What is the importance of rejection?

Refuse to be categorical and graceful

Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you. When you learn to say no, although you may feel a little hurt or offended, at the same time you send a message to them:

You have the right to choose, and you respect those you say no, and you say no because you don't want to make a hasty promise, and you don't be so-so or too lazy to do it when it comes to fulfillment.

Dear, glad to answer for you. When you learn to say no, although you may feel a little hurt or offended, at the same time you also send a message to them: you have the right to choose, and you respect those you say no, and you say no because you don't want to make a hasty promise, and you won't be so-so or too lazy to do it.

Getting along with people is not a matter of not saying no to each other, and you can get a good relationship. Even if the relationship is good, you must know how to have a "sense of boundary" when getting along. Learn to say no, show your own clear attitude, and let the other party know your own principles and bottom line.

When I was a child, my parents often taught us to know how to help others, to be polite, to ask for this and that. Over time, we dare not have conflicts with others, do not know how to refuse other people's requests, and become a "good old man", sacrificing our own time and interests.

In the past few days, I have gone back to my hometown to visit my parents. It happened that the telecommunications company pulled customers to install surveillance in the village. I went back and forth to our house four times.

In the end, my father chose to pretend. A big reason is that it can't be wiped off the face. Because he doesn't know how to refuse.

My sister and I have already installed surveillance cameras in our home, and we can take pictures of the front door and the back door entering and exiting. That's more than enough.

But my father couldn't resist the communication of the telecommunication people again and again, and in a way, he felt that he was helping them. If the father can decisively refuse the first time and not give others room to imagine, then there will be no second, third, or fourth time.

In fact, there are many things like this in life, such as a neighbor borrowing your hair dryer, a colleague who often doesn't pay for a meal with you, and so on.

We must know our position, and we are not ambiguous, and we want to refuse but dare not refuse. Rejection is also an ability. And it's a necessary ability.

If a person does not know how to refuse, he may be ambiguous academically, professionally, and emotionally, and he does not know what he needs specifically.

So, if you won't say no, start learning now. When you learn it, you'll find that the world is a lot easier.

What principles should be followed in the rejection process? （a、b、c、d

a.Do not hurt BNot harsh cDon't dwellNot blurred.

Rejection is a science. Everyone often has to reject others or be rejected by others, and the rejection in interpersonal communication is not an ordinary rejection, but should reflect personal morality and Sun Xian's personal cultivation in the rejection. In general, the principles that should be followed in refusal are as follows.

Tell the truth. In the process of refusal, if you still want to maintain a good interpersonal relationship with the other party, you must adopt the tone of the same quarrel and deal with it by understanding the other party's feelings.

When some people reject others, because they feel embarrassed, they dare not tell the truth, so that the other party cannot figure out their true meaning, and there are many unnecessary misunderstandings.

In fact, in the process of communication, sometimes having to refuse, is something that everyone will encounter; Because of this, there are not many people who hurt friendships, but some people speak vaguely and ambiguously, which is easy to cause misunderstanding among others and cause the breakdown of their relationships.

Leave a way out for the other party. When you reject those who are self-righteous, who always like to stick to their own opinions, and think that they are virtuous and late to shoot wisely, you should think carefully. First of all, you must listen to the other person's words again from beginning to end.

When you listen carefully to what the other person has to say, then decide in your heart how to reject him and convince the other person.

Hello dear. 1. Clearly inform the other party of the reason It is undeniable that some people are born with the kind of person who likes to send others, today let you help him do this, tomorrow let you help him do which, one will let you go east, one will change the direction to let you go west, and the people who carry out the order are all fainted, and they don't know which order should be executed. 2. Clearly express your late refusal, which may bring harm to the other party to a certain extent, and such an injury is harmful, if it is not a particularly big thing, most of them should be forgiven.