I can t afford to buy a house, my girlfriend doesn t have a house and doesn t get married, how can I

How much do you earn?

What city are you in?

How big are you going to buy, how big is the house you live in now?

A down payment of 3 achievements for a second-hand house can be bought.

The first-hand room is 2 percent.

Now credit cards and everything can be advanced tens of thousands.

Also, you can mortgage your own house as a down payment.

Use your brains, maybe it shouldn't be difficult to make a first payment.

Also, if you write the ** of the house purchase 2-3 percent higher when trading, maybe the down payment will not be a penny. Hey.

Let's just say that women nowadays are very realistic, and I am no exception. However, in the case of you, you have reached the point where you plan to get married, you can buy a house and make a down payment first (if you don't have money, you can let your parents pay it first, and then pay it back to them later). After discussing with your girlfriend, you will have a house and pay the rest together.

Now the two houses are very expensive, so you can only go to the suburbs to see them.

Hehe, I have a house, it's a demolition and a house, it's much more than my old house, and I don't worry about the house.

It is true that you have to have your own house when you get married, and it is inconvenient to rent a house, so it must not be your own.

If you have worked in the city for more than 3 years and must buy it, it is best to have a relationship.

Let's make money together I believe that the marriage will be stronger after working together.

After the down payment is paid together, the loan is repaid together.

You can pay the down payment first and pay it back with your wife.

01 Find out if it was her or her family's request to buy a house?

Why didn't you mention buying a house before, and only when it was time to get married did you want to buy a house? Did the girlfriend think of this situation herself, or did the family pick her up? If that's not your girlfriend's idea, then you're going to have to do the ideological work for her family.

02 Find out if your girlfriend really wants to buy a house, or is she just testing you?

What is the purpose of my girlfriend buying a house? If the other party is just trying to test your determination to get married, or to test how much sacrifice and dedication you are willing to make in order to be with the other party, you must withstand the test of your girlfriend at this time, otherwise it will really be useless.

03 You can discuss with your girlfriend and take half of the burden for one person.

If your girlfriend wants to buy a house before she wants to get married, you can discuss with the other party at this time whether you can afford half of the down payment by yourself, so that the difficulty of buying a house will be relatively reduced. After all, buying a house is not a small amount of money, and it is not so easy to scrape together.

04 Seek help from your family, don't give up.

If your girlfriend is willing to pay half of the burden with you, and you can't afford the down payment at this time, you may want to discuss it with your family again to see if they can support you. If you still can't buy a house after many efforts, or persuade your girlfriend to let go, then you really have to consider giving up the relationship at this time.

So be it, consume, when you have a house and get married, it's okay, you can afford it, if she can't afford it, then let her be, it means that she doesn't love you, a woman of such power, if you don't marry, maybe you won't have a good life after marriage, and it's even more painful! Marriage requires two people to work together, it's not all your fault, if not, let it go, as long as you are good enough, there will be girls who marry you without a house!

Consumed! Then work on it yourself. That's the only way to do it.

It's a good problem to be entangled, sympathize with it, and try to make yourself strong, this society is so realistic.

What's the matter, keep falling in love like this until you buy a house and get married!

If she loves you, she will either get married before she has a house, or she will work together to buy a house first.

A friend of mine thought so, and I asked her why she thought so, isn't it embarrassing that the house is expensive and disproportionate to the salary? But she said that if she can't buy a house, she can't live in a two-person world, and her boyfriend is incompetent. I said, you also know the current situation, the young people who have just graduated are all young people who have just entered the rivers and lakes, and how difficult it is to buy a house in the city!

She said: I don't care, I won't marry if I can't buy it anyway. I said, why is that?

First of all, show that you love her out of sincerity, then talk about the practical difficulties, and then show your determination and sincerity to love her, such as handing over the salary card, in short, touching her. If she is a good girl, she will accept you.