Is being scum my own reason, being frequently scummed, is this my own reason or whose reason?

There are reasons for being deceived by scumbags. Sometimes it's not that they can't see the scumbag, it's just that they all fantasize that they can save the scumbag.

It's because I fantasize about myself too specially, thinking that I must be the terminator, and I can definitely save him from the dire situation.

Therefore, even if many girls know that they are "moths to the fire", they always have a "virgin" mentality, thinking that they will be his last girlfriend, and they can save him and make him a prodigal son, and even find reasons to excuse the "scum" behavior of the scumbag, and are willing to fall into the other party's "gentle trap" and cannot extricate themselves.

Even, some girls always feel that scumbags are special to themselves, greedy for warmth, lack of love and loneliness.

feels that he will be his special existence, it is a different fireworks, and he will always have a prodigal son to turn back one day, but the result is often just touching himself.

And this kind of psychology is just easy to fall into the routine of a scumbag. You think you're going to save the scumbag and let the scumbag love yourself well. But what the scumbag thought was that this woman had finally been tricked.

Because they never think that it is wrong for them to live as a scumbag, they don't think that their scum is sorry for anyone, they don't even want to change, they want to be a scumbag for the rest of their lives, so it is definitely unrealistic to let them change.

So, girl, don't be too naïve, maybe his last girlfriend thought the same way, that's not the same with you, you won't be the first, let alone the last.

For women, it is unrealistic for you to change this phenomenon, and it is unrealistic for you to try to save a scumbag, in fact, others can't change him at all, only he can change him.

If you are responsible for yourself, if you have a habit of cleanliness in your feelings, the most important thing you should do is to stay away from scumbags.

Being scum is never your own reason, it's the scum of your person. Improving your eyesight is the most important thing for yourself.

Not only for their own reasons but also for each other, since they can't be together, they should be put down as soon as possible, and it is not necessarily a bad thing to see that he will stop his loss as soon as possible, and it is difficult to find a lover and cannot be found.

It depends on the situation, sometimes it's just that you're too honest, and for some people, it's not that you don't love it, it's just that you don't have a sense of freshness, and you want to taste the outside. And for a real scumbag, he didn't hold that point at the beginning, so yes, no matter when he stays mysterious, it's always right.

There are their own reasons.

There are also reasons for the other side.

I can't discern others for my own reasons.

Someone else's reason may be the other person's.

Intentional set-up.

Deliberately let you drill in.

It's the other party's reason, don't put yourself too low.

It's my own reason, because I put more pressure on the other party in this relationship, or because I didn't recognize the other party's character, so I will do this.

It's your own reason, it may be that you have a bad eye, so you often encounter this situation, so you have to reflect on yourself.

It's your own reason, this may be because you give too much in the relationship, and it's also because you believe in the other party, so you will be scummed.

It must be the other party's reason, which means that the other party is a particularly bad person, and there is no affection for righteousness. will treat yourself like this. I will stay away from these people in my life.

I personally think that if you have been scumbag, you should find the problem from yourself, it may be your reason; You should be the kind of scum-prone physique, so be sure to improve yourself.

Then use your strength to prove that you are not a scumbag.

Shoot them, what the fuck are you afraid of.