Some girls always say that they have met scumbags, so is there a reason for girls?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-07
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    <> scumbag is a scumbag who needs to be exposed for a long time, or in some incidents to see the character and what accidents happen.

    After that, you can determine whether you are a scumbag.

    There is no intersection.

    and who can judge who is good and who is bad, the scumbag is not useless, there must be his attractive side.

    Also, don't always position men who don't have women as honest people, it's too subjective. It's gold that always shines, and women aren't all blind, they just choose what they like.

    I hate rhetoric and play routines, but I hate people who choke on talking and don't open which pot to mention, and it can even be said that some people have communication barriers and can't communicate normally at all, super boring, and there is no communication, how can you be sure that these people are not scum.

    1.First of all, we must understand what a scumbag is, in my eyes, doing things that hurt each other in the name of love is called scum. But now many girls seem to have amplified this concept, and they can't rationally distinguish between scumbags and straight men.

    For example, girls have menstrual cramps.

    When I was told to drink more hot water, and then my boyfriend went out to party with friends, this behavior is not reasonable, but it is not scum. The status quo is: as long as a boy does not achieve the level of the girl's psychological expectation, he will be said to be straight, and if it is serious, he will become scum.

    So first, love is mutual, and gender is not capricious capital. Don't magnify other people's mistakes, the inconsiderate nature of something is not a straight man, and a straight man is not a scumbag!

    a. The relationship is very uncomfortable and tangled. A normal relationship of love and affection is very comfortable. If you can't find any obvious problems in your relationship, you just feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable. Then you have to be vigilant.

    b. I feel very humble in this relationship, but feelings always triumph over reason. Some boys even call girls and come and go. When I was a little uncomfortable, I told myself that she actually still loves me, and I made up lies for myself, deceived myself, and there was hope in my heart, and the other party still loved me.

    It is often said that only women are sentimental, often cranky because of small things, and then make themselves particularly unhappy.

    In fact, everyone is wrong, it is not only women who have this characteristic, many men also have this habit, they often fall into contemplation because of some small things, as for the reason for this, it is naturally because they care too much about what others think.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes, after a girl encounters a scumbag once, she will reflect on herself, learn a lesson, and will not be deceived by a scumbag.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    There is a certain reason, because some girls like handsome and tall boys who can talk sweetly, and don't like boys who always don't like to talk, so the probability of meeting scumbags is higher.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, there is a reason for girls who always meet scumbags, and they are always attracted to such boys.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, some girls like the qualities of scumbags, so they always meet scumbags.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think there must be a reason for girls, if a girl doesn't casually agree to a boy's confession, then the probability of her meeting a scumbag will be greatly reduced.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, girls may take their feelings very seriously, or give wholeheartedly in their relationships, especially easy to trust others, and look very simple, this kind of girl will often meet scumbags and can change themselves.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think there are some problems with this kind of girl, first of all, she can't see people accurately, she can't tell the good from the bad, and she is too easy to believe in men's rhetoric, so that she is always deceived by scumbags!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There must be a certain reason for girls, and it is precisely because there are some reasons in girls that they attract this kind of scumbag.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course. These girls are not accurate in their own eyes, very frivolous, and very flirtatious, these girls don't love themselves, so they also have a certain reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, there are their own reasons, otherwise why don't others meet scumbags, will scumbags collectively harm such girls?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is a reason for this. It may be that there are a lot of problems with the girl's personality, and the girl's ability to discriminate is not very good.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. You can't be too complagent when you fall in love, otherwise you will meet someone unladylike. So what kind of person should you find to fall in love!

    In fact, people will heal their scars and forget the pain, just broke up with a scumbag, and when they fall in love again, they will involuntarily substitute some of their own misunderstandings, and they will go according to the standards of their predecessors when they find it, and the result is undoubtedly a scumbag again! We should learn from the pain, seriously reflect on the contradictions between us and our predecessors, and strive to avoid them next time, only in this way can we make progress and grow!

    You can't be too good when you fall in love, if you don't, you will meet someone unladylike. So what kind of person should Zheng Xun find to fall in love! In fact, people will get better and shout that they will forget the pain, just break up with a scumbag, and when they fall in love again, they will involuntarily substitute some of their own misunderstandings, and they will go according to the standards of their predecessors, and the result is undoubtedly a scumbag!

    We should learn from the pain, seriously reflect on the contradictions between us and our predecessors, and strive to avoid them next time, only in this way can we make progress and grow!

    The friends I just met are together, and after that, they will borrow money from me, which is going on.

    I didn't borrow it. Don't borrow, borrow money soon after getting along, and your character is somewhat suspicious;You are vigilant and sane <>

    Didn't. Later, he gave himself the stairs down, saying to test me, and try again.

    Okay;In the future, try to spend as much time as possible with each other, and get to know each other better before deciding to date.

    What temptation, how can there be this temptation?

    Don't believe this nonsense.

    Induce me to give him a piece.

