There are more than 30 million male singles in my country, where are there more singles in rural and

Many people may not admit it, but in fact, the "single aristocrats" in the countryside and the city are completely two groups.

In other words, it is easier to understand: most of the singles in the rural areas are forced to "beat the singles", and they are forced to be single because they have no choice. <>

Because of this, there are more and more signs of singles in the countryside, while there is also such a phenomenon in the cities, but the situation is completely different.

The author will also give his reasons below.

1. Why are urban and rural singles two types of people?

In short, except for a few singles in the city who are not in good condition and cannot find a corresponding object, most of the remaining singles are "leftover" because of their own high vision or other reasons.

In other words, if this group of urban singles is willing to lower their requirements, it will be easier for them to get out of singles than those in rural areas. <>

In other words, most of the single people in the city have a choice, and they are single by their own choice, rather than being "forced to be single" like the single people in the countryside.

Why?

For example, many young people nowadays are looking for a partner with similar requirements, because they are not willing to reduce the quality of life because of love or marriage.

For example, most of the small white-collar workers in the city with a monthly salary of 10k will not be lower than this figure for the other half.

If it is a woman with better conditions, the requirements for the other half may be several times greater.

And they may stay single for a long time because they are busy at work and do not have the right candidates.

But this single state does not mean that they can't get off the single, as long as they are willing to lower their requirements, in fact, it is not difficult for this kind of single people to get off the single.

2. What is the situation of single people in rural areas?

The author talked about the situation of single people in the city, so how do the single people in the countryside deal with the situation?

Unlike urban populations, most rural singles are forced to be single. <>

Maybe it's because of the poor family, the lack of suitable candidates nearby, or other reasons......In short, unlike the single people in the city, most people are single without choice.

To put it bluntly, if this part of the single population does not improve much in their own conditions, they are likely to "beat singles" until they grow old.

And this is the biggest difference between rural singles and urban singles.

Single people in the city, after they are a little older, may lower their requirements and get married because of the pressure around them to get married.

But do rural singles have a choice? <>

To put it mildly, they don't have any choice.

Because most rural people do not have the habit of keeping their own money and remain single.

That is, if a single person in the countryside.

In his twenties and thirties, he is single, and if his family situation has not changed much, he is likely to be single for the rest of his life.

It's brutal, but that's the reality!

I think there are more singles in the city, not in the countryside as everyone thinks, you must know that you can get married in the countryside and get married a long time ago, and those singles are really not good in terms of conditions, although the conditions in the city are not bad, but they are not willing to fall in love and get married, so the singles rate is also high.

1. It is easy to find a partner early when you get married in the countryside, but it is easy to be single if you are too busy in the city. Most people in the countryside get married early, and if you don't go to school, you will basically be introduced to someone when you are 18 years old, and then when both parties feel that it is about the same, they will start to discuss marriage, and then they will get married and have children.

But the people in the city are too busy with work, and the time spent with their girlfriends is not even as long as they work, which is also easy to lead to women's dissatisfaction, so they break up, so this man becomes a single, and many people are too busy to fall in love, so they naturally become singles.

People with similar conditions in the countryside can find someone to marry, and the remaining singles are basically the kind whose family conditions are too poor, while people in the city are different, often because they are too busy to be broken up, and then they also find that they are too busy to have time to fall in love, so they naturally become singles.

Second, the conditions for singles in the countryside are really not good, and the singles in the cities are unwilling to fall in love and get married. How did you come to be a rural single? Either the family conditions are too poor, and no girl is willing to marry them, or there are too many ages and the conditions are not good, so they become the kind of singles, but basically everyone in the countryside can make do with marriage, so there are fewer singles.

But people in the city are different, they are either too busy to fall in love, such as soldiers and firefighters, they have to rush over non-stop and then carry out the task when ordered by the above, so they don't want to fall in love and drag down the girls, they will choose not to fall in love and not get married.

So there are really not as many singles in the countryside as there are in the citiesAfter all, many people in the city are reluctant to fall in love, some of them are too busy to fall in love, and then they choose to be single, and some people feel that they don't want to start a relationship at will, so they are single

It's not uncommon for men to be single now, and it's not ugly.

If marriage is good for them, who would choose to be celibate? It is ...... nature to seek benefits and avoid harmIf children are only a responsibility in marriage and you can't afford to pay the responsibility when you meet a man, are you willing to marry your daughter and suffer unrequited pain?

I think there are more singles in rural areas, and in this material era, finding a boyfriend depends on the boyfriend's family conditions, so I think there are more singles in rural areas compared with cities.

Take me as an example, my family lives in the countryside, and I am single. I'm only 19 years old, and when I arrive for the Chinese New Year, I have the care of seven aunts and eight aunts. I think it's better in the city, at least it's not like the countryside and guards one acre and three points of land, and the family has a little savings.

I think there are a lot of singles in the city, because they face a lot of life pressure, and their ideas are more advanced, and they are not willing to fall in love and get married easily.

There are more than 30 million male singles in China, and there are more singles in rural areas compared with cities, because the rural areas are poor, backward in thinking, and there are many people who cannot marry a daughter-in-law.

In order to stay in the city, many girls choose not to marry or marry boys who have the ability to stay in the city, resulting in more singles in rural areas.

