How do I get there? Life is so bleak

It's very ordinary, you don't take it to heart;

Life is your own, and no one can set someone else's life unless you think about it; So it's not interesting for you not to marry a rich kid here;

Since you can be a teacher in college, you should be a little independent of your own thoughts, do you really like the people introduced by your grandmother? How well do you know him?

If it's because of his family situation, let's get married first, at least you will have divorce fees after the incident; If you tell him now, you won't want it;

And if you want to maintain this marriage, you must work harder, be kind to him, so that he will know that you can't do without you in the future;

However, he is a very sincere person, and sincere people are deceived once and are hurt more seriously;

Of course, the best thing is that you tell this rich kid about your past, and if he loves you very much, he won't mind; If he doesn't mind if he doesn't want you, then it's not your responsibility, and you can explain it in front of your godgrandma and parents. The biggest problem, though, is that you don't want to see such a big cooked duck fly away.

Do you know what your mother does?

In fact, I don't think paper can contain fire. What's more, you may not be able to hide it for a lifetime. It's going to be hard.

And the guy your grandmother introduced you, how much do you know about him? What is his heart for you? Did he decide to marry you to make you happy?

If so, tell him the truth, and he'll understand, because it happened before him, after all. Of course, if he's just marrying for the sake of getting married, that's a different story, and it's better to say no (knowing it's difficult for you).And don't you have someone around you who loves you very much?

The question is, why is it that the rejection is not understood by all the people? Is it because that person's family background is very good, and others can't think of any reason to refuse? Why does your mother hate you? Think you let go of a good son-in-law?

In short, if you decide to get married on the basis of fear of offending your grandmother and being hated by your mother, then it's better not to get married at all, and you will end up sad. Unless that person has a good character.

Actually, I think the question now is how do you get out of this situation?

To get rid of this, the only way to get rid of this is to let which man reject you, so what? It's okay for you to find a way to get him to reject you.

Because that's the only way.

So you have to go against your will to do something that you don't like and he doesn't like, only in this way can he reject you and you can come out.

The best thing to do is to drag, don't be too enthusiastic about him, don't be too cold, just drag.

If you have been dating for a long time. If you think he can accept your past, it doesn't matter, it's okay to say it or not. If he's likely to be a bargain, just find a way to get him to reject you.

Everyone has experiences, and these experiences may not all be good, but if you see these experiences as a burden now and in the future, then you will live a very unhappy life. A marriage that seems to be very happy will be surrounded by many kinds of halos on the outside, but it is a seemingly happy marriage after all. This kind of marriage can only be accepted by extremely hypocritical people, otherwise you will suffer for the rest of your life because of the marriage that you chose for everyone at that time.

Everyone is afraid of what they are about to lose in a difficult situation, so what we care about is really not worth it to get a lifetime of marital happiness, can you understand?

Actually, the past doesn't matter, I've had similar experiences to you, but my concept is to always go my own way. If I were you, I would make two choices depending on the situation. First:

I want to see if this man is suitable for me, and if he is a good fit for me, and he is still a good fit for me, I will tell him all, and I believe he will accept it. Second: If he is not suitable for me, even if he hides it, there will be no happiness at all.

All fame and fortune are earned by their own hands, and I will find a way to get him to break up with me, so that he will not offend people and solve the problem.

Landlord, if it were me, I would definitely refuse.

In today's society, we can think about it, let's understate it

Haha, I like this kind of society, I'm too cold, hehe.

Well. Please sympathize with the landlord's bad life.,But I personally think it's unnecessary.,Maybe I'm not the party.,It's all about standing and talking without backache.。 As far as my side is concerned, gambling is a harmful thing to others, and there are too many such things around me, which affect my family, and then, relatives, and then friends...

In the end, the jar was broken, but someone did it. Basically, it's unlikely to change. As a person, since this kind of thing has happened to you, you should break off all monetary dealings with your brother.

At least you won't be bothered about money, as long as your brother's affairs don't let the family pay off the debts you and your old father, that's a great luck in misfortune, in terms of the landlord's income, it's not bad. At least you don't have to rent a house, and if it's not your brother's name on the property certificate, it doesn't matter, it's full of people, if someone comes to make trouble, you can call the police, and it won't be too much of a problem. The most important thing is the mentality.

Please don't bring the emotions of the family to work, although this is difficult to do, in other words, your direct boss is such a bad person, can actually become your subordinate, why should she? Maybe it's his merit in front of his superiors. So don't take it too seriously.

If you're a sunny, cheerful guy who can bring a smile to the guy around you, then you have a chance to talk to her. Maybe you know why she did it.

After looking at what the landlord said, maybe the landlord's starting point of life was higher than now, and now it is not comparable with before, so the psychology is unbalanced, but there are more poor people than you, isn't it? People don't live like this, they have time to walk with the elderly, comfort and comfort, chat, and let the old man not be so pessimistic.

Happiness is a thing that makes people laugh even if they are living in pessimism, so laughing at life, the mentality is right, the attitude is clear, and people are naturally optimistic. Maybe a miracle will happen, and no one can do anything big with a sad face. So be optimistic.

Life is difficult to have smooth sailing, and it is impossible to do everything as expected, wish: the landlord is happy every day.

I want to say, your brother didn't help you, you are lucky, if he helps you, he will ask you for money and the like, and in the end, maybe your money will not go to him, so don't contact your brother now, go your own way, find someone you love, love her well, you will find that your own road is still very long.

