If a boy takes the initiative to say that he is a scumbag, what does it mean?

A boy took the initiative to say that he was a scumbag, which means that this boy is looking for a way out for his flower heart before the relationship has started.

If one day he falls in love with his girlfriend and breaks up, then he will say, I am a scumbag. It's obviously a bit of a cynical attitude. When falling in love with this kind of boy, you still have to be cautious.

Then he may not be a real scumbag, maybe he has now realized his mistake and can realize that the person who says he is a scumbag must be slowly becoming better and better, and this man will definitely have a sense of responsibility.

Then he should have a good impression of you, and you may have already liked him, he is afraid that you will like him completely, afraid that he will hurt you, declare it to you first, afraid that in the end you will not accept it, or you will regret it in the end.

Three scenarios. 1 The conscience finds that it is reforming itself and really wants to take this relationship seriously.

2 A tactful refusal, I don't want to hurt you, I want you to stay away from him, and the scumbag is also a picky eater.

3 Willing to associate with you, but told you in advance that it would not end well.

This situation shows that the guy doesn't like you, just use this excuse to refuse to be with you, or refuse you to pursue her, you don't need to force to like someone who doesn't love you.

If a guy takes the initiative to say that he is a scumbag, he is also telling you that he is not suitable for a relationship, and his nature is difficult to change in such a short time.

I think I want to keep people who are close to him away from him! Of course, it may be true, but it is rare for a scumbag to admit that he is a scumbag.

The reason why the man shows that he is not a scumbag. It's because I'm afraid that women will misunderstand themselves.

Unless a man is very fond of a woman, it shows that the man cares a lot about the woman.

Summary. The boy said that you scumbag, how to reply.

Generally, most of the people who ask Liang Tan this question are not scum hidden mountain men. Scumbags will avoid this problem, they want to save face, and they will not admit that they are scumbags. disguised himself, for fear that others would know that he was a veritable scumbag.

Asking this question in the stove shows that he has been ridiculed by others, or that he is in a bad mood and has encountered something unhappy.

However, if others say that you are a scumbag, you can reply to others with humor, 1. We just don't have a standard Mandarin to get accurate, it's impossible for me to make such a mistake in standard Mandarin? But seriously, why do you call me a scumbag? You can't just use a buzzword, I tell you that I'm a learned man, and I know you're belittling me.

2. Of course, I am such a generous person and I will not blame you for applying what you have learned, but I don't think I am worthy of your studiousness. But fortunately, it's just a scumbag sock, not a swear word. I can still accept your cultivation.

In the future, learn more positive words, such as you are so handsome. I think I'm fit for that.

"Scumbag" is not a compliment for boys, and I believe that most boys don't want to be defined as a scumbag by girls. However, in reality, there are also boys who take the initiative to admit that they are scumbags, so why do boys take the initiative to admit that they are scumbags? What kind of mentality does a scumbag admit to being a scumbag?

Let's take a look.

In fact, whether a boy is a scumbag or not is often not something that the boy himself can define, it is more accurate to judge by the opposite sex who has been in contact with a boy or has a false hand or has interacted, if more than one girl comments on a boy scumbag, then the boy is probably a scumbag. If the reputation of "scumbag" is a boy's self-evaluation, then the "scumbag" spoken by different people may have different meanings, which may have the following situations: just jokes between friends or lovers; Some boys may be proud of being a scumbag and often say that they are scumbags; Lack of sense of responsibility and shirk responsibility for oneself; euphemistic way of refusing, etc.

If a boy admits that he is a scumbag, it may be that there is more than one person around him who says that he is a scumbag, he is used to the label of a scumbag, and he does not mind being labeled as a scumbag, of course, it is not excluded that some people are proud of scum. However, we can't ignore one thing, the scumbag admits that he may be a scumbag when he meets a girl he really likes, and he takes the initiative to put forward his shortcomings with a corrective mentality.

In any case, if a guy proposes that he is a scumbag, the girls still need to savor the meaning. Finally, I need to remind the majority of female friends that girls are often more likely to be hurt in the emotional road, don't fall into it because of the sweet words of boys, understand the truth of "love yourself first, then love others", and fall in love with wisdom to protect yourself.