Encountering scumbags often, is it my own problem?

Yes, because you don't know enough about people, and you are too soft-hearted, you always believe what the other person says, and you like the same kind of person, this kind of person is generally better at deceiving people, and you don't recognize the other person correctly.

It's not your own problem, you should believe that the person you really are right hasn't come yet, you shouldn't think like this, it's not right to think like this.

The places where scumbags often haunt are nightclubs, bars, KTV, and gyms! When you change your habits and don't go to these places often, you will avoid meeting scumbags, and you must also get rid of the problem of taking advantage of you, because scumbags take a fancy to you and keep sending you red envelopes to let you take the bait!

I think so, it may be that you have a bad eye and like some scumbag qualities.

Why do I keep meeting scumbags? Is there something wrong with me? When every girl falls in love, she looks forward to growing old with the person she likes, and hopes that person can treat herself sincerely, but some girls have always been entrusted to others when they are in love.

I think that girls keep encountering scumbags when they are in love, not because of their own character, but because of their preferences.

1. Your hobbies make you always look at some scumbags.

Every girl has their own ideal type, some girls want to be gentle boys, and some girls are outgoing boys who like to talk freely. Some girls keep running into scumbags, and that's because of the type of guy they like。For example, some girls especially like boys who can be sultry and look handsome.

And the generally sultry-looking handsome boy will impress the love of many people of the opposite sex. When a boy gets a lot of friends of the opposite sex who like him, his five mysteries will come out, they generally don't end up with a person, they feel that they can get a lot of girls like it is his style, and they are proud to be able to catch up with many girls. Most of such men are scumbags, but you happen to love such men, so you become a scumbag harvester.

Second, your attitude towards your boyfriend may also cause your boyfriend to become a scumbag.

Some men are not scumbags when they are in a relationship with you, but your attitude when they are in a relationship with you makes him a scumbag. For example, if you control him everywhere, you have to limit him in everything, so that he cannot have his own thoughts, so that he cannot do what he wants to do. This is something that a normal man can't accept, so when he sees that other girls are good to her, he betrays your feelings all at once.

I think the best way to become a scumbag harvester is to observe more before dating, see what his personal behavior is, and make a decision later.

It's not necessarily a problem with putty, it may have something to do with your personality, some girls are too kind and have little social experience, so the man can give a little benefit to him.

It may be because you are too simple, it is easy to believe in others, and it is easy to entrust your sincerity with others; Not necessarily.

First of all, you have to change your personality as a love brain, and you must have your own judgment in the face of feelings, don't believe other people's words casually, don't lose yourself in relationships, and don't just look at people.

Establish your own correct three views, but also have your own requirements, be a rational person, people who don't like should refuse, and should first understand the other party's character, three views and quality are no problem before going to the relationship, you can understand the other party's circle of friends.