First of all, I want to tell you that you have to choose to go on your own path, you have to understand that no one in the world will owe you, if they help you, it is a favor they give, everything must rely on your own efforts, to explore, to reverse. Because only you have the ability to do this. The family is poor, the brothers are intrigued, and it doesn't matter.

You don't have to be confused, even if you are confused, you have to come out and think about what you want? The result? Determine it, and then go and figure it out for yourself.

Big husband, if you don't succeed, you will become benevolent, what to worry about. In today's harmonious society, we must adapt to the environment, adapt to everything and then strive to be the dragon among people.

Let go of your heart, make more friends, and don't always think about being lonely, or you will fall deeper and deeper.

Change yourself, set yourself a goal, and work hard to achieve it, and you'll find that your mood will change every day.

I realize that I have a lot in common with you, really. It's just that I'm a Capricorn, and I'm just a student! I'm also a bit introverted, and I'm afraid of being forgotten by others, but thinking about it often will only make me feel inferior!

Look at yourself from a different angle, forget and forget, I think, being happy is the most important thing! It's true! I'm also very timid, I don't dare to speak in class, but I can exercise, others can, we can too!

The most important thing is not to care about other people's eyes! Confident, confident! With one experience, I believe that I can do better next time!

Although I am very timid, I have a ...... that is not as popular as othersHowever, as long as you are the best version of yourself, you will be happy.

Like me, I'm a Capricorn and I'm in a situation like yours, and I'm also very distressed, but I still have to work hard, right, be brave every day, after a long time, I will really become very brave, hehe, believe in yourself, come on! Let's do it together.

The shadow of childhood does affect many of us, Jackson is an example of how you behave in front of the leader is actually not confident, and there is too much thinking, the leader is also a person, people are equal, you don't have to be afraid, it's just a toast and it's not a bad intention, and besides, you're not a newcomer to the workplace......It should be easy to deal with!!

People who are weak at heart will retreat when they encounter obstacles, and suffer when they suffer failures, and they will have the courage to accept tests, try boldly, and take a step forward is equivalent to one step closer to success.

C. Growing up, you don't have to worry too much, do more things, and have less boring thoughts.

People's days always have to be lived, no matter whether they are difficult or not, no matter how hard the days are, they must endure and endure the past, so there is no need to worry about the future.

16 years old is really young, but since it comes out, work hard, support yourself, don't burden your family, people have confused times, take advantage of yourself, "Jiangxi Lexing Psychology" is very good, have time to go to the "Lexing Psychology Blog" to see, you will have some help.

I'm a boy too. Your bitterness. Almost the same as mine. It's just that I have an optimistic mindset. You might as well be temporary.

You're still so young, that's the biggest capital!

Learn as much as you can!

Those who drive are worthy of envy, but their lives are also exchanged for blood and sweat, and they are tired like a cow every day!

Good luck, these words you say make me feel like you've started to mature and become a man! Like one!

Set goals for yourself, the long-term can be set to 10 years or 20 years, and the short-term should be set for yourself every year, such as how much money you want to earn this year, what work you need to do to earn this money, how much income you need to achieve every month, what you have to do such a job, what should you learn, what should you improve yourself there, and then set the results of this year next year, you will find that you are getting better and better year by year.

Why are you so discouraged, this road of life is quite difficult, but as long as you grasp the direction and persist in working hard, you will definitely usher in a bright day! Faith is valuable!!

Later, I will talk about it later, there is a road today, and today we will go first.

Study, study, must learn, if you don't study, I'm afraid it's really like that.

Perhaps it's a very profound philosophical question: How long is a human life? And how to define it?

Why is it so tiring to be alive. Life is a journey. From birth to finally leaving this world, how many trials and tribulations we have to go through before we can grow to leave with peace of mind and leave this love-hate world.

Most people always want to live a long life, always want to live a long life. And I think it's always a pity to have a long journey of life that doesn't achieve anything. Because no matter how long or short, life is like the four seasons, with its own rules.

What you have to do in each period cannot be put into the next stage to go through, otherwise, in the end, the old man will become regretful and feel very regretful. At every stage of life, there is a perfect time, and if you miss it, you won't have it again. Even though life is still there, the mind is not growing in energy.

Therefore, a person's life is a process of continuous growth and continuous improvement of one's own energy. This energy is not only the life itself, but also the inner mind. I often meet such people, and from the outside, they are really ordinary.

Most of us evaluate a person by giving impression points to the person's life performance and external image. But once we come into contact, we can feel their energy, or power, a power that is convincing, a force that cannot but be awe-inspiring. What kind of beings are they, and how are they so attractive.

They are also fresh lives, but they live very wonderfully, every stage is very distinct, and every step is very fulfilling. Therefore, when we come into contact with them, what is presented to us is not the surface of life, but the richness of life. It's not all smooth sailing and a good life.

If it is too smooth, the experience of life will be single, the connotation of life will be simple, and the quality of life will be light. I am not against good times, but from the perspective of improving the quality of life, adversity makes people stronger and more powerful in the face of reality. So, friend.

Don't complain, while you're young, experience more, and hit the wall more. The quality of life is heavy because of wrestling, and the journey of life is wonderful because of searching. Hopefully, these answers will help you a little

Remember to adopt it.