    Regret dying. It shouldn't be long now, right?If you can, it's a waste for you to separate as soon as possible

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some girls will always encounter scumbags, because these girls may be too easily confused by the sweet words of some scumbags, these girls are generally more emotional, and may not have a rational analysis and treatment in terms of feelings, it is easy to be infected by appearances, and be moved by some sweet words of some scumbags and the actions of caring for them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is because these girls are always very emotional when they encounter feelings, and they will become particularly moved because of the other party's words, and they are also very simple, so they are easy to be deceived.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is a matter of this girl's personality, and her character is to like men who talk sweetly. If he had chosen those who were honest with him, he wouldn't have encountered such a thing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When a girl meets a scumbag, it can only be said that she is not ladylike, or that it is her own reason, some girls like scumbags because of their high emotional intelligence, they know the minds of girls, and they also know how to make them happy, so they face themselves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because before they fell in this relationship, they didn't know that their current boyfriend was a scumbag. Only these girls are really hurt and will regret it after seeing their boyfriend's true face.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't know how to identify a boy, such a girl is because she has no experience and doesn't know what kind of person this boy is, so she will always meet scumbags.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some girls always meet scumbags, which shows that today's girls fall in love, pay more attention to material things, and pay less attention to ability and character, which also shows that some men are really not responsible.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is never equality in love, scumbags have always existed, some men just don't have a sense of responsibility, they want to blindly ask for it, and they choose to break up decisively when they encounter a scumbag.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because some girls are too simple in the face of feelings, they obey each other's words, they will listen to each other's words, they are eager for the arrival of love, and they lose themselves.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The incorrect concept of love makes this girl always unladylike! If you are not serious enough about love, how can you ask others to be loyal to you? This is the reason why some girls always meet "scumbags".

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is because these girls can't know people clearly, and they don't know people well, and they can't correctly distinguish scumbags, so there will always be such results.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Girls will always meet scumbags because of a lack of self-confidence and security, that is, they belong to the scum-sucking physique.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Because these girls are very simple and kind, they don't choose men, and they are especially easy to be deceived.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is a song that sings: "The heart that can't be obtained is always in turmoil, and the favored person will always have no nuclear fear." A woman with no bottom line usually turns good men into scumbags, because they love too much, and they are always tolerant and tolerant of men without a bottom line, so they will turn good men into scumbags.

    Because people are like this, the easier it is to get something, the more they don't cherish it, the easier it is to get something, the more they take it for granted, the more women have no bottom line to forbear, the more they will be unscrupulous, because in their opinion, all the practices of a woman are due, no matter what he does, it is impossible for a woman to leave him.

    Women who are not independent are usually targeted by scumbags.

    In reality, you will find women who always complain that they always have a bad branch and dig up a scumbag, they are almost always non-independent women, and they always like to rely on people.

    Because the scumbag likes women who have no sense of security the most, because this kind of woman is the best to control, he only needs to give this woman a certain sense of security in the early stage, and then when this woman begins to rely on him, then he will succeed.

    The scumbag doesn't like the most is those who are particularly independent, because they don't have the confidence to take down such a woman at all, because he can do these women's things, and independent women don't care at all and can be self-sufficient.

    So if you want to avoid scumbags, then please be independent, rely on men for everything, and don't think that you can't live after leaving men.

    Women who don't like to talk about money are usually targeted by scumbags.

    Scumbags like nothing more than talking about money with women, so they always find all kinds of reasons to avoid the topic of money. A woman who doesn't like to talk about money and is particularly pure in love is usually targeted by scumbags, because in the eyes of scumbags, not only will this kind of woman not pay any price, but they may even be upside down.

    For scumbags, those women who will only give, but will not take the initiative to ask for it, are their favorite women, because these women are particularly easy to deceive, easy to empty gloves white wolf, why wouldn't he do it?

    In reality, many women often complain: "There is no good man in the world, and I am unlucky, so I will always meet scumbags."

    But in my opinion, women always encounter scumbags, not because women are unlucky, nor because there are no good men in the world, but because they have various characteristics and actively attract scumbags, so they can't get rid of scumbags.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    1.There are many ex-girlfriends, and each time the relationship is not long, and the next girlfriend will be seamlessly connected, which will make people feel that this guy is not serious or even perfunctory about his relationship.

    2.Clever words, always coax girls to be happy, but they will not treat their girlfriends sincerely, even if they have girlfriends, they will not delay flirting with other girls. I don't know how to avoid suspicion.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    These people are generally more attentive, and at the same time will have a lot of girlfriends, and they are not too concerned about everyone, but the opposite sex is particularly high.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Some girls like scumbags, not because of how attractive they are, but because they know what girls expect from their feelings, and make full use of this expectation to create an illusion to deceive girls' feelings. The commonly used routines are generally the three types of flim tongue, hanging appetite and if you leave.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The more scum a man is, the more he knows how to make you happy.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't understand the root cause of his kindness to himself.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Why do some girls just suck scum?

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Third, I am not good enough to attract excellent men. For those girls who always encounter scumbags, they will also have some shortcomings, which may be that they have no shining points in themselves, and can only attract mediocre boys. All boys who have some pursuits will like those girls with brains, so if girls want to stay away from scumbags, they must make themselves good enough, so that they can attract like-minded boys and find their own love.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think there are some problems with girls as well. The girl's own vision is also problematic, she doesn't see people very accurately, and the girl herself is not at ease, she always goes to nightclubs and bars, and the probability of meeting a scumbag is relatively high.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Girls themselves also have certain problems, that is, they don't see others clearly, they can't see people with their eyes, and they are easily deceived.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think so. These girls have a problem with their vision, and they are too simple, and they are always deceived by scumbags.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's a matter of girls' vision, and there are many girls who can't distinguish between good and bad boys. Nowadays, bad boys are more sought after by girls, and scumbags are not only handsome but also have high emotional intelligence, and they also have various skills.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The girl herself is also problematic, he will not analyze things, he will only trust others to be simple-minded.

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