How to deal with your child s distress in public?

Talk to the child well, the child does not understand many things if you don't explain it to him, but if you talk well, he will listen to it a little bit.

Introduction: When the child is noisy and chasing in public, parents will walk up to the child and squat down to look him in the eyes, tell him that this is in a public place, you need to be quiet, if we keep arguing to others, we can only leave this place first, and we will make an agreement with the child before the next time we go out, and we must abide by the rules of the public place.

Children themselves are lively and active, parents to show understanding of course, children too noisy will also affect the normal life of other people, noisy in public, really feel particularly impolite, particularly disrespectful, some parents have never ignored it, this will only make people feel that your child is a bear child, you are a bear parent, feel particularly uneducated, and the child will grow up to do something harmful to themselves and others, must educate their children from an early age, When the child is noisy and chasing in public, they will walk up to him, squat down and look into his eyes and tell him that this is in public and they need to be quiet.

In fact, when you squat down and look at the child at the moment, he actually knows that you have no meaning to express, and when the child has played for a period of time, and finds that there is no way to control it, you can gently walk in front of him, pat him on the shoulder, and then use gestures to inform him that he needs to be quiet, but the attitude of parents must be firm and gentle, to let the child feel that there is no way to negotiate this thing, before the next time you go out, Parents should inform their children in advance of where we are going today, what they need to do after they go, and if there is no way to follow the rules there, we can not go.

Parents can tell their children that they should respect other people in public and not make noises, chase and fight, which will affect other people, which is particularly annoying.

Parents should tell their children that this practice is particularly incorrect, because it will affect the lives of many people and will disturb many people.

This will affect others, and you should also be a polite child, this kind of behavior will make many people hate, and respecting yourself is respecting others.

First of all, parents should adjust their mentality, immediately reason with Tan Ling Baobao, let him realize that his implicit or related practices seriously affect the normal life of others, and encourage and support the child's correct approach, and appropriately criticize the child.

Squat down and ask your child what he needs, and if he can meet them, try to meet them. Or to divert the child's attention, you can try to use his reed things to meet the child's needs at this time. Finally, if the child is crying for no reason, take the child to a corner where no one is around, let the crying for a while, the child will stop crying when the adult does not respond, and the parents are patiently teaching at this time.

At this time, parents should choose not to rush to the silver reason, pretend not to see the child continue to cry, let the child know that the crying of the scattered banquet will not solve any problems, and the crying will not be able to coerce the parents, and wait for the child to calm down and reason with the child.

The child's performance in public is obviously seeking attention, and the other is the lack of a sense of order management, the parents are too busy to accompany and not communicate enough, the child has no sense of security, and the child's existing performance has caused parents to be anxious, and he can be guided from these points.

1. To consciously establish a sense of order, you can use picture book stories to inspire and guide him, for example, when the character in the story has the same symptoms as him, ask him what you would do if it were you! Help children establish a standard scale for correct understanding, such as what others will think of a big quarrel in a group environment, and how others will praise a polite person.

2. Parents should build a bridge of communication, a lot of words and deeds are transmitted from parents to children, the role of the mother is very important, including the mother's emotions and ways of doing things will inspire the child a lot, the relationship between the mother and the child is very special, and other family members are irreplaceable.

3.When there is a slight change in the child, the encouragement given should be exaggerated, so that the child can clearly understand that the praise is because he has done the right thing, so that the child will have a scale to distinguish things.

4.Because the child lacks praise, and longs for the praise of parents, so it will make some behaviors that parents do not understand on various occasions, that is because the child wants to attract more people's attention through this behavior, as a parent in the child's growth is actually a praise, encouragement, guidance, help role, provide more platforms for children, create a platform, so that he has enough space to show himself, from every experience to get successful applause, so that children's self-confidence will slowly increase, When the child wants to be praised by others, he will slowly restrain himself, and the child will also avoid his bad things and show his good side to everyone. Because he has already experienced the joy that praise brings him.

Tell him what is wrong and what is right. The child will not give up until the goal is achieved, and he must not compromise and let him cry. Of course, it's not a habit that can be cultivated in a day or two, and it will be fine after a long time.

In normal times, parents should instill such ideas in their children, and at the same time, they should also let their children control their emotions, and when the children perform well, they will put forward corresponding praise, or they can give some rewards if they are properly checked.

If the child does something particularly bad in public, or does something particularly bad, he should tell his friend that he should not do so, and he should also tell the child what to do outside.

When you are at home, you should tell your child not to make noise in public, and then you can pick your child up in public.

How to develop your child's ability not to be noisy in public!

Identify the occasion. Sometimes children shout to express excitement or impatience, and parents should do a good job of guiding children to understand that they can't get what they want by raising the decibels, and they must learn to distinguish the occasion, keep appropriate silence in special places, and understand the position of others.

Self-management. This ability is actually developed from the most basic body control and exploration. When the child has developed well in strength, finesse, coordination, balance, etc., he or she has confidence in his physical body control.

A lot of times it's not so much the need to get someone's attention by making a big noise. In fact, it is to seek a sense of presence and identity.

Be a good role model. The power of example is endless. Parents should first self-examine whether there is a behavior that affects others by speaking loudly in public, and secondly, when the child is crying, whether the parents have repeatedly compromised because of the stool and potatoes for face, which will leave the child with the impression of "not following the rules", and the child will cry more and more.

Mom and Dad are imperceptibly influencing their children's every move in the little things in life.

All children are almost the same, and the key factor that distinguishes them from being different people is education.