I think there are more singles in rural areas, and singles are divided into two extremes, either they are too good or too lazy, and rural men can't marry a daughter-in-law if they are poor.

City. In rural areas, people generally marry early, and many people get married when they reach the legal age when they reach adulthood, while people in urban areas are busy with work and life.

It is difficult for young men in rural areas to find a partner, mainly because the rural economy is relatively backward, there are more men than women, and the most important point is that the ideological concepts are relatively different, and girls are very realistic and do not want to live in poor rural areas.

First, there is still a big gap between the conditions in the countryside and the peerless ratio in the cities!

Although it is said that many times, the good mountains, beautiful water, and good air in the countryside do make many people yearn for the living environment in the countryside, which is undoubtedly and very true, after all, all kinds of hustle and bustle in Wu Hongchi's city are not conducive to life and residence.

But the countryside is a rural area after all, it does not have a lively commercial street, there is no bustling night market, there is no advanced medical and educational resources, etc., if you want to do anything, you must go to the county, anyway, there will be a lot of inconvenience.

Second, some rural men are more likely to be "content with the status quo".

People often say: "Relying on the mountains to eat the mountains and relying on the water to eat the water", so now there are many rural men, they are influenced by their parents or families, and they don't want to go to the city to work hard or start a business, they just want to stay in their own homes with peace of mind and live that comfortable life.

Therefore, there will be some men, every day is very hard, usually "sunrise and sunset", every day is either to serve the family's crops or other crops, although every year can not earn money, but after all, it is particularly hard, but also very boring.

Thirdly, the number of single young women in rural areas is decreasing.

According to our old traditions and habits in rural areas, under normal circumstances, men stay at home and take care of everything in the family, after all, men are the main labor force in the family, and many young women are not willing to stay at home, and most of them will go to the big city to work or do things.

But once these young women stay outside for a long time, it is easy for them to get along with the people around them, and in this case, many single young women will most likely marry somewhere else, so that after a long time, there will be fewer and fewer single young women in the village. Therefore, based on the above reasons, there are more and more male singles in rural areas, which is also a very helpless reality.

Since the release of the results of the seventh national census, many aspects of the data have aroused heated discussions among many netizens. Among them, the hottest topic among netizens is that the number of men is more than 30 million more than the number of girls. This means that in the future, more than 30 million men will not be able to find a girlfriend and will want to fight as a single.

After the demographic results were announced, there was a rumor that 30 million men would be beaten off by singles, and it intensified.

However, some experts hold the opposite opinion, believing that this interpretation is not scientific. First of all, the gender composition should be divided into age groups. From 20 to 40 years old, this group of age groups to marry and have children.

There are 17 million more men than women. Not more than 30 million people. At the same time, marriage and love are affected by age, region, education level, family factors, and values.

and other factors. It is necessary to conduct a comprehensive analysis in many aspects. It is worth mentioning that from the perspective of the new population, the sex ratio in China has been gradually improving.

Overall, however, the total male population is higher than the total female population. There will always be some boys who are going to beat the singles. In the face of such a situation, boys should continue to improve themselves in all aspects, make themselves enough, and become better.

Increase your core competitiveness, so that girls can choose you with peace of mind. After all, in the case of more men and fewer women, girls have a lot of choice in choosing a mate. In order not to fall behind in the matter of mate selection, boys should continue to improve their self-cultivation in all aspects.

For example, strive to become better and more independent in terms of their academic qualifications, economic conditions, character, personality, etc. In this way, more girls can be attracted. Because no girl will like her boyfriend, she has a short personality, a bad education, very poor economic conditions, and a bad character.

If there are such boys, after they have these exercises, they should correct them in time and learn from those excellent men.

After all, as long as the boy keeps improving himself. After you are good enough, the girls you meet and your future partner will also be very good. If you bloom, butterflies will come, and this saying is also true when it comes to choosing a mate.

As long as the boys continue to improve themselves and make themselves better, then they will attract more girls. Don't worry about being single. However, there is no need to worry too much about this matter, because with the implementation of the comprehensive two-child birth policy, the sex ratio of China's birth population is gradually declining, and the imbalance between men and women will continue to improve, and the pressure on men's marriage will not continue to grow.

They are still pitiful. But there is no way, it is because of their desire to pass on the family lineage that it will lead to the current situation.

This is the current situation of imbalance in society, and unless the state has a good policy to solve it, no one can prevent this situation from happening.

Good men don't worry about marrying, and good women don't have to worry about marrying. As long as you are good enough, why worry about not finding a wife.

I think this phenomenon tells us that girls must not compromise on love and marriage, find a suitable partner for yourself, love yourself well, and live your own wonderful life.

More than 30 million men in China want to be singles, I think this is normal, many countries will have this kind of problem, and it is impossible for any country to achieve the same ratio of men and women.

Because there are many young people who are not happy to get married, they all want to live on their own. Because they think it will be very free. Others are because they have a lot of pressure at work and simply don't have time to think about them.

It's just a visual feeling from the numbers, but now it's not just men, there are many women who are always single.

It's true, because there is a serious imbalance in the ratio of men to women, so there are a lot of men in the world, which means that they need to put in more effort and carry a lot of pressure on their bodies.