The current situation of the singles crisis, the saddest period of the singles life

China's singles crisis may break out in 2020, and the gender ratio is seriously imbalanced. For the past 20 years, China's sex ratio at birth has been higher than 115. From 1980 to 2014, 100 million people were born, more than 30 million more men than women.

The immediate consequence of this is the singles crisis. Demographer Yao Meixiong judged that the singles crisis could erupt in full force after 2020.

According to experts, under normal natural circumstances, the sex ratio at birth is generally between 103 and 107, that is, for every 100 female babies born, there are 103 to 107 male babies. China's sex ratio at birth was generally normal until the 1980s, rising from 107 in 1982 and rising rapidly since then, reaching it in 1990, rising in 2000 and even higher in 2004. Although the sex ratio at birth has declined since 2008, it still hovers at a high level of around 117.

According to data released by the National Bureau of Statistics, at the end of 2014, the male population in Chinese mainland was 700.79 million, 33.76 million more than women. The male-to-female ratio of the post-80s non-marital population is 136:100, and the male-to-female ratio of the post-70s unmarried population is as high as 206:

100, there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women. Another set of data shows that from 1980 to 2014, a total of 100 million people were born in China, and the average sex ratio in these 34 years is more than 30 million more men than women according to the normal value of sex ratio.

Wang Libo, a professor of demography at Shenyang Normal University, explained that the sex ratio of Chinese mainland shown from this set of figures is within the reasonable range of 103 107 in the international standard, which is not high. The "singles" in the "singles crisis" does not refer to men of all ages, but only men of marriageable age.

Therefore, this figure has no reference value.

Wang Libo cited the official figures released by the National Bureau of Statistics for comparison: taking the average age of marriage in Chinese mainland as a reference of 27 years old, limiting the marriageable age group to the age group of 20 to 34 years old, by summarizing the data of the four censuses in 1982, 1990, 2000 and 2010, it can be seen that the sex ratio of the population born before and after the implementation of the family planning policy is not much different, and even the data in 2000 and 2010 are even lower. In 2010, the sex ratio of marriageable age was the lowest among the four groups, at 102. This figure is also low compared to the data of Japan's two censuses in 2000 and 2010.

In 2010, the total number of men aged 20 to 29 in China was 100 million, and the number of women in the same age group was 100 million, with a difference of only 1.26 million, far less than 30 million.

All I know! From the time I went to school, there were more boys and fewer girls, and there were more boys and fewer girls, and the whole class, the whole grade, and the whole school!

1.The bride price is heavy, and the cost of marriage is high. Now the bride price in rural areas is rising, and the prominent problem of heavy bride price has caused many families with sons to have a headache, and now the cost of marriage in rural areas is getting higher and higher, and the starting price of bride price is generally more than 100,000 yuan, and even requires a car and a house.

This is too much of a burden for the average middle-income family to bear. Even some areas still pay attention to "three catties and three taels", "motionless", thousands of purples and thousands of reds and a little green", etc., and many marriageable young men finally gave up the idea of marriage because of the "sky-high bride price".

2.There is an imbalance between men and women. In the past, the concept of rural people was relatively feudal, and they have always had the idea of emphasizing men over women, so there were more boys in rural areas, and now there are other factors such as heavy economic burdens, and rural people do not dare to have too many children, and only need to have boys, so there are fewer girls.

As a result, there are now more young men than young women in rural areas. As a result, it is becoming more and more difficult for young people in rural areas to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

3.Life flow and changing attitudes. After the reform and opening up, China's economy has developed rapidly, and the speed of population flow has accelerated.

There has also been a change in the mindset of rural girls. Many girls who have entered the age of marriage and love choose to go out to study, work, and start a business. Many girls do not want to stay in the countryside to work as farmers when they move to the cities.

The urban living environment and quality of life have an increasingly prominent siphoning effect on rural girls. It is becoming more and more common to go out to work and form inter-provincial marriages. As a result, there are fewer rural girls.

Therefore, it has become more difficult for rural guys to find a daughter-in-law in the village.

At present, there are more and more singles in the rural areas, and if we continue to open our eyes to this trend, the rural areas will face severe social problems in the future, but some experts have pointed out that in order to solve this problem, it is necessary to give full play to the role of social organizations, and organize friendship in rural areas through marriage agencies and online information platforms, so as to increase the exchange opportunities for older men and women. Some experts also said that behind the difficulty of getting married in rural areas is the issue of economic and social development. In addition, in the process of development, it is necessary to improve public services for migrant workers and create conditions for them to establish marriages and families.

Because of the strong propaganda of the current **, most people feel that there are more women and men now, and many people return to their hometowns or small cities to see that there are many friends around them who are singles, and there are few girls of the right age, so it deepens our thoughts about more men and fewer women.

But I think that this may not be the case, and I will start with our surroundings about why there are so few girls in small cities or rural areas. The main reason for this phenomenon is the imbalance of economic development, because the development of small cities is slow, the economic environment is poor, and large cities due to complete infrastructure, the human environment and economic environment are better than small cities, so the economic development of large cities is better, people's instinct is to go to the place of better development, especially women, because instinctively speaking, women's maternal instinct must have a better material condition in order to create a better living environment for their next generation. Therefore, there are very few school-age girls in small cities or rural areas, and there are more girls in big cities, and most of those who play singles are not very good in economic conditions and cannot create better material conditions for women, so more singles does not mean that there are more men and fewer women, which can only show that many men cannot meet the basic material conditions of women in the case of rapid economic development.

Another reason is the reason of personality, introverted people are not popular with ladies, because it is now an information age, people continue to receive all kinds of information every day, and people's threshold of various information is constantly improving, an introverted man is far from being able to reach the information threshold of modern women, so naturally will not receive women's attention. So there are a lot of male singles who are not in bad economic conditions, but have a very introverted personality.

But the highly developed information also gives men an advantage, that is, they can find a person on the same channel as themselves from a wider range of people, so a man has nothing outstanding in the economy, so he needs to have more contact with girls.

The most difficult thing is that at night and during the day, the bachelor can also chat with the people in the village, brag, or go to the field to do some farm work, but at night, the house is empty, there is no temperature, no one to accompany him to talk about empty books, and there is no wife and children to warm the kang. The most difficult thing to listen to is the gossip of rural singles, and the most difficult thing to listen to is the gossip in the village. Even singles may become a negative teaching material for children, and educating children may say "no more."

The saddest thing is the Spring Festival, which was originally a happy moment for family reunion, however, for singles, it is a spring "robbery", watching the same age and a family eat dumplings together for the Spring Festival dry mountain, but the single can only live alone and lonely.