The girl who used to chase me rejected me, but now it s time to turn back?

I think there are two scenarios.

One is that she treats you as an emotional comfort, pulling you to chat when no one is around to chat, or being a transitional emotional confidant.

The second is that she treats you as an alternate, and if she breaks up with her boyfriend, let's see if there is still a possibility for someone who has pursued her before. I have a friend who is like this, she used to have a boyfriend, and she didn't agree to chase her, and then she broke up and contacted the boy who used to chase her, saying that she broke up.

Upstairs might as well be written as a post.

Show it to us.

Brother, first of all she doesn't like you.

Secondly, you must have the dignity of a man, and never be a substitute for other men.

Agree with the first floor, I have such a person around me, and she used to be my girlfriend.

Dude, don't think about her, she doesn't belong to you.

Such a woman just can't stand loneliness and lives a more realistic life, and I personally despise such people. Because there is a person around me who wants to hear me, I will tell you.

Upstairs made a mistake.,The woman turned out to have rejected the landlord... Not like it.

Now that I'm out of love, I want to find someone to rely on to talk to

Don't think of people so much, since she used to like you, and now she contacts you again, because she trusts you more and needs you to comfort you.

Text: Summer Rain. Figure Network.

From a girl's point of view, most girls don't actively pursue the boy they like.

So if you like a girl and guess that she is interesting to you, then take the initiative and pursue her boldly. Don't engage in tug-of-war, that will be psychological torment for yourself, and maybe it will make the girl you like painful.

When a girl rejects you once, twice, or even three times, you can take it as her test for you, after all, it is rare for a boy to chase a girl once or twice. In that fashionable saying: Let you easily catch up, and you won't cherish it!

But if a girl has been rejecting you (more than 5 times), then you have to seriously consider whether you are suitable for each other, and is it necessary to keep chasing you like this?

When I went to college again, there was a boy in the class, who was polite and cheerful, and he was very popular with girls!

During an extracurricular internship in the department, he was assigned to a group of very good girls, and during the whole internship, he didn't notice that they had too much contact.

After this guy came back, the whole person was in a wrong state, and he seemed very excited. Anyone with a discerning eye can see that he is tempted and likes that girl.

In the days that followed, he always looked for opportunities to deliberately contact that girl. There is no chance, he always deliberately creates opportunities to meet girls unexpectedly, which I admire him very much.

Later, he plucked up the courage to write a love letter to his girl expressing his affection (which seemed formal and romantic) and asked the girl's roommate to bring it to the girl. After waiting for 2 days after his inner torment, the love letter was returned in its original form, and it seemed that it had not been opened.

During that time, his spirits were sluggish, and we all felt distressed when we watched it suffer a lot of blows.

We asked, "What do you have to calculate?" Give up? ”

He: "I'm not going to give up, I'm sure she's testing me".

In the next 2 months, he found another opportunity to express it twice, but the girl politely refused.

A year later, a classmate inadvertently asked him, "What happened to you and that girl?" “

He smiled wryly and said: "Give up, don't like it is not like, it's useless to chase it for a long time; Maybe I'm a fool myself, and when she first rejected me, I should have understood that she didn't mean that to me. “

For the girl who keeps rejecting you, I suggest you still don't chase it, because she doesn't mean anything to you!

But if it means something to you, why should he reject you again and again and hurt you?

If that girl really cares about you, he won't bear to let you cry sadly alone.

Learn to let go, let go of others, and let go of yourself. The right person for you may be waiting for you at the next intersection of life!

The rejection of the confession, no matter what the reason, can only show that the side does not like you so much, but it does not mean that it is completely impossible. What you have to do is not to force the other party to be with you in the way of pursuit, but to use the way of attraction to make the other party take the initiative to like you and get close to you.