this man, who is willing to give birth to a child for him, and then carry a lifetime of responsibility for himself.

And women don't like their husbands, many times they are unwilling to do intimate things with their husbands, and even if they do, they try not to get pregnant, this is because she doesn't love him anymore, so she doesn't want to do anything for her.

It's so painful to give birth to a child, it's so hard to educate a child, if it weren't for loving this man, how many girls would be willing to give him two children. Giving birth to one is a task, and giving birth to two is because I love this man.

Generally speaking, this is indeed the case, because to be honest, when it comes to having children, if the relationship between husband and wife is not good, women must not be willing to give birth!

Generally speaking, it is when the relationship between husband and wife is better, and then the economic conditions are also allowed, and the second child will be considered.

However, there are special circumstances.

I have a friend who is married to a very rich family, and her husband's relationship is good or bad, but she gave birth to a daughter, so her status in their family is much lower all of a sudden.

Her husband has a younger sister and has given birth to two sons in a row, and every time there is a family gathering, their whole family is really the focus of everyone!

Therefore, my friend has been thinking about having a second child, and this second child is not for anything else, just for the status of their family.

Sure enough, after she gave birth to a son, it was a beautiful scenery! Her in-laws directly gave her a house and a car, and I feel that kind of treatment is really difficult for people not to have a second child!

Therefore, I think that having a second child is not only a manifestation of a good relationship between husband and wife, but also has its own reasons.

This can't be generalized, it's not that having a second child is a good relationship between husband and wife, so it's a bit absolute. We have to analyze specific things on a case-by-case basis before we can get the results.

I don't mean that the relationship is bad, there must be couples with good feelings. Two people have a good relationship, thinking that having one more will make the family more joyful. It's true, if you really love someone, you want to give birth to a pair of children for him, although a man is reluctant to see his wife suffer, but he is still very willing to have a second child for him.

Because this shows that the relationship between the two husbands and wives is harmonious, and the two people will be happier when they see the crystallization of their love born. Men will also feel more sorry for their wives, and if they have suffered so much for him, they will be doubly good to her. The two of them are so sweet, his wife is naturally willing to have a second child, and a consensus was reached between the two of them, and the second child plan was put on the agenda.

Maybe the relationship between the two people is not very good, but they will still have a second child. Maybe the elders of the family are urging them to have another child and want to make the family more lively. Every day they are nagging like this, their ears are calloused.

So they had to give birth to a second child, and they whispered in their ears all day long. Maybe men are patriarchal, and they give birth to a daughter in their first child, but they are not satisfied, and they still want a son, and there are still cases of this situation. Then I will give birth to a second child, thinking that my wife will have a boy in her belly.

It doesn't matter what the relationship between the two people is, and I don't think about whether my wife is willing to do this. It's very selfish to think only about yourself.

All in all, I can't see what the relationship between the two people is like from the second child alone, which is too one-sided. If we want to know what the relationship between husband and wife is, we have to look at it from a holistic perspective, and we have to look at it on a case-by-case basis.

I think the relationship between two people can not be measured by having children, some people get married in order to marry their children, and having children is not necessarily the favorite, but it is impossible to have children if they don't love, some men don't want their wives to have a second child because they don't want their wives to endure the pain of having a second child, that kind of pain is something that men can't experience, and they feel sorry for their wives and don't let their wives give birth, isn't this a good feeling?

I think everything is two-sided, there is no absolute answer, having a second child does not mean that it is necessarily a good relationship, maybe just to make their parents happy, because the elderly like children, but not having a second child is not necessarily a bad relationship.

My family is an only child, my parents did not have a second child, in fact, my mother especially likes children and has always wanted to give birth, but because I don't agree with my father and feel that it is not necessary, and my mother gave birth to me when she was a caesarean section, and now there are scars, I don't want my mother to be stabbed again, so there is no regeneration.

I think even if we didn't have a second child in our family, but the relationship between parents and husband is very good, parents have loved each other for more than 20 years, the relationship is still the same, when going out for a walk, my father will hold my mother's hand, I envy this kind of love, a man loves his own woman is more to think about his own woman, giving birth to a child is really not an easy task, in the process of giving birth to a woman how much pain a man will not know.

I think it's really great to be able to give birth to a woman who can give you a baby, and I hope that men can love their women well