What is the reason for so many singles in the countryside? Is it the demographic gap? Or is it a bri

It can only be said that there are various factors, on the one hand, the ratio of men and women is unbalanced, on the other hand, there are more male singles in rural areas, and there are more female singles in cities.

The main reason lies in the former, because of the traditional ideas in the minds of people in the past. As a result, many people like sons and dislike daughters, resulting in an imbalance between men and women.

Population disparities and bride prices are the reasons for the large number of singles in rural areas, and there are generally far more men than women in rural areas, because rural women like to have boys, and when they get married, women will demand a higher bride price.

I think it's a demographic gap, because now more and more girls are going to the cities, and it's normal for the boys in the countryside to stay in the countryside and not find a partner.

Personally, I think it has nothing to do with the population gap and the bride price, but with his personality.

This is mainly due to the population gap, because of the influence of the patriarchal mentality, the ratio of men and women in rural areas is out of balance, so many men are unable to marry wives.

The high bride price is one reason, and I think the fundamental reason is that they have a lot of problems of their own, such as hot tempers, smoking and drinking, and no one wants to marry them.

Personally, I think so, the bride price that girls want nowadays is very high, and the bride price of about 200,000 yuan for a car or a house is simply not affordable by ordinary families.

Suppose that if there is a personal condition in front of you, the family has built a house in the countryside, the parents work, the man works, and the family has no major illness in recent years.

You will not have any doubts, your family has not bought a house, everyone works to earn money, and no one has a major illness and suddenly returns to poverty. But the family doesn't have a 100,000 family, and can't borrow money? Do you think it's not worth the money to get a wife?

Or do your family members have bad habits and spend more than they earn? No one in your family is willing to lend you money?

The reason why there are so many singles in rural areas is because these people are not motivated, have no job, are particularly lazy, and have no ability to earn money, so how can they have daughters-in-law.

It is difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner, mainly because the rural economy is relatively backward, there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and do not want to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and the peerless ratio in the cities!

Although it is said that many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the living environment in the countryside, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of hustle and bustle in Wu Hongchi's city are not conducive to life and residence.

But the countryside is a rural area after all, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", so now there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to our old traditions and habits in rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.

Nowadays, there are more and more young male singles in rural areas, and it is becoming more and more difficult to find a partner, for many reasons, I have summarized the following points!

First, there is an imbalance between men and women, and there are too few girls.

Due to the patriarchal thinking of the older generation, most of them like to have boys, so there are fewer girls, which causes a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women. Basically in the countryside it reaches 10:1. Therefore, there are many young people who are single and cannot find a daughter-in-law.

Clause. Second, the high bride price discourages the man.

The bride price of marrying a daughter-in-law must be indispensable, but in some places the bride price of marrying a daughter-in-law is relatively high, for rural people, the bride price of 100,000 yuan is considered high, and some women's bride price is hundreds of thousands, then this is undoubtedly a great pressure on the man, as we all know, many young people in rural areas are freelancers, so their income is not stable, and it is difficult for them to get hundreds of thousands or even hundreds of thousands, so this is also the reason why young and middle-aged men in rural areas are unmarried.

Clause. Third, rural children have low educational qualifications and limited ability.

In the countryside, many young and unmarried men in the socks and pants have relatively low educational qualifications, some only have a primary school education, some have a junior high school education, and some have a high school education.

Clause. Fourth, many people in rural areas cannot afford to buy houses and cars.

Everyone knows that now when getting married, whether it is a city person or a rural person, the requirements for marrying a daughter-in-law have become higher, many women require the man to have a car and a house, but Haopei is in the countryside, many single men can not afford to buy a house in the city, only in their hometown to build a house, some women do not dislike to marry, but some women in the city to buy a car and buy a house has become a mandatory requirement, so this is also one of the reasons why young and middle-aged men in rural areas can not get married.